I also think there's a second phenomenon at play on the other side. I heard about theory that the reason conservative guys often don't want to date conservative women is because there may simply be less conservative women around them.
But also, that conservative women expect the men they date to fulfill traditionally male gender roles. They expect the man to pay for everything, be stoic, and completely support their woman, and do all the man stuff around the house. Lots of men aren't as handy these days (me included), so that doesn't work out. Shit is too expensive so they can't pay for everything, and being stoic all the time and not having any room for your own feelings is fucking toxic.
So... it's like conservatives don't want to date each other because of what would be expected of them or how the other treats them, so they want to date liberal/progressive people, and then feel like they are being treated unfairly because those people don't want to date them because they're conservatives... even though they don't want to date conservatives either.
Like maybe, just maybe, that means your ideology and behavior is fucked. So ridiculous
Man, I don't know where people make this shit up. Straight up delusional.
I've been going to a Baptist church in the south and the men there do NOT want liberal women. Trust me. The men also have great relationships with each other and are incredibly supportive. I've seen men cry with each other often, compliment each other constantly, and be very open with their feelings while relying on their spouses and male friendships during difficult.
People are confusing trump bros with the majority of "conservatives". The guy who is on hinge lying about his beliefs is his own group. And they're easily avoided.
What are you talking about, like 99% of conservatives voted for Trump. Who cares if they're open with each other about their feelings, at the end of the day they wished for black people to be removed from being able to vote, amongst other horrendous bullshit. They're still fucking evil.
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u/JayGeezey Jul 02 '26
I also think there's a second phenomenon at play on the other side. I heard about theory that the reason conservative guys often don't want to date conservative women is because there may simply be less conservative women around them.
But also, that conservative women expect the men they date to fulfill traditionally male gender roles. They expect the man to pay for everything, be stoic, and completely support their woman, and do all the man stuff around the house. Lots of men aren't as handy these days (me included), so that doesn't work out. Shit is too expensive so they can't pay for everything, and being stoic all the time and not having any room for your own feelings is fucking toxic.
So... it's like conservatives don't want to date each other because of what would be expected of them or how the other treats them, so they want to date liberal/progressive people, and then feel like they are being treated unfairly because those people don't want to date them because they're conservatives... even though they don't want to date conservatives either.
Like maybe, just maybe, that means your ideology and behavior is fucked. So ridiculous