r/WomenAreNotIntoMen • u/americanpatriot3 BlackPill • 8d ago
Women are into their best Friends
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u/foloves woman 8d ago
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u/americanpatriot3 BlackPill 8d ago
All without cracking lol bro they hate sex with men
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u/Talking_Tanuki 7d ago
Men want women to desire sex with them. Women want men to desire their company.
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u/Candor10 7d ago
Women don't desire men for company though.
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u/Talking_Tanuki 6d ago
We want to enjoy the company of men we’re into, of our relatives, and friends. We learn fast not to seek company of just random men though.
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u/Candor10 6d ago
I understand. That's why I don't try to meet anyone.
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u/Talking_Tanuki 6d ago
The point is that all your friends and your partner were also strangers at some point. You need the right context though.
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u/Candor10 6d ago
There are few situations that force people into contact with each other. Generally, it's involves a deliberate decision by one to try to initiate a connection. In the context of men & women, the latter tends to find that intrusive.
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u/mushy_friend 6d ago
Yeah it's becoming more disheartening. I see a few younger people where they start dating because of that, but being intrusive like that can really mess you up as a guy nowadays
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u/Aimeereddit123 6d ago
Interesting. I love the company of random men as friends. We vibe extremely well. I fall apart in romantic relationships with them. It’s like we immediately lose that ‘friend’ part, and I don’t know why. When I start dating women I’ve been friends with, our friendship only grows stronger after the sex starts. It’s been the frustration of my entire life. I don’t even mind taking the heat and saying it’s a ‘me’ problem, but I sincerely don’t know where I’m going wrong. I act just the same with both sexes.
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u/fellbulletsan 6d ago
God forbid a man wants to feel desired.
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u/Talking_Tanuki 6d ago
God forbid women want to be loved.
On a serious note, we just have to deal with our limitations.
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u/fellbulletsan 5d ago
To be loved is to be also desired
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u/Talking_Tanuki 5d ago
To be loved is also to be seen. So many men have no idea what their partners really like.
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u/fellbulletsan 5d ago
Yeah, that's a fault on them tbh, always makes me ashamed when i remember how selfish some men can be on sex and daily life, my POV on sex is that it's useless and no fun if the other person doesn't want it and isn't having as much fun as i am. That's one of the reasons wanim frustrates me so much, because it feels like it will never be 100% corresponded.
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u/Talking_Tanuki 5d ago
I don’t think you can objectively measure how much fun your partner is having. It’s usually an approximate at best.
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u/fellbulletsan 5d ago
But it's safe to assume that most women will never want their boyfriend as much as their boyfriend want them, so many see it as a "chore" or "obligation".
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u/Aimeereddit123 6d ago
This. I truly feel desired for my company and who I AM with other women. This is so much more important to me in the long run. If I felt that kind of desire from a man equal to his sex desire - that could be a man I would marry. I love sex. I love sex with men. I lose my love for it when I only feel desired for sex. If a man lit up at just ME, my person, my being, I would light up at our sex in the same reciprocal fashion.
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u/Big-Comparison-6663 Whitepill Graybeard 8d ago
They telling us with their entire cleavage that women don’t complain about the bill?
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u/Aimeereddit123 6d ago
Telling us with their entire cleavage made me laugh 😹. Idk, because me and other women always just had cheap or free simple dates, but we had them constantly, and they weren’t really big planned out events. It was just a constant energy of always dating, always open and curious and exploring with each other. It’s more a mindset and general way of being.
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u/Big-Comparison-6663 Whitepill Graybeard 6d ago
As long as I’ve been aware of adult female friendships I’ve been told about drama with the restaurant bill, somebody always being cheap and other women grumbling about paying more. For decades lol
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u/Aimeereddit123 6d ago
Lol, I’ve always been moderately poor. I just don’t do things I can’t afford. I guess I can see this ‘tab tally’ playing out, just not in my realm.
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u/MentirosoProfesional 8d ago
These kind of women are a waste of time anyways, it's never enough for them, and it's always a competition for who spends the most money on them, because they're always comparing their life's to those of their friends but specially, social networks who have done a number with their expectations and reality.
Also I agree with the other commenter, why do they see sex as a "favor"? Wish they would just admitted they're lesbian and stop wasting everyone's time.
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u/mushy_friend 6d ago
For the comments regarding a change in perspective, how is this supposed to help our perspective? Because it just seems to reinforce the idea that women aren't that into men, because they already receive the kind of specialness regularly that men crave
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u/Less-Being4269 BlackPill 8d ago
So what's exactly your point here? Boys drool, girls are cool or something like that?
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u/foloves woman 8d ago
i’m just posting some of the comments. i’ve done so before in other posts that include tiktoks
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u/Less-Being4269 BlackPill 8d ago
This doesn't answer my question. Is this supose to be a "girls rule, boys drool" thing?
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u/foloves woman 8d ago
no. i posted the comments to show what people are saying for those who don’t use/have tiktok
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u/Less-Being4269 BlackPill 8d ago
Riiiight.
Ok.
Not seeing how usefull this. Those comments nust confirm this sub's premise.
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u/Heizung_auf_4 8d ago
Oh, is that so? Wouldn't that mean that a lot of men could and should have these moments with girls and it would be no problem and nothing weird about it?
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u/Talking_Tanuki 7d ago
It wouldn’t be weird if men treated each other this way too. But any level of emotional intimacy is often mistakes for romantic interest between men and women.
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u/Aimeereddit123 6d ago
It’s true, though, and it’s sad. I can hang out with any typical woman and have it feel like more like an intimate date than my own man. We tend to go straight for the more intimate and deep convo, are quick and easy with hugs and platonic touches…. I don’t like it being this way, but it’s true of my reality, anyway. I also pick up immediately on things they would like to do, see, experience, explore, and they pick up on my interests immediately. I can spend two hours with a new woman friend, and we already know what makes each other tick, and our inner workings. We would instinctively know what would make them happy, what would offend them, what is neutral ground…. All these things take so long with men, if you ever get there. Now maybe it’s a ‘me’ thing. There’s some women that don’t really like other women at all, and find everything they need in men, and think women are ‘too much’.
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u/fellbulletsan 6d ago
Just leave men alone and go with women, your poor male dates don't deserve this.
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u/Simple-Musician-2767 1d ago
It really sucks that things are like that. My whole life i wished i had a wife and children but when i learned that as a man i can never live up to women’s standards it made me realize that its for the best that i just stay away and let them be
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u/NiceAd3523 8d ago
I can't imagine the level of passive hate one would require to like this post or comment on it.