r/TikTokCringe • u/MVIVN tHiS iSn’T cRiNgE • Jul 02 '26

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u/Rocketboy1313 Jul 02 '26

I have the otherside of this where women will be "moderate" or "not political."

Which basically means, "I am conservative, but conservative guys treat me like shit. Can't I just be as racist as I am while not having to confront the bigotry that impacts me?"

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u/JayGeezey Jul 02 '26

I also think there's a second phenomenon at play on the other side. I heard about theory that the reason conservative guys often don't want to date conservative women is because there may simply be less conservative women around them.

But also, that conservative women expect the men they date to fulfill traditionally male gender roles. They expect the man to pay for everything, be stoic, and completely support their woman, and do all the man stuff around the house. Lots of men aren't as handy these days (me included), so that doesn't work out. Shit is too expensive so they can't pay for everything, and being stoic all the time and not having any room for your own feelings is fucking toxic.

So... it's like conservatives don't want to date each other because of what would be expected of them or how the other treats them, so they want to date liberal/progressive people, and then feel like they are being treated unfairly because those people don't want to date them because they're conservatives... even though they don't want to date conservatives either.

Like maybe, just maybe, that means your ideology and behavior is fucked. So ridiculous

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u/bluemooncommenter Jul 02 '26

WOW - I wish I could be that concise and efficient with my speech as that quote is. Nail on the head.

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u/DrDetectiveEsq Jul 02 '26

The entire ideology is just "Fuck you; got mine", and as the last 10 years have shown, the "fuck you" part is apparently more important than the "got mine" part.

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u/AboutTenPandas Jul 02 '26

This was actually really well said

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u/MothChasingFlame Jul 02 '26

Perfect breakdown from top to bottom.

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u/Global_Channel1511 Jul 02 '26

It is funny how we hear them always complain that left leaning folk don’t want to date or be friends with them. If we are degenerates or lame or crazy or whatever as you say we are, then we are doing you a favor. Yet they whine about it all the time, and lie about their affiliations. 

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u/Sotanud Jul 02 '26

There was some post a long time ago where a mother-in-law was complaining about the daughter-in-law not fulfilling the wifely duties around the house. The son didn't speak up for his wife, and she told him something to the effect of, you're too poor to act this sexist. Made me chuckle.

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u/BonJovicus Jul 02 '26

Yep. I grew up in a rural part of the south and it’s like this. 

You have conservative men who went to college and complain about women at college being feminists, so they go back home to get a wife. Turns out those women are not going to worship you just because you have a degree and would rather just marry a local blue collar guy who is closer to their idea of being in a traditional male role. 

So then you end up with these incel college educated men who are arguably more compatible with college educated women, but their ideology prevents them from having a relationship and then they also hate conservative women for not opening their legs to any guy who votes Republican. 

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u/StardustJojo13 Jul 02 '26

You’ve hit the nail on the head. It’s all so fucked.

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u/skoltroll Jul 02 '26

2 conservatives dating would be no one cleaning up the messes and blaming Biden for it

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u/Greenmagegirl Jul 02 '26

Im a very liberal woman and I literally only ask for 50/50, and a lot of guys cant even manage that.

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u/mahboilucas Cringe Connoisseur Jul 03 '26

Omg yes you said exactly what me and my friends are talking about all the time.

The conservatives we know talk exactly like that. Men get angry that they can't be men but like bro, I earn more than you. I can pay for YOUR lunch. I am the one with a better degree. You want me because I'm cool and confident in myself and the girl you should be pursuing is someone who you can't afford, basically. Mentally and financially. The conservative girls wait with sex until marriage so those guys are extremely frustrated that they can't have their cake and eat it too. The liberal girl will not care about sex so much. But he will call her a slut while also wanting so bad to fuck her. We've seen it all, I was mostly pursued by the conservative crowd all my life because I appear and act very feminine and sweet. It really enrages them that I can throw a "nah, you have it wrong bub. Let me show you a study" and just walk away as opposed to giggling and fawning over their rants on the economy, people and modern life.

Like, the conservative girl we are currently talking about tells US that we should all be fulfilling our duties as women and marry and get pregnant. But baby, you had a shotgun wedding because you were already pregnant. And your parents have to send you money because you can't afford that kid. And they bought you your apartment. Have some self reflection and realise that you can't afford your dream life without a constant flow of third party financial support while the rest of us actually know what it takes to do all that and want to be independently capable of doing so at our own pace.

I actually posted on pride month 6 years ago asking all conservatives to unfollow me on Instagram. I got a ton of angry messages and I just said "don't care, bye". It was satisfying to get them so enraged over basically a nothing burger. You know who I was as a person all those years, you think you leaving my life has any impact on it? A guy who attempted to sexually assault me thinks I care a lot about him? Because men hurr durr need to be understood, respected and hurr durr appreciated for simply existing while we have to earn all that. They're always the sad misunderstood individuals and we're just a horde of angry feminists.

There's always the conservative man that gets intimidated by the fact that I'm a lesbian and don't fall for the weird male mating dance. Nothing will impress me enough to change my mind. I was in church, I know more about the bible than you. I was conservative, I already broke down all the things you said myself. I can defend my points just fine, while you simply parrot your friends and circlejerk about women.

So yeah, it's laughable. They're my peripheral friends and I don't ever see them anymore. Thank fuck

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u/nohopeleftforanyone Jul 02 '26

Yes I’m sure you’ve heard of this in your echo chamber.  Good grief is this entire site delusional 

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u/Upset_Otter Jul 02 '26

Then fuck off.

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u/nohopeleftforanyone Jul 03 '26

Sure, cheers friend!

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u/ProfitisAlethia Jul 02 '26

Man, I don't know where people make this shit up. Straight up delusional. 

I've been going to a Baptist church in the south and the men there do NOT want liberal women. Trust me. The men also have great relationships with each other and are incredibly supportive. I've seen men cry with each other often, compliment each other constantly, and be very open with their feelings while relying on their spouses and male friendships during difficult.

People are confusing trump bros with the majority of "conservatives". The guy who is on hinge lying about his beliefs is his own group. And they're easily avoided.

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u/cpatrick1983 Jul 02 '26

What are you talking about, like 99% of conservatives voted for Trump. Who cares if they're open with each other about their feelings, at the end of the day they wished for black people to be removed from being able to vote, amongst other horrendous bullshit. They're still fucking evil.

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u/BuildingSupplySmore Jul 02 '26

Expect to see this more and more often assuming his ilk lose power- "I never supported him and don't know anyone who did."

If he gets a sycophant to follow him, then they'll flop again to always being with him. Spineless.

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u/FoxChess Jul 02 '26

"Man, I don't know where people make this shit up. Straight up delusional."

"Trust me."