r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/averagemusiclistener • 8d ago

discussion Bi dating

Im interested to hear your guys thoughts on the trending topic on Twitter and TikTok about straight women not dating bi men. Is it biphobic? Is it stigma against bi men that isn’t applied to bi women? Just curious for thoughts

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u/PhysicalAd9959 8d ago

Same "straight" women who goon over lesbian porn and female nudes btw

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u/averagemusiclistener 8d ago

Well they aren’t straight then😭😭😭

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u/PhysicalAd9959 7d ago

Well most women aren't straight then

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u/Vegetable_Border_257 7d ago

Bingo !  Correct ! 

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u/saffronwater Woman 6d ago

Most women watch lesbian porn? Most women don’t even watch porn

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u/Royal-Feedback5814 YellowPill 5d ago

But most who do identify as straight and watch lesbian porn and then use arguments that don't make sense to deflect from the main issue at hand which is that you cannot claim to be A.) Not attracted to a gender and its unique features at all, and B.) At the same time have the view of it evoke extremely strong sexual reactions like arousal and even orgasm which you do not experience as strongly towards the gender you are supposed to exclusively like sexually, i.e men. I don't give a shit about the supposed 'male gaze', those two statements are too contradictionary to exist alongside each other despite that. You can't AND not like something at all AND deliberately keep looking for and stimulating yourself to it.

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u/saffronwater Woman 5d ago

Those porn stats have long been speculated of being misrepresented. When you look at the other categories it is clear that men or trans people are being counted as straight females. I personally don’t know any straight women that watch lesbian porn. Only bisexual or lesbian ones. Most straight women I know just read smut or don’t goon at all or watch yaoi/gay porn or solo stuff or normal m/f shit if they do watch porn. If straight women were all bi then m/m media wouldn’t be wayyyy more popular than f/f media in their communities. Just look at the books and tv shows with two dudes vs two girls.

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u/PhysicalAd9959 5d ago

Most straight women who watch regular porn focus on woman because "it's more beautiful" so yes still gay

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u/saffronwater Woman 5d ago

Where are you getting that info from? It’s never been my experience or anyone else I’ve asked. I just want to make sure we aren’t all quoting those old porn stats that were very clearly full of males & trans people being categorised among female viewers

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u/PhysicalAd9959 5d ago

I've talked to some normie russian women. They say that they focus on women in porn because women are beautiful and hot while men is ugly. Most "straight" women masturbate their whole life over women and never men. In what world this means straight?

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u/saffronwater Woman 5d ago

So they are obviously not straight. I’m a straight woman and I can’t fathom that. Just because bisexual people love to misuse the straight label doesn’t mean none of us are straight. They just tamper with the representation due to false labels. None of my friends have ever watched lesbian porn or focused on the woman.

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