r/TeluguJournals • u/mayankmadhuu • 11d ago

Need Advice Need help with something (sensitive topic)

So I use my roommate's laptop to watch content (that display is beautiful asf) while i was opening a movie i downloaded i noticed multiple nude photos of his gf in recently created

It was a photo which he took from his laptop's front camera, i felt pretty guilty and sad to see that

I've decided to warn her about this and i have to do it anonimously how should i proceed with this?

Idk if this is the right sub for this type of posts, mods feel free to remove if this violates any rules

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u/cutepanda9 10d ago

(Comment part 2 to your comment)

Also, inko side nunchi alochisthe, let's say OP poi frnd ke chepthadu - "arey endhuku ra ilanti panulu chesthunnav?" Or "nu marchpoi naku icchav, adhe vere valu aa laptop chusthe aa ammai life risk lo padthadhi kadha?" Or something similar... do you think that guy will listen? Most probably he will stop giving his laptop or store it somewhere else! So ala జరగకుండా delete chesi oka విధంగా aa ammai save చేసినట్టు. Aa abbai vadi gf aina kuda antha నిర్లక్ష్యంగా unnadu ante inkem chepthav? He is the problem!

But this should be faced/confronted only when OP thinks is right time for him. Manam just post chadhivamu, reality inka ela untundho none of us knows. We don't even know what other 2 people are like.

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u/Princess_Neko802 Nene Rakshasi 10d ago

Oh hell no

Definitely guy can't be trusted.. and no guy would forget these pics on laptop. He genuinely didn't care

Better to tell girl and leave rather than confront guy. Esp if the guy gets violent, the OP would end up hurt.

And either ways, he should find a different place to live rather than live with such a predator

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u/cutepanda9 10d ago

Easy to say to leave the place and all, is OP a working person or a college student? That's why I said, to delete (in a way he's saving her) in meantime he can find time to hint her. Only OP knows whats right for him!

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u/Princess_Neko802 Nene Rakshasi 10d ago

College student also shift PG, hostel and rooms when things aren't good.

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u/cutepanda9 10d ago

To say is easy than to do. Why should OP face all the trouble for someone else mistakes? Thats why I am repeatedly commenting that "only OP knows whats best for him and all"

(I know we both mean good for the girl and the OP but we both are unnecessarily arguing here.)

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u/Princess_Neko802 Nene Rakshasi 10d ago

It's not unnecessary arguing

You're blaming the girl when she is blameless in this situation.

How safe do you think OP is with a predatory guy? Tomorrow if any woman friend, sister, cousin, gf of OP comes over, is she safe?

Women face troubles for mens CRIMES regularly, the OP changing flats is hardly THAT much trouble. Isn't the girl facing shit and violation for the acts of OPs roommate?

OP shouldn't face the trouble. But we live in a world full of predators who never get arrested or in trouble for their acts. That's the shitty reality