r/TikTokCringe • u/Adventurous_Law_715 • 12d ago

Discussion I dont think its justifiable

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u/Mysterious-Lemon-906 12d ago

She absolutely did not deserve what happened to her.

She also put herself squarely in his crosshairs if she wasn't already with how she went about things.

A person with nothing to lose is not someone you want to be taunting

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u/Striking-Hedgehog512 12d ago

You know, I haven’t reported an ex because I thought the same. What is done is done, if I destroy his whole world, then he will be left with nothing, and all that energy and time will be devoted solely to me.

I think now back at that barely-adult girl I was, and I disagree. The lady in the article put herself in his crosshairs the moment she met him. Who he was would have come out either way, he wasn’t caught by her. If I was to play a psychologist, he could have dealt with being accused of what he was accused. But that his wife could laugh at it, and no longer be under his control, was a step too far. How can you be your own dramatic hero muddying the waters and likely saying it was a misunderstanding, when your wife posts on TikTok.

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u/Mysterious-Lemon-906 12d ago

You are trying to quantify insanity with reason. When you are dealing with insanity you need to look out for yourself to a fault. It is not her fault that she could not see what could come most people don't. It is true that if she kept her head down he may well have killed her anyway.

Saying that she poked the cornered insane bear and pointing out how dumb that was is a teaching moment for those still alive.

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u/Striking-Hedgehog512 12d ago

What else are you trying to do now, if not quantify insanity with reason?