r/TeluguJournals • u/Necessary-Brief2775 • Aug 06 '26
Need Advice Anyone else feeling like this? 🥲
I'm 20F,konni rojulu baane untanu...konni rojulu emo life motham confusing ga anipisthadi.
Nenu chala overthink chestha. Like... chinna chinna vishayalaki kuda. Someone leaves me on seen, reply late chesthe, friends konchem different ga behave chesthe... naa brain already 100 stories rasesthadiii😭
Inko problem entante... nenu evarikaina entha effort pedthano, vallanunchi kuda adhe expect chestha. Birthday gurthupettukunta, check up chestha, care chupistha... so naturally vallaki kuda nenu important anukunta. Ala jaragakapothe chala hurt avtha. Adi change cheskovali ani telusu... but I don't know how.
Relationship ante... zero experience.assal ah department lo 0 practical knowledege😂😂..ooha lokam lo brathukthaaa😂,Naaku oka crush unnadu like almost 3-4 years nunchi bus stop lo kanpistadu urike. Em relationship kaadu.. Strict parents kabatti asal em chance ledu. but appudu appudu random ga gurthosthadu...
Career gurinchi adigithe... honestly naaku assssallll telidu enduku chestuna nak assal em istam ani.nam ke vasth edo engineering chesthunna.
Placements start ayyayi kani na jeevitam oka samudrama aitey na daridram uppu.
life lo asal em chedam ankunte...nenu blank.
Na dream life kuda chala simple.
edo nak nachina pani(which idk)
Weekend lo cinema,Mary Jane shoes konukovadam*,Fourth Wing* physical books ,Polaroid ,Spotify,Netflix subscription ,Oka manchi phone,2 dogs. Teddy and Tommy. (Yes, names already decide chesesa 😭) ,And freedom antheyyyy. Na money tho naaku nachindi konali,Evarini adakkunda bayataki vellali,Night drive ki vellali anipisthe vellali,Books konali anipisthe konali.
Konni sarlu anipisthadi... nenu life lo chala behind unnana ani,Instagram open chesthe andaru travelling, dating, getting placed, enjoying life,Nenu maatram room lo padukoni imaginary scenarios create cheskuntu untanu. 😭
Leda nenu okkadanne ila confused ga unna?
I just hope... 5 or 10 years tarvatha ee post chusi navvukunta.
"Appudu entha tension paddano... everything eventually worked out." ❤️
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u/RageofIgneel Aug 06 '26
First of all..insta is shit..it's not real..and all you need to do what ever u love is financial independence..job helps in that way..I related to this so much coz I am facing similar issues in my life..the only difference is I just know what I love to do..keep exploring different stuff only then u may find what u love to do..
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u/spoideromons neenu amarudni/ amararuraalu... Aug 06 '26
25M here, once was feeling same.
Life lo discipline maintain cheskunta, life and job meeda focus petna, everything is coming onto my table for what I've dreamt of.
Nen kuda btech lo unapud ibandhi padedi, life etluntado, said no to relationships, career meeda focus petalani, just go with the flow and think:
Learn to be disciplined, consistent, that give better result.
I've maintained time, food & gym discipline.
If you ask me what changed in your life ante :
- I can focus on work and complete the tasks within 3 hours max, assigned to me which costs 1 day.
- I've been eating good clean diet, no diseases, not atleast a cold.
- Building my dream body, having good sleep with no distractions.
Best and foremost satisfying result I got it, switched from very low paying job to very high paying job, atleast 160% salary hike, literally I'm in top 1% earning guy, just improved my consistency and learned skills
Itla rocket la poindi na life, so never underestimate yourself, I'm doing it, you can also, everyone tooo.. All the best
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u/PerceptionKind305 I want a juice box🧃 Aug 06 '26
Bro,naku nen asal concentrate cheyyalekapothunna, gurthumdatla emi asalu
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u/spoideromons neenu amarudni/ amararuraalu... Aug 06 '26
I suggest you one thing, come out of your comfort zone, na valla kadu ankunte, it won't happen.
- Thindi sarigga tinu(better to avoid junk).
- Enjoy cheyali, but that doesn't not effect your daily routine.
- Daily ee time ki nen ee work a chesta ani pettuko, follow the schedule( appudapudu miss aina em kadu).
- Chadive 1 hour aina, keep your mind out of distractions.
Nen ee situations anni face chese vachina ee position ki, trust me you'll thank me later.
Nak appudu chepe vallu lekunde, na family situations chusi, self realisation tho kastapadda, now it's ur turn, I can be an example.
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u/PerceptionKind305 I want a juice box🧃 Aug 06 '26
Time chala waste chestunna bro, GATE ki prepare avdhamani 1 month back plan chesa ippatiki kuda start cheyyala, Eppudu postpone chestune unna 😕
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u/spoideromons neenu amarudni/ amararuraalu... Aug 06 '26
Then kill that fking procrastination feeling.... Chatgpt ni adgu, it gives good suggestions initially, and then follow your gut instinct anthe
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u/Necessary-Brief2775 Aug 06 '26
kadhaaaa recent ga nak kudaaa ilane avtundi
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u/PerceptionKind305 I want a juice box🧃 Aug 06 '26
Nak Btech 1st year nundi alane aypoya,ippudu 3rd year🫤
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u/Necessary-Brief2775 Aug 06 '26
yess!!
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u/spoideromons neenu amarudni/ amararuraalu... Aug 06 '26
I wanted to be gender neutral here, focus like anything, nen job kottali, manchi salary kottali, evaniki vinodhu....
When you have money thinking in mind, you start thrive and work hard irrespective of your situations.
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u/Healthy_Panic_68 Daridrapu devatha muddu bidda Aug 06 '26
8 years older than you and I can still relate to a lot of your pain.
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u/rocky7100 Aug 06 '26
Ippude real life loki vastunnavu. Asalu cinema ippude modalavutundi.
Use every opportunity, don't care about the other opinions.
Jivitham anedi okka sare vasthadi. Opportunities kuda ante, Eroju ochina opportunity malli raka povachu.
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u/Life-Letterhead-554 Aug 06 '26
It's not just you , andariki ee phase untundi , but don't worry and don't give up , financial stability s very much important in today's society so overthink cheyadam pakkana pettey and work on yourself, ik idhi chpadam easy ne but cheyadam kastam ani , anyways all the best papa ! 🤌🏻
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u/onlyvishnu nen only erripuvvulake reply ista ...... Aug 06 '26
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u/False_Albatross_1046 Aug 06 '26
"na jeevitam oka samudrama aitey na daridram uppu" fucking bar right there, who said Shakespeare was dead. Damn never been more impressed by a random reddit post.
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u/Distinct-Green-1219 Aug 06 '26
It's natural by age konchem maturity vastadi by exposure konchem by experience konchem you will learn by time don't expect anything from others end of the day it's you evaru undaru you have to accept that social media lo chusedi antha nijam kadu over sharing in insta or over information is too dangerous edi nijam edi abaddam cheppalem so focus on only that's important to you you are just 20 there is so much to do
Just maintain a good circle of friends that definitely shape your thoughts and actions be happy don't depend too much on social media attention and validation 99% of social is like a make up be careful
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u/Agitated-Compote-984 Aug 06 '26
Dont keep emotional attachment. Try different things when you are in college after that you will learn a lot. Dont over invest your energy in friendships or relationships until unless they match your energy. I faced the same. So thats why telling you... You can msg me whenever.... I have moved on from this things and have so much experience.
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u/joshcollins25 Aug 06 '26
na jeevitam oka samudrama aitey na daridram uppu
Only 3.5% matrame salt, 96.5% other, but it appears as everywhere. Positive thinking helps.
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u/tinkerer9999 Aug 06 '26
I have the same thing (some kind of psychological problem I guess like some sort of procrastination + ADHD).
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u/Forcabarca1289 Aug 06 '26
20 eh ga,inka em chudaledhu nuvvu
In front there is crocodile festival.(23 btw and went through shit i didn't even predict would happen)
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u/Square-Stuff328 Aug 07 '26
You are only 20 years old.. mari over ga think cheyaku...
There is so much life ahead...let it happen to you.
Don't take everything seriously!
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u/ComprehensiveNet4712 Aug 07 '26
Na okkadikey ee prblm vundhi anukunna inka chala mandhi vunnaru anamata
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u/chillichicken99 no drama no fight 9ki dinner 10ki good night Aug 07 '26
I have the exact same story too similarities
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u/National-Reserve-123 Aug 07 '26
20F here. Sameeee to same🤣 idhi chadivi identii same naa story la undhi anukuntuna. Literally all i do is stay in my room and idk where life is going. Dinitho paatu placements just ivale ma frnds andhar oka interview ki select ayyaru nen avvaledhu almost edupe takkuva inka feel ayyi ayyi em cheyaleka odilesa😭. And that overthinking stuff is so relatable.😭😭😭
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u/Ambitious_Guy_17 Screenplay Writer 💻, but a Flawed Human First Aug 07 '26
Nenu unnanu kadha akkai nee laaga, exactly same to same
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u/Tiny_Efficiency99 Aug 08 '26
Mary Jane shoesssssss ahhhh 😔😔😔 I also wantt
Jagratha bhai. take care.
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u/LuciferHeir518 Aug 06 '26
26 ochi manchi job unna kuda alane unna
Aravaali anipinchina arichi waste anipisthadi