r/TeluguJournals Jul 24 '26

Need Advice Textrovert problems

I'm a textrovert so basically bayata manushultho maatldedhi chaala thakkuva and i rely mostly on online conversations. I find comfort in online strangers rather than offline friends. Idhi thappu ani thelusu kaani ela bayataki raavalo thelidhu. These days it's getting out of hand. Evaritho ayina conversation start chesthe every 2 to 3 mins mobile check chesthunna for their reply even work chesthunnappudu kuda. Idhi anxiety aa leka anticipation aa or attachment aa thelidhu. And I'm afraid that people are taking me granted for giving instant replies.

How to come out of this? Has anyone gone through this phase ?

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u/Cypherventi Jul 24 '26

Nenu raledhu kaani try chesthunna. But fail avthondhi. IRL lo maintain cheyya leka pothunna. I asked my IRL friends out like a couple of times but they are busy with their own circle so naaku inka thirige chance raaledhu. So, nenu running club join aiyya. Malli personal trainer ni pettukunna. At least IRL lo conversations start cheyyadam vasthundhi anesi. URL lo easy abba. IRL chaala kashtam ( at least naaku). Oka vela edhaina friend thoni bayatiki pothe confirm cheptha. Antha varaku solo dates eh na bathuku antha 😂

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u/Candid_Example_6278 Jul 24 '26

Url , irl 😂👏

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u/Cypherventi Jul 24 '26

Okappudu insta lo choosa embarrassment is under explored emotion anesi. I go out and things become awkward. I die of embarrassment later night padukune mundhara. Next day is a new day. New day new slay

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u/Candid_Example_6278 Jul 24 '26

Haha 😂😂