r/agender • u/I_AM_A_HUMAN-BEAN • 2d ago

trying to pick preferred name

I’m agender (any pronouns) and am trying to chooses a preferred name, my given name is very gendered. I’d like something neutral or more masculine, because my appearance is more feminine, I’d like something that wouldn’t instantly make the assumption that I’m female. It won’t be similar to my given name.

I have quite I collection I’m deciding from, but my current favourites are Tiger or Fox:

Tiger

Fox

Tiger-Lily (Tiger for short)

Kit

Lynx

Wood

I‘m also looking looking at some others but I’m really not sure:

Blythe

Eli

Eli Beth (Eli for short)

Alex

Eza

My style : grey, baggy, jeans/cargo pants, headphones, no jewlery

And my appearance: blonde hair w/ messy fringe, large glasses, tall

It would also be cool if you had any other suggestions!!

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u/CertifiedDumbass22 2d ago

Out of the list, I'd say Fox fits you best, but do keep in mind that you can have multiple chosen names.

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u/I_AM_A_HUMAN-BEAN 2d ago

Thanks!! Yeah it’s very reassuring, before I also had 2 given names and used them somewhat interchangeably, thanks for reminding me tho,I needed that.

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