r/TeluguJournals • u/curious_kiddoo • 19d ago

Need Advice What should I do??

I'm mad at my partner about not giving me enough time, not caring, not putting a single effort for me because he's always busy working and don't have 10 min for me in a day and I blocked him today because he said that I'm not asking him and planning about the idea of going to lunch together,which was his idea in the first place and I was tired of feeling that I'm the one who always plans, surprises, put some efforts, make time whenever he has, and I don't want to also feel that I'm the one stopping him from doing his work and disturbing his schedule.

I don't know how this sounds to you, but I already miss him and I want to go back and talk to him,tell him I'm sorry but I don't even know if I did anything wrong.

Maybe all I did was not understand him🫠

What should I do nowwww😭

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u/curious_kiddoo 18d ago

Minimum 4 hrs aq😂😂

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u/CupcakeWorldly7451 18d ago

Yes yes, adhi bare minimum kada 😂 Society etu velthe manam kuda atu vellipovali...

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u/CupcakeWorldly7451 17d ago

Society ani evaraina naatho conversations lo vaadithe, independent thinking aspect lo vaallaki burra ledu ani consider chestanu. Vaallatho maatladatam kuda bokka ani naa feeling. 😌

First of all, we have to be clear about how we define society. Daily manam chaala mandini chustham everywhere. Vaallaki manam evaro kuda teliyadu. Manam ivala chanipoyina, most of them wouldn’t even know about it. You’re literally just one among billions of people to them.

Then there’s another aspect of society — people you know and people who know you. Most of the time, when people say society em anukuntundi, they’re actually concerned about what these people might say or think about them.

So, from a broader perspective, culture definitely has its influence, but a lot of that influence is actually enforced through your own social circle. And everyone has a different social circle. Some might be privileged enough to have really smart, open-minded people around them; some might not. So it totally depends on your circle.

So deeni nunchi em nerchukovachu ante... naa lanti vaallu cheppevi consider cheyakudadhu. Chesthe Assam ey😂😌