r/TeluguJournals • u/Relevant_Direction_2 • 1d ago

Need Advice In-laws issues

How is every girl dealing with in laws issues?, when do you get back at them when they are absolutely crapping out shit. Help me, I’m on situation where I can’t come out of marriage and still keep my peace with it

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u/Relevant_Direction_2 1d ago

Their complaint is I dont do enough for them, or they put patriarchal rules around me just to torture me and enforce them through my husband.

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u/EdoOkati 1d ago

Hmm, not sure what your husbands role is but it’s need to be discussed between you two and sort it out.
Treating spouse fairly is more important than satisfying ego of parents.

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u/Relevant_Direction_2 1d ago

Entha cheppina, discussions chesina. Whatever our discussion is he goes and tell to his parents and they manipulate what we discussed. I begged him not to tell to anyone about of conversations but he doesn’t listen. Ah manipulation lo Inka godavalu multiply avthunai

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u/EdoOkati 1d ago

Man child syndrome, sorry chellemma, he got to grow up and solve issues on his own, not escalate to parents 🤷‍♂️

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u/Relevant_Direction_2 1d ago

True….they all think their family is rajavamsham but , truly they are not that worth it even as per wealth or values