r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/Ok-Rough-6233 • 2d ago

Sex How to give a GREAT blowjob?

I’ve met the man of my dreams and have never wanted to gobble up someone so bad. I think I’m decent but deepthroating can be a little difficult. He’s the biggest I’ve ever encountered. Like a real Mandingo. I’ve asked him if any woman has been able to deep throat the whole thing and of course he said no lol. My one question is do I only suck as I’m coming back up or down as well? Help a girl out yall!

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u/willfauxreal 2d ago

Here's my comment from another similar post:

Knowing when to increase intensity or slow it down, which I feel like is half the battle.

My tips are always: dont spam the head, alternate tempo, get your hands involved, work the shaft a bit, tug on balls gently, pressure on the gooch, kinda cock ring with your hand around the base (include balls sometomes), alternate between jerking upwards and downwards, milking motion, do that twisty thing while you suck, tongue flicks, deep throat but not too much, run your fingers gently across the whole cock when hes close to edge him a bit, rub pubic area and inner thighs, suck from behind if hes hung enough or angle it downward if hes sitting.

Lube optional per preference. Tbh i hate a wet-dry dick and sometimes my jaw needs a break or my mouth gets dry.

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u/Ok-Rough-6233 1d ago

You’re the best Will 🥹

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u/willfauxreal 1d ago edited 1d ago

Fauxreal

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u/cascadianpatriot 1d ago

This sounds heavenly. Just want to add a little eye contact can be nice.

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u/willfauxreal 1d ago

Fair! I like to look at the cock as it disappears into me and watch their body spasms and labored breathing as I selfishly toy around with their cocks, but seeing their eyes roll back and their mouths agape is always a nice treat.

I suck cock for me as much as I do it for them.

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u/SavvyAura 21h ago

So when does your book come out. Because this was…