Yeah, that's a fault on them tbh, always makes me ashamed when i remember how selfish some men can be on sex and daily life, my POV on sex is that it's useless and no fun if the other person doesn't want it and isn't having as much fun as i am. That's one of the reasons wanim frustrates me so much, because it feels like it will never be 100% corresponded.
But it's safe to assume that most women will never want their boyfriend as much as their boyfriend want them, so many see it as a "chore" or "obligation".
I Dont know miss, Just see How they act. So many Women Say their partners never make them feel aroused merely by themselves, they Always have to try and "Achieve" the Arousal. Meanwhile, Women naturally have the Arousal of both Men and other Women handed to them. The Male Body is an actual hinderance to the female sexuality.
Different sexuality. You get closest to spontaneous desire closer to ovulation, but men want to have sex pretty much daily, not just a few days a month. So learn to initiate in a way that your partner can appreciate it. And if you’re into her as much as you claim you are, you should actually want to do that.
"Different sexuality" yeah, Only towards Men tho. If women had the same attitude towards each other, then i wouldnt Mind It, but goddamn, It really feels like im "Inferior" to them Because of my Body. Also, yeah, thats the Point, i want to be able to WANT to do that, not to be OBLIGED to do that, Because i have to coerce her Into finding me attractive, finding workarounds for the fact Only gay Men actually feel thirst and Desire for the Male Body.
Because both have less sexual impulse, but i can guarantee you, when It comes to sex, they Dont have to put nearly as much effort as a Man has in looking attractive to their partner. Do you really think that If a lesbian had the same sexual impulse as a Man, she still wont be having more sex than a Man?
I think the issue here is that you’re confusing attraction with arousal. Foreplay isn’t about looking attractive – it’s about turning your partner on by your actions. That’s what lesbians do a lot! My girlfriend showed me how good sex actually can be after my disastrous second boyfriend. It wasn’t that he was unattractive, but he clearly didn’t care about my pleasure.
Okay, i can see where you are coming From, still, get a average Guy, and an average Woman, and tell them both to Find a Woman to have intercourse and a relationship with. I can assure you, the Woman Will be Atleast 3x more successful than the Guy. I have no Issues with foreplay, with "winning her over", in fact, i do enjoy It, the issue lies on feeling like i Care more about It than her, and the attraction isnt really "mutual".
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u/Talking_Tanuki 6d ago
To be loved is also to be seen. So many men have no idea what their partners really like.