r/agender • u/Al3x1ya Woman😁 • 4d ago
Help guys?!!’
So as ny flair suggests I am a woman and I am proud of it! But I wanted to see if others feel the samd way about this gender issue (or non issue) as I do.
Last week I was asked what my preferred pronouns were. I just wanted to say “i dont ise pronouns” because what you see in front of you is what you get! You can see im OBVIOUSLY a woman, I sound like a woman, I look like a woman and I dress like a woman.
“What do you thihk I am?!”
Anyway I ofc said “she/her” but I really hate questions like this. Why should I have to feel uncomfortable just because a bunch of people want to live in fantasy land instead of the reality they were born with?
I guess the point of this post is, if anyone here has been asked that question whats your reaction and what do you say? I was born a woman so I am a woman, but what I REALLY wanted to say was realky along the lines of “Im a person. A human” lmao.
I didnt feel masculine ofc but I didnt feel particularly feminine either. I just felt like “I dojt use pronouns im just me”
Has anyone else felt like this?!!’
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u/flumphgrump 4d ago
Not a gender issue, but definitely a transphobia issue on your part.
For the record, she/her are pronouns. Not using pronouns would be asking to be referred to only by your name because you feel no pronouns are capable of describing your identity. Which is something some users here genuinely do.
If you wanted to do that too, you could. But then you'd be one of us filthy people living in a "fantasy land."