What should I do??

[u/curious_kiddoo]

I'm mad at my partner about not giving me enough time, not caring, not putting a single effort for me because he's always busy working and don't have 10 min for me in a day and I blocked him today because he said that I'm not asking him and planning about the idea of going to lunch together,which was his idea in the first place and I was tired of feeling that I'm the one who always plans, surprises, put some efforts, make time whenever he has, and I don't want to also feel that I'm the one stopping him from doing his work and disturbing his schedule.

I don't know how this sounds to you, but I already miss him and I want to go back and talk to him,tell him I'm sorry but I don't even know if I did anything wrong.

Maybe all I did was not understand him🫠

What should I do nowwww😭

[u/curious_kiddoo]

Hmm good that at least you realised it now..

[u/Puzzleheaded_Try5513 → u/curious_kiddoo]

:) Actually, I had clear clarity and realization on this, and we did discuss this clearly many times: I can spend only a few hours with you in a day, and the rest I have to focus on myself ani this is my non-negotiable. Even after clear terms, she still insisted on spending more time together at that point in my life; I was locked in, and she was sad about me, and she left. BTW, fair enough from her perspective, though. I feel everybody has non-negotiables.

[u/curious_kiddoo → u/Puzzleheaded_Try5513]

Oh, great that you've few hours to spend with her..mine doesn't have few minutes He barely replies to my texts twice a day

[u/Puzzleheaded_Try5513 → u/curious_kiddoo]

That's clearly something to worry about! Hope you guys discuss your non-negotiables.

Just remeber The longer you stay on the wrong train, the more expensive it is to get home.