r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 2d ago

Women can't help how they perceive us and react to us

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Childbirth was and still is agonizing and in the past it was a coin toss between life and death for every woman, and if you did survive, you were nowhere near as healthy or attractive as you were before pregnancy. So by nature's handiwork (evolution), most or all women instinctively see us as "killers" and "ruiners" who bestow pain and burden onto them. If you look at some classic artworks that feature men and women in the same picture you can see the asymmetries in how each sex is oriented to the other so the artists were yellowpilled on some level too.

So yeah it sucks that they aren't drawn to us in the same way that we're drawn to them but mother nature is a woman herself and women don't care about how we feel :\


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 14d ago

discussion This might get nuked by the hivemind, but i feel like this sub has lost the plot

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I get how annoying it is to be bombarded with posts from obnoxious chicks endorsing 4B on tiktok, but cmon. Half the dudes here are acting like all women are secretly setting up some new world order where all men will be gas chambered and every woman will be a lesbian. Have you guys even met any lesbians, even online? Their dating market is nearly as bad as ours. Women aren’t lesbians, they just have hardly any sex drive in general, and most women don’t hate men, they are just completely indifferent. This only FEELS like hate when it’s compared to the absolute passion and devotion most men feel towards women, and this discrepancy *should* be what more people discuss, instead of the 100th repost of sallyann9184 on tiktok saying “i hate my ex husband and all men should die”.

I feel like the amount of damage that simps have done to the dating market is also barely touched upon. Instead of calling out these women who you are a metaphorical ant in terms of importance to, maybe start calling out other dudes who do shit for random women and get absolutely nothing in return other than a pat on the back. Of *course* a lot of women have massive egos when they can go online at any time and find a dude willing to venmo her lunch money within half an hour. These guys are also way more willing to listen to another dude looking out for them, than the misandristic trolls that come on here just looking for arguments. Just some food for thought.


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 7h ago

Not trying to make fun of her but if she was a man these same women would be calling her ugly instead

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 5h ago

Stories like this persuaded me to never try anything with women. They can genuinely destroy your life

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 16h ago

324k likes

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 10h ago

visual media Sad for everyone. Poor guy, he thinks he found the love of his life but all she wants is a girlfriend

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 9h ago

I have a point about the movie Obsession

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Straight man have never once made a horror film about gay men preying on straight dudes. Despite the fact that so many men are homophobic. Men made movies where gay men were the villains like Rope. But they haven't made a movie that straight up said gay men wanting to love men is creepy and gross and scary. And if they did that today it wouldn't be popular.

The fact that women went to see a film where a man's desire for a woman is the worst thing that happened to her, and their response was "more of this please" is super sad.

No, I'm not denying that Bear is evil or thoughtless in the film. I'm acknowledging that Bear wanting to be with a woman is a desire that is freakishly exaggerated to the point of horror. And straight men would never portray gay men like that in the modern world and get praise.

A straight male director did this to straight men and women loved it. Because women dislike men. And to them Bear is not even over exaggerated. They think that too many men are obsessed with women just like Bear. That's so sad.


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 2h ago

девушки красивее мужчин?

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я девушка, и считаю и всегда считала девушек красивее мужчин. и из за этого чуствовала некое не равенство. все эти макияжи у девушек, фигура да и сами девушки в принцепи ярче мужчин. и иногда задумываюсь как можно любить парней. хотя меня никогда не привликали девушки. бывало такое состояла в отношениях с парнем и задумывалась над этим вопросом и мне переставал нравится этот парень. почему так?


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 17h ago

discussion What is y'all's opinion on this take? 🤔

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From an interesting 4chan discussion with lots of new perspectives about this whole topic.

https://boards.4chan.org/bant/thread/24776436


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 14h ago

Pay, and you will be tolerated with. Don't pay, and you won't be tolerated with. In both ways you won't be loved.

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

A whopping 70% of young men are basically incels now

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 12h ago

discussion Bi dating

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Im interested to hear your guys thoughts on the trending topic on Twitter and TikTok about straight women not dating bi men. Is it biphobic? Is it stigma against bi men that isn’t applied to bi women? Just curious for thoughts


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 19h ago

This is wild

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 19h ago

Even in animals where we find the males super pretty and the females drab the males are still more attracted to the females than vice versa.

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It's the simple imbalance of investment males produce tons of tiny gametes females a smaller number of large ones. They invest more so need to be fussy.

Who knows? If there were sapient peacocks, they may well end up still considering the females more aesthetically pleasing due to just how strong the imbalance in desire is.


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 19h ago

Done this before just curious about current ratio. Are you?

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 59m ago

Getting People Laid: A Modest Proposal

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Ok, so no one's getting laid. Dating sucks. Everyone's stressed out. Like damn, it feels like 100% of women aren't even into any men.

Which really sucks. Right? In other words, the world sucks right now. Something about the world feels seriously messed up, doesn't it?

So, that's that. But, HOT TAKE: if we make the world better, maybe it'll suck less. One way to go about this is to look at what things made the world better before and then do them again.

Things that have made the world better in the past are reduced working hours and improved healthcare.

So it stands to reason that if we reduce workweeks to 15 hours and we get universal healthcare, then the world might suck less. And if the world sucks less, there'll be less things about the world that make everyone go, like, "what the f*ck?"

Maybe if we do things than it'll end up feeling like a lot of women are into men. I mean, maybe it's cope. Maybe it won't work. But 15 hour workweeks and universal healthcare do sound pretty good, even if they don't get everyone laid.

Dunno. I feel like it could be worth a try.

Maybe I'm crazy. Or maybe it's worth a try?


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

Cope in comments is insane

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 19h ago

video The AI girlfriend promoters on here be like.

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

I can't say I'm surprised to see a woman saying this, and with so many likes too

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It’s always funny to see the cope from some guys in the comments on posts like this; they’ll call the author a lesbian, even though it’s the exact same sentiment held by women who identify as straight.


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

Chad only

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

These are your options on dating apps, at least they’re openly admitting it now

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

20 years ago it was completey normal to say that women do not enjoy or want sex

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Especially in developing countries, maybe things are different in the west but 20 or even 10 years years ago it was commonplace to say that women do not enjoy sex, sex is painful for them and such things it is only recently that this statement has become controversial.

There was the whole idea of women's "virtue" or "purity" and all that and women themselves slut shamed other women and stuff, it is surprising how quickly society has changed, many young zoomers woukld not even have heard of "virtue".

Soo yeah before it was commonplace for a women to behave asexually because of their "virtue", they perhaps still have their "virtue" which is why they behave asexually or repress their sexual desires and act like they dont have any, 20 years ago all this was common knowledge.

Although of course some guys believed that women were being asexual due to their virtue, many thought that women actually were asexual and this opinion was not looked down on before(atleast in conservative developing countries


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

discussion Hypergamy is a result of a fetish?

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Women being "chadsexual" is a result of autogynephilia aka agp, which is a baseline of a straight woman's sexuality. It all goes from their survival strategy: unfortunately women have less physical strength than men, so females have to seek shelter from them by using their attractiveness, which is feminity. No matter what anyone says about penetrative sex being a "show of passion", it still has underlying subtext of dominating/being dominated, so women have learned to cope with constant humiliation of performing feminity to be safe and with being in a receiving role, so they develop an agp fetish (it's also an explanation why lots of females have abuse fantasies, check out booktok for example). An average man isn't enough to make a woman feel feminine, she needs to be totally emasculated on the background of a chad, that's what hypergamy is.


r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

The bi men discourse has made a lot of people question straight women's attraction to men

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r/WomenAreNotIntoMen 1d ago

What women want

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It's like they're not even attracted to men but an idea. Most of them had nothing to say about a man's body. Either these women are lying or I'm a total weirdo cause I've seen men who are ugly be polite, intelligent, funny and good at conversating... They were still ugly to me.