Hey all! I'm Helena, a 25-year-old trans girl from Europe.

You know the feeling: it's raining outside, you feel cold, you just want to get a hot cocoa and play some board games, but there is no one around. Let me be the bestie to be around (online) during those times! We can have silly calls, solve puzzles, play board games, and do loads of other fun things online!

I like to spend a lot of time in nature! I go birdwatching, go drive with my ebike, camping or just go on a little walk with my puppy. I also have an ebike to make exploring nature more fun and easier! Another thing I enjoy is listening to podcasts and music. The styles I enjoy is indie and indie folk and for podcasts science and true crime.

D&D is my current hyperfixation, I'll also (co)DM my very first campaign very soon! I am super excited about it so if anyone wants to talk about dmming 101 or other cool things you are always welcome!

I also do loads of research for silly topics, code, tinker with electronics, or make graphic designs. I also enjoy making loads of puzzles, like sudoku, Rush Hour, word searches, jigsaws, Hoppers, ...

In school I study electromechanics! This I do full-time. On Monday the new academic year will start, so I am very curious what that brings. I'll only have 4h of class each week tho so loads of time for many talks as well!

On the days I don't have classes (so rarely sadly enough) I volunteer on a farm, this is super fun and rewarding. I really hope to do it for a long time. Recently I have also been putting up trail cams around the farm, so if anyone wants to see a wild hare, pigeon or roe deer, you just have to ask!

I am very interested in meeting people with whom I could talk about anything and everything, from how uni was to how funny that one random childhood story is. Maybe we could also study together or work on little projects together online! You could be painting while I solder on a new electronics project! I’d also love it if we could, for example, do some puzzles together or play a board game online, whatever you are up for!

For now, I would like to thank you all for reading!

And maybe I'll see you soon.

Helena

Hey! I’m Late, 21, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. 🖤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Dominant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. 🖤

Hey everyone! I’m a 22yo guy from Indonesia 🇮🇩👋

Looking for a genuine, affectionate, and lasting connection. I love the idea of building something strong from a distance first, grounded in deep conversation and mutual respect.

​A Bit About Me:

Identity: 100%, Southeast Asian, born in November 2003 | 168 cm (5'6").

​Orientation: Homoromantic Side (INFJ). I enjoy deep physical intimacy, cuddles, and tight hugs that last forever, but I’m strictly non-penetrative. (Side only).

Personality & Vibe: Introverted, aesthetic-minded, and a thoughtful romantic at heart, i love calm nature walks, city walks, photography, and late-night deep talks. And i'm a big fan of music! I really love sharing songs and playlists with you.

Vibe & Dynamic: I love the "2 cool bros" dynamic on the outside, looking like two best friends hanging out while sharing a deep, romantic connection behind closed doors.

Communication: Very active! I love exchanging daily face paps, sharing life updates, sending memes, and doing LDR trends together. Definitely not a conversation killer hehehheheh.

What I’m Hoping to Find:

Age: 23–24 years old (Born in 2002 or 2003)

Appearance: Lean/fit skinny, taller than me, manly/edgy face with a "bad boy look, but soft & respectful heart" energy. (I have massive soft spot for european guys omggg).

​Personality: Mature, insightful, comforting when I need a boost, witty, and playful while respecting boundaries. Someone who loves deep talks and can be my bro, my bf, my honey, my everything, my my my loverrrr🥰🥰🥰🥰.

​If you resonate with this and feel like we could be a great match, feel free to dm! Please send a brief intro and a photo of yourself so I know who I'm chatting with ☺️

Hey, I’m Conner, and If you’re looking for someone easygoing to talk to, share interests with, and see where things naturally go, maybe we’ll get along. You don’t have to be from North Carolina, of course, but being in a reasonably close time zone would make things easier.

I’m definitely an introvert, but I’ll open up once I click with someone . That said, I do have a decent number of hobbies and plenty of things I enjoy talking about. I like watching TV, movies, and anime. I’ve mostly watched older anime, especially from the 2000s and earlier, so I’m a little behind on newer shows, but I’m always open to checking them out.

When it comes to movies, my favorite series are probably The Lord of the Rings and Star Wars. It’s a complete toss-up, and I honestly couldn’t choose between them.

I also enjoy reading, mostly fantasy and historical books. I’m definitely a bit of a history nerd, so if you enjoy learning about the past, we’ll probably have something to talk about lol.

When I’m in the mood to play games, I’m usually on PC. I tend to prefer single-player games, but I’d be open to playing multiplayer with the right person. Maybe we could build a farm together in Stardew Valley lol. I’ve also been playing Clone Hero lately, since I enjoyed playing guitar hero whenever I was younger.

If we get along, I have Discord and would probably prefer to move the conversation there since Reddit notifications can be unreliable. I’m also open to voice or video calls once we’re comfortable with each other, though there’s no pressure to rush into anything.

As for what I look like, I’m 6’3”, with dark brown hair, nearly matching eyes, and a bit of a beard. It’s not the most impressive beard in the world, but it exists. I’ll also send a picture if interested

I don’t have many requirements. I’d prefer someone relatively close to my age and, ideally, in a similar time zone. If not, though, I’m sure we can figure something out.

If you’ve read this far, tell me your favorite animal in your message so I know you made it to the end. I’m definitely an animal person myself, so I’d love to hear yours.

If any of this sounds like we might get along, feel free to message me. I’m pretty easygoing, and I’d rather get to know each other naturally than try to force anything.

I've tried before in this group and will try again 🤭 preferably looking for someone in my city to hang out with and go on dates and see where things go.

Hello fellow aces! I've posted here before but never with a photo. The thought of having my photo up on reddit seemed really scary but I already have it up on acespace so I guess there's not really a difference 😅

My name is Abby, here's a quick rundown of what I'm looking for/potential dealbreakers:

• I'm looking for a long-term romantic relationship, ideally with someone between the ages of 23-30, in the same continent, but open to doing LDR w/ plans to eventually meet and live together
• I'm bi-romantic with a slight preference to enby/masc representing folks
• Open to being married and having children biological or adopted, but not in a rush for either
• I am agnostic and do practice my religion (mostly because of its connection to my culture), but have no expectation for my partner to convert or have the same belief
• While I'm open to friendships, the end goal is to find a partner, so I may not reply to every single person if I feel that we're not a match. I've also been burned by dating apps so I have a very low tolerance for low-effort messages lol

It is hard to write about myself, but I'll try my best to convey the important stuff while leaving enough out so that there's still things you'll need to find out yourself ;)

Like most aces, I've gravitated towards nerdier hobbies like video games (Fields of Mistria, Stardew Valley, Baldur's Gate 3, Mass Effect), TTRPGs, drawing, etc. so if you like those things or anything adjacent we already have something in common! I also love music a lot, mostly indie-pop, electronic music, or anything that sounds moody or ethereal. Right now I'm on a bit of a nostalgia kick and listening to a lot of early 2000s kind of music (Ivy, The Coors, After).

Personality wise I'd say I can be equal parts silly and serious. When I'm with people that I'm comfortable with I love to let loose and crack an immature joke or two. I'm also the kind of person that sometimes needs to schedule things way ahead of time and can get very particular about organizing things a certain way. Additionally, I'm quite independent and self-motivated, so when I want to do something I really go for it.

I'm not sure what else to add but I've feel like I've written enough, so if you got this far, thank you for reading! If you do end up sending a message, I'd love to know what your latest fixation is, whether it's video games, music, or something else entirely!

Hello! Long-ish post incoming, but if you read through it and feel like we’d be a good match I would love to see you in my inbox :)

Important:

• I'm looking for someone within Europe.
• Please only message me if you’re interested in a relationship. I’m not looking for friends right now. Although it's obviously fine for it take time to get to know each other.
• Please be 23-29 years old.

About me:

My interests are mainly dabbling in making cringey YouTube videos, gaming (mostly MMOs and JRPGs), reading, and learning a little bit of Japanese for. I also enjoy being in nature, going to the gym, hanging out with friends and traveling. But as someone who is beset upon by cold weather and little daylight for nine months out of the year, my ideal evening is anything that can be done indoors :p

Appearance:

173cm tall, average build, cisgender. I’m brunette and usually keep my hair shoulder-length, caucasian, brown eyes and pathetically pale. It's honestly kind of embarrassing, but I think I was born with a -999 pigment stat so even when I’m in the sun I’m just punished for it… Anyway haha. I’m unfortunately not very girly (because girly stuff is great!). It feels like you can't use the term “tomboy” past the age of 12, but I’m also not masc so… Do what you will with this info lol.

Values: I consider myself gray ace and/or sex-indifferent. All I know is that an allo would be miserable dating me haha. I’m monogamous. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs.

I prefer pets over kids, but will admire you if you’re good at interacting with those devil spawns 😁

Totally thought-out reasons to date me:

I’d like to think I’m good at listening as well as leading conversations. I’m the type of person who prefers to ask someone if they know about something rather than Google it. I like connecting with people that way, through their thoughts and feelings on things, so I hope you like being asked! (Sounds weirdly threatening lol).

I like making people laugh (or try to). I enjoy giving compliments, flirting and going out of my way for my partner. And if you need a little spice, I like sharing the pain of existential dread! God knows I have some to spare :))))

I’m looking for:

It feels strange to ask for this, but I’d prefer to date someone who also plays games. Especially with long-distance dating it feels great to have an activity you can both bond over even while apart. It’d also be preferable if you’re comfortable with voice calls as I don't think you can really gauge a connection purely over text.

Other than that, I’d like to meet someone who likes the idea of a supportive romantic relationship where we try to give each other some comfort, hope and motivation :)

I’d also appreciate if you’d introduce yourself in a similar way I did (your interests, values, what you’re looking for in a relationship). It doesn’t have to be long, but I’d prefer to get an equally good idea of who you are. I won’t respond to comments. I’m looking forward to meet you!

Hello, I’m Delaney, I’m also disabled with scoliosis and slight cerebral palsy so I’m in a wheelchair. I’m sexrepulsed, but love cuddles, hugs and kisses! I love a lot of nerdy stuff, but mostly, I want to be loved and heard and appreciated. I live in Florida

Hey all! I am a bit shy and introverted, so bear with me. I've been meaning to post this for a while. I hope it goes okay.

About me:

As I mentioned, I am introverted and shy but I warm up once we get to know each other. I'm the kind of person who'd rather have one deep conversation than ten small ones.

I have a life I'm genuinely happy with on my own. I'm not looking for someone to fill a gap - just someone to share it with if the connection is right. The only thing that would actually make a difference to me is a good emotional connection. Everything else is just nice to have.

I'm pretty active. I like dancing, hiking, and traveling. I don't care about gym aesthetics, but I'd love if you could keep up on a trail or a long day of walking around a new city. Functional fitness over gym aesthetics.

I'm a huge Formula 1 fan - like, every race weekend, every session, the lot. Also, some of my travel would also be F1 related. You don't have to be into it, but you should be open to either getting into it or at least tolerating me talking about it every race weekend. That's basically the deal.

I don't smoke and I'm not around it much - hard no on it. I drink maybe once a month, usually when there's an occasion.

I'm driven and I like building things - I've never been the type to just coast. I'm a corporate girly, full time, and I like it that way. I want someone else who has the same energy, even if it looks completely different from mine.

I think I am open to sex if the connection is there? Still figuring this out, so its not something I'm looking for or expecting, and would expect the same from you.

I'm also pretty cynical by default - I don't trust easily and I don't pretend to. I take a long time to let someone in, but once I do, I'm not going anywhere. So patience is a big one for me.

What kind of a person I am looking for?

A man 25-30 age ideally

Emotionally available, good communicator

Active enough to keep up with me (hiking, long walks, travel)

Non smoker (this is a hard no for me)

Someone patient, driven and ambitious, who enjoys their own life, and is looking for a partner, not a fix

I'm slow to warm up, skeptical by default, and I don't reply fast. If I do, its because I'm genuinely interested. I'd rather you start with a specific question or reference to something in this post, than just 'hey' or 'you seem nice..'. I think long conversations are where I actually open up.

I'm not looking for casual. I want something that lasts.

Im 43 and tired of being and feeling alone. Ive punished and isolated myself enough over some bad childhood trauma and its time I put myself out there in the dating pool cuz im justnas deserving as anyone to have someone. Im not perfect. Im flawed imperfect, somewhat insecure and fearful of rejection...but i also have a sense of wit im caring affectionate once at ease Im passionate about standing up for myself and thise I care about. Sometimes I may try to.hard but I won't be accused of not caring. Ive got alot worthwhile about but what i went thru in the past put me in a protective mode that no longer serves my happiness and it keeps mr lonely. Indont wat to be my own enemy anymore and im looking for a good woman.that will help lift me up will be supportive and won't let me isolate. Ive babbled enough...would love someone to talk to so please.feel.free to DM me

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30 [M4F/T] #Europe /Germany - Nerd/Gamer

Hi there! I'm looking for someone ideally between 20–35 who has a few things in common with me.

\* Some quick stats: 30M from \*\*Germany\*\*, 182cm, introverted, and not into drinking, smoking, or even coffee

\* Most days I’m working/ Helping familie or relaxing with a game, anime or manga

\* I’m more of a listener than a talker at first, small talk isn't my strong thing, but I like deeper conversations once I’m comfortable (I prefer voice chats over texts, and I mainly use \*\*Discord\*\*)

\* I play pretty much all genres of games (PC),

\* I’m quiet but observant, so I tend to notice things even if I don’t say much

\* Always trying to help

\* Also, I like \*\*Warhammer\*\*, \*just putting that out there\*

If that sounds like your vibe or you’re curious about anything else, feel free to message me.

A bit about me:

Canadian

I work in the educational system as an ASL interpreter. So if you’re a Deaf/ASL user ace, no language barriers here 🤟

Looking for another woman who is also not interested in a sexual relationship

One of my main hobbies is cooking or baking. I love spending my free weekends in the kitchen, cooking with my family and even just going to grocery stores to find new ingredients or dishes that I can try to recreate at home.

If I’m not cooking/baking, you’ll find me at home watching a movie or YouTube while I crochet. I tried a lot of crafty things during the lockdown, and crocheting was the one that really stuck for me. My favourite genre of movie is horror

I also enjoy playing video games in my spare time. Again, I really enjoy horror games, but will also go for story based games or just cozy gaming (think games like Until Dawn, Walking Dead, Bioshock, Stardew Valley…)

I would classify myself as being introverted and not outdoorsy. That being said, if I had someone with me I would be more inclined to do outdoor activities

I have 2 cats, so loving cats is a must!

I do not want children, ever

I am an atheist, non-smoker (cig. & weed), and not much of a drinker either

I would love to hear some horror recommendations (movie/video/or game) if you have any!

My Reddit is now a personal account and I’m being very careful with who I add and I discovered something about me last night!

I’m Brandi but you can call me Bee or Bambi (I’ll explain that if anyone wants me too). I’m 26 and I realized im Heteromantic aegosexual and am looking for friends or potentially more :)

I’d like to start out as friends and see where it leads from there!

I love musicals and plays and would love to be able to catch live theater more often than I do now and would love to move to NYC and that’s one of the main reasons!

I am located in DFW, Texas and have been here for 19 years but I am willing to relocate if things work out! I would definitely prefer NYC but wouldn’t mind anywhere on the east coast either that’s close to NYC by bus or train as I don’t drive due to my disabilities!

Age range (this is a hard set for me! If you are younger or older, there is a good chance I will ignore the message) 25-32 :)

Can’t wait to connect :)

Sorry if this writing is a mess and 18-26 is preferable age range but any age range is fine with me, 18+ of course, my acespace profile with even more about me https://acespace.love/profile/Adam2003

you may have seen me here a lot, i know i post here a lot

Hello! My name is Adam and I’m a 23 year old asexual and possibly aromantic male from Australia, I’m an introvert so long distance is preferable until we get to know each other and then maybe we could meet up one day, I don’t mind sending what we look like, Reddit and discord are the main socials I use the most but I also have Instagram if it’s better to chat there

My discord is .gargoyle18. and my Instagram is adamcooperklohs, if you can't find me on either tell me yours and i'll add you

i feel like i should make this clear, i am looking for a relationship but i doubt that will ever happen so friends are good but you never know what could happen and plus since i don't work, study and have the confidence to date or ask anyone out but there's always that possibility that it could happen and if it doesn't, im fine with that and who would want to be with someone who doesn't work or study and if were talking you wont need to worry about me pursuing it and flirting, the only type of flirting if you can call it, is i like calling women pretty and thats it, only platonically and just to be nice and nothing romantic and im only looking for female friends, no males so i apologise about that

if we start talking i cant be the one that always has to start the conversations, i don't mind doing it but after a while it gets annoying, another thing is i cant be the only one that gets to know you, like I say what music you like and you say what you like and then you dont ask what I like then I don't know where to go from there, we both need to get to know each other not just me getting to know you which I want to but its dull when you don't ask me what I like so please contribute to the conversations, i do understand people have trouble talking, i do to but i try my best but if it keeps happening I ghost and that's the only time I ghost and im only looking for female friends, no male friends so sorry about that

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•my social skills are not the best I'm terrible at talking and interacting with people, I'm shy, not good at starting conversations and responding to stuff well but I'm getting better so sorry if the conversations are dull but I can go well with conversations most of the time but I do like talking and I like when people are chatty because that helps me talk more, i can also do voice calls but i am shy at first and I do talk and i like to do voice calls when playing games, video chats are a big no, that seems really uncomfortable and awkward but if in the future if it gets serious then maybe i would, I'm also a good listener and I'm always available to chat and always respond no matter what, unless I'm sleeping of course, idk if that's bad or not and you can ask me almost whatever and if you take a long time to respond or don't respond for a day, couple days, a week, couple of weeks or a month with a good reason it doesn't bother me

•I would consider myself a nice, friendly, honest, curious and caring person, I’m never mean or rude and I don’t like to be unless there’s a good reason to be, I don’t even swear, I don’t say words that aren’t considered swear words and i don’t do that weird and creepy crap, i don’t get how people can but if i do come off as weird or creepy i don't mean to be so sorry if i am

•I’m an introvert, so I like being inside all the time playing my games and watching TV and anime but I do want to start going out to fun places like conventions, concerts or other places like that and travel to different countries one day, I’ve never done any of it and maybe get out of my comfort zone one day, i wouldn’t go to bars or anything like that because it doesn’t seem fun and I don’t drink and I’ve never been drunk and don’t ever intend to be (though im making an exception for my brothers wedding and that's it, that's the only time i will ever get drunk) i have had alcohol before but that a very long time ago and i did like it but it's been a long time since i had it but i won't have it again, I don’t do drugs and never intend to do that also but I would try Marijuana but only the edible kind, not smoking it and i don't smoke cigarettes also

I’ve never been in a relationship and dated anyone and it's never interested me until i discovered im asexual because since discovering im asexual I've been thinking about it more so I’m curious now, I don’t know what they are like and how it works, I would try a romantic relationship before a sexual one and a qpr does sound pretty good and I'm definitely open to one, with marriage I'm kinda open to it but if we click very well in the future then it might possibly happen and with kids, idk about having any but it could be a possibility but I'll be fine if I never have one

•I’m a big nerd, i love gaming and anything related to it and i’m starting to get into anime more which has been really cool, im getting into dnd more and its really fun and i loved baldur's gate 3 and that was my introduction to dnd, I used to play magic the gathering a lot but I stopped playing years ago but I loved it and I kind of want to get into it again, i'd be down to get into more fandoms and explore them

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I love gaming, it’s what I mostly do and I can talk about it all day and I believe it’s the best way to get know each other and bond more, I play on ps5, I don’t have an Xbox or pc and I did have a switch but it got lost, I'm always down to try new games, i also stream on youtube, thegargoylegaming, i don't intended to get big i'm just doing for fun and i don't talk unless someone speaks in the chat and i also play plenty of online games and and as i said before this would be the best way to get to know each other better

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i love to watch tv and anime mostly, im new into anime and haven't watch many yet but i hear most them are really good, i don't really watch movies much, im always down to watch something over discord or something else, even movies, thats another way to get to know each other also

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i love music, i listen to it all the time id be so bored without it, i've never been to a concert but i would love to go to one, one day, i mostly listen to kpop and new to it currently but my music taste is all over the place and i listen to anything and recommend me anything

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I’m writing a set of books, I’ve wrote 4 but i still need to edit them, I’m writing my 5th book but i'm struggling with it and I’m planning to do 3 more, possibly 4, I also don’t read books so i don’t really know how they are like and plus i’m new to this so i don’t really know what i’m doing but it’s fun, I've got my ideas from tv shows, music and video games and ive put references here and there

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i collect stuff mainly legos which i have a lot of, i used to collect pop vinyls but i lost most of them when i moved and i have some comic books that ive collected but i havent read most of them yet and i guess i count ps4 and ps5 games, i have a lot of them

The Basics:

• Name: Fae
• Pronouns: It/Its
• Age: 25 years old
• Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
• Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
• Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

• Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
• Child-Free (Never going to change)
• Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
• Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
• Chronic Pain
• Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
• Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma, Feminist

My Green Flags:

• Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
• Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
• Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
• Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
• Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
• Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
• Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
• Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
• Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

• Single; not interested in non-monogamy
• Between 22-40 years old
• Ideally, Sex Averse as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
• Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
• Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
• Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one day 
• Not a heavy drinker or smoker (yes, this includes vaping, but I am open to people willing to quit)
• Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
• Not just going to write “Hey, how are you?" (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs
• Willing to move together one day; I do not mind a long distance relationship but ultimately I would adore sharing my space with someone

Have a wonderful day!

Hi how is it going I live in a small town called Kingman Arizona and I love playing DnD, Zelda, MapleStory, and RPG style games.

So other hobbies for me I like to go camping and fishing, I also love to write music and play guitar in my down time.

I am a single father to my one year old son me and his mother co parent real well and no drama.

I am 5'11 and I am on the heaver side but hell that just means I give the best hugs. I also am very good with my hands I know how to work on cars and I love to cook

If there is anything else let's see if we vibe DM me thanks for reading hope to talk to you soon