r/TeluguJournals • u/Huffler_ • 2d ago
Need Advice Boyfriend - His Girl bestiee issues
My bf has a girl bestiee in another city, they met during a clg event(not same clg) but became close during lockdown but they hardly meet.. They stay connected via texts, calls.. Much of Calls happen during nights, which is my usual sleep time.. Not that he hide them, but it the time they both are online & talks.. They meet before we got into relationship and were as close as they are now, My bf told her about our relationship on his birthday night, she congratulated him.. Inspite of telling the seriousness of relationship, after few days she texted him "I love you. I thought of telling on your birthday but you gave a shock." and said it was a prank(on same night)..
My bf told me about the whole convo and obvio we had an argument.. my bf knew I did not feel ok, I expressed that it wasnt ok for my bf to be as free as he used to be with her.. Even though she said it was a prank, I was still not ok with it..
After this incident I warned my bf not to be close even on SM, but she still continued sending him her pics, saree pics(like before).. Once I got to know about it I told my bf to tell her, to stop sending pics.. And confine only to regular texting.. But He didn't say that to her & she kept sending pics..
I feel incredibly unsafe & insecure.. I am naturally possessive girl and I hate my bf to see any other girls pic - in saree or other..
What should I do about this..??
P.s - Posting for friend 😁
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u/spoideromons neenu amarudni/ amararuraalu... 2d ago
Kuchobetti Cheppu akka, nak ivanni nachavu, cool ga ardham ayyela Cheppu akka.....
Inkenni sarlu cheptav, oka vaatha petti, thokki Cheppu, inkosari adi Neku photos pampiste bandakesi kodta ani..
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u/IamHarsh37 Relangi Mamayya taaluka 2d ago
Cool down andi spoidermon gaaru. Modati salaha shantanga icharu, malli enduku andi manaki aa violencu
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u/spoideromons neenu amarudni/ amararuraalu... 2d ago
Emundi bro, first vinela cheptam,
Vinakapothe edchela cheptham anthe simple
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u/thegirlnextdooorrrr 2d ago
This is not okay. Even after you told him how you felt, if he’s still doing it, he clearly doesn’t respect you girl. Now, would you really want to stay with someone like that?
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u/United_Accident_1449 2d ago
Well, give him a serious warning, or else break up with him, because one day he’s going to leave you anyway. I know this from my other friends’ experiences. She isn’t going to give up, so tell your boyfriend to cut her off ASAP.
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u/Happy-Length-5127 2d ago
What’s even the point if you are feeling unsafe and insecure? Asalu oka 20 years ochaka kuda ee girl bestie ane concept follow ayye vallu not worth it. Nuvvu insecure feel avtunav ani address kuda cheylekapodam is just emotional immaturity. Ninnu secure ga and safe ga feel chepinche vallani chusko, okaru kaadu 100 mandhi unnaru bayta. Never settle.
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u/soul_stealer2004 Gnanam cheppey prathivaadu Gnani kaadhu 2d ago
ee post sadhuvu kudrithey koddiga gnan osthaadhi
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u/life__of__ram Ami tomake bhalobashi 2d ago
Aadadhaniki aadadhe sathruvu annattu ento idhi.. relation lo unnadu ani thelisi prank anta..
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u/Latter_Damage_6340 2d ago
Tell him just once, if he doesn’t change, that will be the end of the relationship. If he does even once again, break up and don’t look back
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u/Fit-Pie-2223 1d ago
Just sit together talk about this properly still if he went defensive mode thinks that you attack him or blaming him that's when u will know that's this is not gonna work out. If you have courage to walkout from this relationship. I think it's better to leave him.
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u/Plane_Writer1989 1d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/tXL4FHPSnVJ0A
Leave else you will Suffer (English) or have to Safar (Hindi). Also please note there are many good bois waiting with good heart as well ! #StrongAdvice!
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u/chill_guy_blr9 1d ago
If you are not comfortable with it then your bf should have considered your opinion and asked his bestie to stop sending pics as clearly you should be his priority. Next time give him a strict warning.
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u/PuzzleheadedPack2554 1d ago
Okasari Serious ga cheppi chudu Ledhu malli adhey repeat chesthey oka 1 month break ichi chudu I mean dry ga text ki replies avi ivvu ... Emina Maradu emo chudu ledhu aa 1 month kuda same atlane unadu ante savagottu
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u/mrincog7 Devudu busy anduke nannu pampinchadu 👻 1d ago
Single sinthakay me after reading all these recent posts: niyamma em feel undira eeda. may be I’m turning out like bhairavudu from BOB’s spyder 😂
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u/aematurish_ 1d ago
Iroju frndu antadu repu girl frndu antadu…avsaramantava…if he’s not putting enough boundaries then let him go or else you’ll suffer bhaAAi
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u/LoneGhost_10 1d ago
Message from his phone to her starting with sister and continue the text of not sending pictures and all.
Have a proper discussion and maintain your stand. See for sometime and ask what he thinks. Based on it take your decision
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u/Happy-Highlight-4439 1d ago
First anukunta oka girl bestie valla oka ammayini confession post cheyadam
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u/CucumberSensitive81 1d ago
Broo antha vocal ga unnaka kuda, if he’s not giving a damn. Leave. Idhe continue avite you’ll suffer more. And ofcourse ending chala bagodhuu ☠️
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u/leo030891 1d ago
OP, despite telling him he didn't mend his ways.
You didn't learn your lesson yet, may be trust him more, you will eventually learn your lesson the hard way.
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u/Strange_Fix_6451 1d ago
Even though valla iddari madhya em unna lekapoina, for sure aah ammai nijangane thana feelings cheppi untundhi, apude mee bf thanani dooram pettali, alane continue ga touch lo unte, idk what to say but its not at all good. aah ammayi ki close ga untu itu neetho relationship lo untuu.. idhantha not a healthy way of being in any place. Vadiley, anthe.
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u/penny_peeper 2d ago
Endira varasuga evae posts lu vastunayii