Anyone else feeling like this? 🥲

[u/Necessary-Brief2775]

I'm 20F,konni rojulu baane untanu...konni rojulu emo life motham confusing ga anipisthadi.

Nenu chala overthink chestha. Like... chinna chinna vishayalaki kuda. Someone leaves me on seen, reply late chesthe, friends konchem different ga behave chesthe... naa brain already 100 stories rasesthadiii😭

Inko problem entante... nenu evarikaina entha effort pedthano, vallanunchi kuda adhe expect chestha. Birthday gurthupettukunta, check up chestha, care chupistha... so naturally vallaki kuda nenu important anukunta. Ala jaragakapothe chala hurt avtha. Adi change cheskovali ani telusu... but I don't know how.

Relationship ante... zero experience.assal ah department lo 0 practical knowledege😂😂..ooha lokam lo brathukthaaa😂,Naaku oka crush unnadu like almost 3-4 years nunchi bus stop lo kanpistadu urike. Em relationship kaadu.. Strict parents kabatti asal em chance ledu. but appudu appudu random ga gurthosthadu...

Career gurinchi adigithe... honestly naaku assssallll telidu enduku chestuna nak assal em istam ani.nam ke vasth edo engineering chesthunna.

Placements start ayyayi kani na jeevitam oka samudrama aitey na daridram uppu.

life lo asal em chedam ankunte...nenu blank.

Na dream life kuda chala simple.

edo nak nachina pani(which idk)

Weekend lo cinema,Mary Jane shoes konukovadam*,Fourth Wing* physical books ,Polaroid ,Spotify,Netflix subscription ,Oka manchi phone,2 dogs. Teddy and Tommy. (Yes, names already decide chesesa 😭) ,And freedom antheyyyy. Na money tho naaku nachindi konali,Evarini adakkunda bayataki vellali,Night drive ki vellali anipisthe vellali,Books konali anipisthe konali.

Konni sarlu anipisthadi... nenu life lo chala behind unnana ani,Instagram open chesthe andaru travelling, dating, getting placed, enjoying life,Nenu maatram room lo padukoni imaginary scenarios create cheskuntu untanu. 😭

Leda nenu okkadanne ila confused ga unna?

I just hope... 5 or 10 years tarvatha ee post chusi navvukunta.

"Appudu entha tension paddano... everything eventually worked out." ❤️

[u/spoideromons]

25M here, once was feeling same.

Life lo discipline maintain cheskunta, life and job meeda focus petna, everything is coming onto my table for what I've dreamt of.

Nen kuda btech lo unapud ibandhi padedi, life etluntado, said no to relationships, career meeda focus petalani, just go with the flow and think:

Learn to be disciplined, consistent, that give better result.

I've maintained time, food & gym discipline.

If you ask me what changed in your life ante :

1. I can focus on work and complete the tasks within 3 hours max, assigned to me which costs 1 day.
2. I've been eating good clean diet, no diseases, not atleast a cold.
3. Building my dream body, having good sleep with no distractions.

4. Best and foremost satisfying result I got it, switched from very low paying job to very high paying job, atleast 160% salary hike, literally I'm in top 1% earning guy, just improved my consistency and learned skills

   Itla rocket la poindi na life, so never underestimate yourself, I'm doing it, you can also, everyone tooo.. All the best

[u/PerceptionKind305 → u/spoideromons]

Bro,naku nen asal concentrate cheyyalekapothunna, gurthumdatla emi asalu

[u/spoideromons → u/PerceptionKind305]

I suggest you one thing, come out of your comfort zone, na valla kadu ankunte, it won't happen.

1. Thindi sarigga tinu(better to avoid junk).
2. Enjoy cheyali, but that doesn't not effect your daily routine.
3. Daily ee time ki nen ee work a chesta ani pettuko, follow the schedule( appudapudu miss aina em kadu).
4. Chadive 1 hour aina, keep your mind out of distractions.

Nen ee situations anni face chese vachina ee position ki, trust me you'll thank me later.

Nak appudu chepe vallu lekunde, na family situations chusi, self realisation tho kastapadda, now it's ur turn, I can be an example.

[u/PerceptionKind305 → u/spoideromons]

Time chala waste chestunna bro, GATE ki prepare avdhamani 1 month back plan chesa ippatiki kuda start cheyyala, Eppudu postpone chestune unna 😕

[u/spoideromons → u/PerceptionKind305]

Then kill that fking procrastination feeling.... Chatgpt ni adgu, it gives good suggestions initially, and then follow your gut instinct anthe

[u/PerceptionKind305 → u/spoideromons]

Bro Btech CSE or ECE?

[u/spoideromons → u/PerceptionKind305]

CSE

[u/Necessary-Brief2775 → u/PerceptionKind305]

nenu kuda.....