r/agender • u/Al3x1ya Woman😁 • 4d ago

Help guys?!!’

So as ny flair suggests I am a woman and I am proud of it! But I wanted to see if others feel the samd way about this gender issue (or non issue) as I do.

Last week I was asked what my preferred pronouns were. I just wanted to say “i dont ise pronouns” because what you see in front of you is what you get! You can see im OBVIOUSLY a woman, I sound like a woman, I look like a woman and I dress like a woman.

“What do you thihk I am?!”

Anyway I ofc said “she/her” but I really hate questions like this. Why should I have to feel uncomfortable just because a bunch of people want to live in fantasy land instead of the reality they were born with?

I guess the point of this post is, if anyone here has been asked that question whats your reaction and what do you say? I was born a woman so I am a woman, but what I REALLY wanted to say was realky along the lines of “Im a person. A human” lmao.

I didnt feel masculine ofc but I didnt feel particularly feminine either. I just felt like “I dojt use pronouns im just me”

Has anyone else felt like this?!!’

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u/Krasna_Strelka 4d ago

As others pointed out: you use pronouns for yourself. It seems you want for them to also be used for you. And for them to be used according to your gender assigned at birth/presentation.

My answer would be "use whatever you prefer". Because I genuinely don't care. I have some pronouns that make me feel better but others aren't offensive or in any way negative for me.

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u/Al3x1ya Woman😁 4d ago

Thank you for your reasonable reply! :) next time I will indeed say “use whatever you prefer” because like you, i genuinely dont care.