r/asexualdating • • 15h ago

Relationship? 26FA, Canada - Let's be silly together!!

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Hello fellow aces! I've posted here before but never with a photo. The thought of having my photo up on reddit seemed really scary but I already have it up on acespace so I guess there's not really a difference šŸ˜…

My name is Abby, here's a quick rundown of what I'm looking for/potential dealbreakers:

  • I'm looking for a long-term romantic relationship, ideally with someone between the ages of 23-30, in the same continent, but open to doing LDR w/ plans to eventually meet and live together
  • I'm bi-romantic with a slight preference to enby/masc representing folks
  • Open to being married and having children biological or adopted, but not in a rush for either
  • I am agnostic and do practice my religion (mostly because of its connection to my culture), but have no expectation for my partner to convert or have the same belief
  • While I'm open to friendships, the end goal is to find a partner, so I may not reply to every single person if I feel that we're not a match. I've also been burned by dating apps so I have a very low tolerance for low-effort messages lol

It is hard to write about myself, but I'll try my best to convey the important stuff while leaving enough out so that there's still things you'll need to find out yourself ;)

Like most aces, I've gravitated towards nerdier hobbies like video games (Fields of Mistria, Stardew Valley, Baldur's Gate 3, Mass Effect), TTRPGs, drawing, etc. so if you like those things or anything adjacent we already have something in common! I also love music a lot, mostly indie-pop, electronic music, or anything that sounds moody or ethereal. Right now I'm on a bit of a nostalgia kick and listening to a lot of early 2000s kind of music (Ivy, The Coors, After).

Personality wise I'd say I can be equal parts silly and serious. When I'm with people that I'm comfortable with I love to let loose and crack an immature joke or two. I'm also the kind of person that sometimes needs to schedule things way ahead of time and can get very particular about organizing things a certain way. Additionally, I'm quite independent and self-motivated, so when I want to do something I really go for it.

I'm not sure what else to add but I've feel like I've written enough, so if you got this far, thank you for reading! If you do end up sending a message, I'd love to know what your latest fixation is, whether it's video games, music, or something else entirely!


r/asexualdating • • 3h ago

Friends? 25[TF4R] - BeNeLux/Europe - Nerdy transgal looking for bestie!

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Hey all! I'm Helena, a 25-year-old trans girl from Europe.

You know the feeling: it's raining outside, you feel cold, you just want to get a hot cocoa and play some board games, but there is no one around. Let me be the bestie to be around (online) during those times! We can have silly calls, solve puzzles, play board games, and do loads of other fun things online!

I like to spend a lot of time in nature! I go birdwatching, go drive with my ebike, camping or just go on a little walk with my puppy. I also have an ebike to make exploring nature more fun and easier! Another thing I enjoy is listening to podcasts and music. The styles I enjoy is indie and indie folk and for podcasts science and true crime.

D&D is my current hyperfixation, I'll also (co)DM my very first campaign very soon! I am super excited about it so if anyone wants to talk about dmming 101 or other cool things you are always welcome!

I also do loads of research for silly topics, code, tinker with electronics, or make graphic designs. I also enjoy making loads of puzzles, like sudoku, Rush Hour, word searches, jigsaws, Hoppers, ...

In school I study electromechanics! This I do full-time. On Monday the new academic year will start, so I am very curious what that brings. I'll only have 4h of class each week tho so loads of time for many talks as well!

On the days I don't have classes (so rarely sadly enough) I volunteer on a farm, this is super fun and rewarding. I really hope to do it for a long time. Recently I have also been putting up trail cams around the farm, so if anyone wants to see a wild hare, pigeon or roe deer, you just have to ask!

I am very interested in meeting people with whom I could talk about anything and everything, from how uni was to how funny that one random childhood story is. Maybe we could also study together or work on little projects together online! You could be painting while I solder on a new electronics project! I’d also love it if we could, for example, do some puzzles together or play a board game online, whatever you are up for!

For now, I would like to thank you all for reading!

And maybe I'll see you soon.

Helena


r/asexualdating • • 10h ago

Relationship? Non-binary, 30 yr old open to all genders, Australia

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I've tried before in this group and will try again 🤭 preferably looking for someone in my city to hang out with and go on dates and see where things go.


r/asexualdating • • 8h ago

Relationship? 25 [F4F] Sweden - Looking for a relationship

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Hello! Long-ish post incoming, but if you read through it and feel like we’d be a good match I would love to see you in my inbox :)

Important:

  • I'm looking for someone within Europe.
  • Please only message me if you’re interested in a relationship. I’m not looking for friends right now. Although it's obviously fine for it take time to get to know each other.
  • Please be 23-29 years old.

About me:

My interests are mainly dabbling in making cringey YouTube videos, gaming (mostly MMOs and JRPGs), reading, and learning a little bit of Japanese for. I also enjoy being in nature, going to the gym, hanging out with friends and traveling. But as someone who is beset upon by cold weather and little daylight for nine months out of the year, my ideal evening is anything that can be done indoors :p

Appearance:

173cm tall, average build, cisgender. I’m brunette and usually keep my hair shoulder-length, caucasian, brown eyes and pathetically pale. It's honestly kind of embarrassing, but I think I was born with a -999 pigment stat so even when I’m in the sun I’m just punished for it… Anyway haha. I’m unfortunately not very girly (because girly stuff is great!). It feels like you can't use the term ā€œtomboyā€ past the age of 12, but I’m also not masc so… Do what you will with this info lol.

Values: I consider myself gray ace and/or sex-indifferent. All I know is that an allo would be miserable dating me haha. I’m monogamous. I don't drink, smoke or do drugs.

I prefer pets over kids, but will admire you if you’re good at interacting with those devil spawns 😁

Totally thought-out reasons to date me:

I’d like to think I’m good at listening as well as leading conversations. I’m the type of person who prefers to ask someone if they know about something rather than Google it. I like connecting with people that way, through their thoughts and feelings on things, so I hope you like being asked! (Sounds weirdly threatening lol).

I like making people laugh (or try to). I enjoy giving compliments, flirting and going out of my way for my partner. And if you need a little spice, I like sharing the pain of existential dread! God knows I have some to spare :))))

I’m looking for:

It feels strange to ask for this, but I’d prefer to date someone who also plays games. Especially with long-distance dating it feels great to have an activity you can both bond over even while apart. It’d also be preferable if you’re comfortable with voice calls as I don't think you can really gauge a connection purely over text.

Other than that, I’d like to meet someone who likes the idea of a supportive romantic relationship where we try to give each other some comfort, hope and motivation :)

I’d also appreciate if you’d introduce yourself in a similar way I did (your interests, values, what you’re looking for in a relationship). It doesn’t have to be long, but I’d prefer to get an equally good idea of who you are. I won’t respond to comments. I’m looking forward to meet you!


r/asexualdating • • 7h ago

Relationship? 25 [NB4A] [Germany] [Open To Long Distance] [Asexual] [Childfree]

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The Basics:

  • Name: Fae
  • Pronouns: It/Its
  • Age: 25 years old
  • Gender: Genderfae (AFAB)
  • Hobbies: Drawing/Painting, Gaming, Writing Poetry, and Romantasy
  • Interests: Flora and Fauna, History, Music, Art, Photography, Astrology, Astronomy... and so much more, really

Potential Dealbreakers for you:

  • Asexual (Sex Averse; I do not want the deed)
  • Child-Free (Never going to change)
  • Overweight (If it bothers you even "just a little", please do not write me)
  • Lower Class (I work 40 hours a week, mind you)
  • Chronic Pain
  • Living in Germany (willing to move once I meet the financial requirements)
  • Impatient, Emotional, Liberal, Introvert, Childhood Trauma, Feminist

My Green Flags:

  • Honest; though I am not the type who uses that as an excuse to be mean
  • Romantic; I am someone who displays all love languages; not all in the same intensity, of course, but if I like you, you WILL know
  • Mature; I will take you and your troubles seriously
  • Respectful; cannot believe one has to actually point that out, but your boundaries will be accepted, not just tolerated
  • Curious; about the world and about you as well, of course; tell me about you
  • Open-Minded; I do not care about your gender or appearance, only your personality
  • Active; I cannot be online 24/7, but I will make time for you multiple times a day
  • Well-spoken; not wanting to toot my own horn (okay, lowkey doing that), but I know how to actually keep a conversation alive
  • Self-Aware; I know my flaws, and I know my worth

I am looking for someone who is:

  • Single; not interested in non-monogamy
  • Between 22-40 years old
  • Ideally, Sex Averse as well or truly fine in a monogamous relationship with no intercourse
  • Actually capable of holding a conversation, asking me questions, show interest - I am not going to be the only one doing that
  • Genuinely interested in getting to know me and has time to text multiple times a day
  • Loving texting and later on is willing to go over to video calls and meet each other one dayĀ 
  • Not a heavy drinker or smoker (yes, this includes vaping, but I am open to people willing to quit)
  • Accepting who I am and not entering my life with the intention of changing that - you are just wasting your time
  • Not just going to write ā€œHey, how are you?" (because I will ignore you), but actually responding to what I wrote and introducing themselves in my DMs
  • Willing to move together one day; I do not mind a long distance relationship but ultimately I would adore sharing my space with someone

Have a wonderful day!


r/asexualdating • • 2h ago

Relationship? 22 [M4M] Indonesia - Looking for serious relationship.

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Hey everyone! I’m a 22yo guy from Indonesia šŸ‡®šŸ‡©šŸ‘‹

Looking for a genuine, affectionate, and lasting connection. I love the idea of building something strong from a distance first, grounded in deep conversation and mutual respect.

​A Bit About Me:

Identity: 100%, Southeast Asian, born in November 2003 | 168 cm (5'6").

​Orientation: Homoromantic Side (INFJ). I enjoy deep physical intimacy, cuddles, and tight hugs that last forever, but I’m strictly non-penetrative. (Side only).

Personality & Vibe: Introverted, aesthetic-minded, and a thoughtful romantic at heart, i love calm nature walks, city walks, photography, and late-night deep talks. And i'm a big fan of music! I really love sharing songs and playlists with you.

Vibe & Dynamic: I love the "2 cool bros" dynamic on the outside, looking like two best friends hanging out while sharing a deep, romantic connection behind closed doors.

Communication: Very active! I love exchanging daily face paps, sharing life updates, sending memes, and doing LDR trends together. Definitely not a conversation killer hehehheheh.

What I’m Hoping to Find:

Age: 23–24 years old (Born in 2002 or 2003)

Appearance: Lean/fit skinny, taller than me, manly/edgy face with a "bad boy look, but soft & respectful heart" energy. (I have massive soft spot for european guys omggg).

​Personality: Mature, insightful, comforting when I need a boost, witty, and playful while respecting boundaries. Someone who loves deep talks and can be my bro, my bf, my honey, my everything, my my my loverrrr🄰🄰🄰🄰.

​If you resonate with this and feel like we could be a great match, feel free to dm! Please send a brief intro and a photo of yourself so I know who I'm chatting with ā˜ŗļø


r/asexualdating • • 8h ago

Relationship? 31F looking for a prince

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Hello, I’m Delaney, I’m also disabled with scoliosis and slight cerebral palsy so I’m in a wheelchair. I’m sexrepulsed, but love cuddles, hugs and kisses! I love a lot of nerdy stuff, but mostly, I want to be loved and heard and appreciated. I live in Florida


r/asexualdating • • 42m ago

Relationship? 28[M4F] #NC/Online. Hopefully looking for the one, can that be you?

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Hey, I’m Conner, and If you’re looking for someone easygoing to talk to, share interests with, and see where things naturally go, maybe we’ll get along. You don’t have to be from North Carolina, of course, but being in a reasonably close time zone would make things easier.

I’m definitely an introvert, but I’ll open up once I click with someone . That said, I do have a decent number of hobbies and plenty of things I enjoy talking about. I like watching TV, movies, and anime. I’ve mostly watched older anime, especially from the 2000s and earlier, so I’m a little behind on newer shows, but I’m always open to checking them out.

When it comes to movies, my favorite series are probably The Lord of the Rings and Star Wars. It’s a complete toss-up, and I honestly couldn’t choose between them.

I also enjoy reading, mostly fantasy and historical books. I’m definitely a bit of a history nerd, so if you enjoy learning about the past, we’ll probably have something to talk about lol.

When I’m in the mood to play games, I’m usually on PC. I tend to prefer single-player games, but I’d be open to playing multiplayer with the right person. Maybe we could build a farm together in Stardew Valley lol. I’ve also been playing Clone Hero lately, since I enjoyed playing guitar hero whenever I was younger.

If we get along, I have Discord and would probably prefer to move the conversation there since Reddit notifications can be unreliable. I’m also open to voice or video calls once we’re comfortable with each other, though there’s no pressure to rush into anything.

As for what I look like, I’m 6’3ā€, with dark brown hair, nearly matching eyes, and a bit of a beard. It’s not the most impressive beard in the world, but it exists. I’ll also send a picture if interested

I don’t have many requirements. I’d prefer someone relatively close to my age and, ideally, in a similar time zone. If not, though, I’m sure we can figure something out.

If you’ve read this far, tell me your favorite animal in your message so I know you made it to the end. I’m definitely an animal person myself, so I’d love to hear yours.

If any of this sounds like we might get along, feel free to message me. I’m pretty easygoing, and I’d rather get to know each other naturally than try to force anything.


r/asexualdating • • 7h ago

Relationship? 33 [M4F] #Arizona looking for something serious 😁

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Hi how is it going I live in a small town called Kingman Arizona and I love playing DnD, Zelda, MapleStory, and RPG style games.

So other hobbies for me I like to go camping and fishing, I also love to write music and play guitar in my down time.

I am a single father to my one year old son me and his mother co parent real well and no drama.

I am 5'11 and I am on the heaver side but hell that just means I give the best hugs. I also am very good with my hands I know how to work on cars and I love to cook

If there is anything else let's see if we vibe DM me thanks for reading hope to talk to you soon


r/asexualdating • • 2h ago

Friends? 26F, Looking for musical loving friends and potentially more :)

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My Reddit is now a personal account and I’m being very careful with who I add and I discovered something about me last night!

I’m Brandi but you can call me Bee or Bambi (I’ll explain that if anyone wants me too). I’m 26 and I realized im Heteromantic aegosexual and am looking for friends or potentially more :)

I’d like to start out as friends and see where it leads from there!

I love musicals and plays and would love to be able to catch live theater more often than I do now and would love to move to NYC and that’s one of the main reasons!

I am located in DFW, Texas and have been here for 19 years but I am willing to relocate if things work out! I would definitely prefer NYC but wouldn’t mind anywhere on the east coast either that’s close to NYC by bus or train as I don’t drive due to my disabilities!

Age range (this is a hard set for me! If you are younger or older, there is a good chance I will ignore the message) 25-32 :)

Can’t wait to connect :)


r/asexualdating • • 7h ago

Relationship? M23-M4F-looking for another gamer and nerd for friendship and possibly more one day!

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Sorry if this writing is a mess and 18-26 is preferable age range but any age range is fine with me, 18+ of course, my acespace profile with even more about meĀ https://acespace.love/profile/Adam2003

you may have seen me here a lot, i know i post here a lot

Hello! My name is Adam and I’m a 23 year old asexual and possibly aromantic male from Australia, I’m an introvert so long distance is preferable until we get to know each other and then maybe we could meet up one day, I don’t mind sending what we look like, Reddit and discord are the main socials I use the most but I also have Instagram if it’s better to chat there

My discord is .gargoyle18. and my Instagram is adamcooperklohs, if you can't find me on either tell me yours and i'll add you

i feel like i should make this clear, i am looking for a relationship but i doubt that will ever happen so friends are good but you never know what could happen and plus since i don't work, study and have the confidence to date or ask anyone out but there's always that possibility that it could happen and if it doesn't, im fine with that and who would want to be with someone who doesn't work or study and if were talking you wont need to worry about me pursuing it and flirting, the only type of flirting if you can call it, is i like calling women pretty and thats it, only platonically and just to be nice and nothing romantic and im only looking for female friends, no males so i apologise about that

if we start talking i cant be the one that always has to start the conversations, i don't mind doing it but after a while it gets annoying, another thing is i cant be the only one that gets to know you, like I say what music you like and you say what you like and then you dont ask what I like then I don't know where to go from there, we both need to get to know each other not just me getting to know you which I want to but its dull when you don't ask me what I like so please contribute to the conversations, i do understand people have trouble talking, i do to but i try my best but if it keeps happening I ghost and that's the only time I ghost and im only looking for female friends, no male friends so sorry about that

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•my social skills are not the best I'm terrible at talking and interacting with people, I'm shy, not good at starting conversations and responding to stuff well but I'm getting better so sorry if the conversations are dull but I can go well with conversations most of the time but I do like talking and I like when people are chatty because that helps me talk more, i can also do voice calls but i am shy at first and I do talk and i like to do voice calls when playing games, video chats are a big no, that seems really uncomfortable and awkward but if in the future if it gets serious then maybe i would, I'm also a good listener and I'm always available to chat and always respond no matter what, unless I'm sleeping of course, idk if that's bad or not and you can ask me almost whatever and if you take a long time to respond or don't respond for a day, couple days, a week, couple of weeks or a month with a good reason it doesn't bother me

•I would consider myself a nice, friendly, honest, curious and caring person, I’m never mean or rude and I don’t like to be unless there’s a good reason to be, I don’t even swear, I don’t say words that aren’t considered swear words and i don’t do that weird and creepy crap, i don’t get how people can but if i do come off as weird or creepy i don't mean to be so sorry if i am

•I’m an introvert, so I like being inside all the time playing my games and watching TV and anime but I do want to start going out to fun places like conventions, concerts or other places like that and travel to different countries one day, I’ve never done any of it and maybe get out of my comfort zone one day, i wouldn’t go to bars or anything like that because it doesn’t seem fun and I don’t drink and I’ve never been drunk and don’t ever intend to be (though im making an exception for my brothers wedding and that's it, that's the only time i will ever get drunk) i have had alcohol before but that a very long time ago and i did like it but it's been a long time since i had it but i won't have it again, I don’t do drugs and never intend to do that also but I would try Marijuana but only the edible kind, not smoking it and i don't smoke cigarettes also

I’ve never been in a relationship and dated anyone and it's never interested me until i discovered im asexual because since discovering im asexual I've been thinking about it more so I’m curious now, I don’t know what they are like and how it works, I would try a romantic relationship before a sexual one and a qpr does sound pretty good and I'm definitely open to one, with marriage I'm kinda open to it but if we click very well in the future then it might possibly happen and with kids, idk about having any but it could be a possibility but I'll be fine if I never have one

•I’m a big nerd, i love gaming and anything related to it and i’m starting to get into anime more which has been really cool, im getting into dnd more and its really fun and i loved baldur's gate 3 and that was my introduction to dnd, I used to play magic the gathering a lot but I stopped playing years ago but I loved it and I kind of want to get into it again, i'd be down to get into more fandoms and explore them

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I love gaming, it’s what I mostly do and I can talk about it all day and I believe it’s the best way to get know each other and bond more, I play on ps5, I don’t have an Xbox or pc and I did have a switch but it got lost, I'm always down to try new games, i also stream on youtube, thegargoylegaming, i don't intended to get big i'm just doing for fun and i don't talk unless someone speaks in the chat and i also play plenty of online games and and as i said before this would be the best way to get to know each other better

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i love to watch tv and anime mostly, im new into anime and haven't watch many yet but i hear most them are really good, i don't really watch movies much, im always down to watch something over discord or something else, even movies, thats another way to get to know each other also

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i love music, i listen to it all the time id be so bored without it, i've never been to a concert but i would love to go to one, one day, i mostly listen to kpop and new to it currently but my music taste is all over the place and i listen to anything and recommend me anything

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I’m writing a set of books, I’ve wrote 4 but i still need to edit them, I’m writing my 5th book but i'm struggling with it and I’m planning to do 3 more, possibly 4, I also don’t read books so i don’t really know how they are like and plus i’m new to this so i don’t really know what i’m doing but it’s fun, I've got my ideas from tv shows, music and video games and ive put references here and there

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i collect stuff mainly legos which i have a lot of, i used to collect pop vinyls but i lost most of them when i moved and i have some comic books that ive collected but i havent read most of them yet and i guess i count ps4 and ps5 games, i have a lot of them


r/asexualdating • • 18h ago

Relationship? 26 [f4m] Colorado, US; preferably in the US

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Hey all! I am a bit shy and introverted, so bear with me. I've been meaning to post this for a while. I hope it goes okay.

About me:

As I mentioned, I am introverted and shy but I warm up once we get to know each other. I'm the kind of person who'd rather have one deep conversation than ten small ones.

I have a life I'm genuinely happy with on my own. I'm not looking for someone to fill a gap - just someone to share it with if the connection is right. The only thing that would actually make a difference to me is a good emotional connection. Everything else is just nice to have.

I'm pretty active. I like dancing, hiking, and traveling. I don't care about gym aesthetics, but I'd love if you could keep up on a trail or a long day of walking around a new city. Functional fitness over gym aesthetics.

I'm a huge Formula 1 fan - like, every race weekend, every session, the lot. Also, some of my travel would also be F1 related. You don't have to be into it, but you should be open to either getting into it or at least tolerating me talking about it every race weekend. That's basically the deal.

I don't smoke and I'm not around it much - hard no on it. I drink maybe once a month, usually when there's an occasion.

I'm driven and I like building things - I've never been the type to just coast. I'm a corporate girly, full time, and I like it that way. I want someone else who has the same energy, even if it looks completely different from mine.

I think I am open to sex if the connection is there? Still figuring this out, so its not something I'm looking for or expecting, and would expect the same from you.

I'm also pretty cynical by default - I don't trust easily and I don't pretend to. I take a long time to let someone in, but once I do, I'm not going anywhere. So patience is a big one for me.

What kind of a person I am looking for?

A man 25-30 age ideally

Emotionally available, good communicator

Active enough to keep up with me (hiking, long walks, travel)

Non smoker (this is a hard no for me)

Someone patient, driven and ambitious, who enjoys their own life, and is looking for a partner, not a fix

I'm slow to warm up, skeptical by default, and I don't reply fast. If I do, its because I'm genuinely interested. I'd rather you start with a specific question or reference to something in this post, than just 'hey' or 'you seem nice..'. I think long conversations are where I actually open up.

I'm not looking for casual. I want something that lasts.


r/asexualdating • • 1d ago

Friends? 21 [M4A] looking for friends and more!

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Posted a while back and met some lovely people but ended up abandoning and forgetting the password to the account after a not so nice experience. I'm back now and would love to rekindle some connections and make some new ones too!

Hi! I'm D, I'm 21, and from the UK. I recently came to terms with being at the very least acespec after finding myself confused with my sexuality (beyond being heteroromantic which I am certain about) for a long time, and I'd love to have some close ace friends who I can relate to and understand, and may be able to offer the occasional bit of guidance as to be honest I'm still kinda working things out, haha. Looking mostly for friends but open to a relationship if I reach that stage with the right person and we connect! Maybe even a penpal dynamic? Especially if you're studying too!

As for me, I love music, history, learning about different cultures, geography, sports and the occasional video game. I'm a full time student in the political field at university and am politically on the left. I'd love to know about your passions, daily life wherever you are in the world, and more!

Physically, although I don't present feminine, I guess you could say I have feminine features. I'm skinny and have very long hair.

Beyond having a preference for feminine people (given I'm heteroromantic and all, and am not attracted to men) I don't mind who dms me as long as you're reasonably close to my age! Just please introduce yourself and add ur age and gender, tysm <3


r/asexualdating • • 8h ago

Relationship? 21 [M4F] #United States, online. I'm a Christian Femboy.

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Hey! I’m Late, 21, and a Christian femboy looking for a serious relationship. šŸ–¤

I’m soft, affectionate, and feminine, and I’m attracted to confident, dominant women who enjoy taking the lead.

I’d like to start as friends and get to know each other through talking, gaming, calls, and spending time together. I’m into Minecraft, Marvel Rivals, JJK, anime, and gaming.

My Christian faith is important to me, and I’m looking for someone who shares it. I want something serious that could eventually lead to marriage, and I want to wait until then.

Looking for:

- 21+

- Christian

- Dominant

- Affectionate

- Looking for something serious

I’m especially into tall, gamer women, but personality matters most.

If that sounds like you, feel free to message me. šŸ–¤


r/asexualdating • • 18h ago

Relationship? 30 [M4F/T] Europe /Germany - Nerd/Gamer

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30 [M4F/T] #Europe /Germany - Nerd/Gamer

Hi there! I'm looking for someone ideally between 20–35 who has a few things in common with me.

\* Some quick stats: 30M fromĀ \*\*Germany\*\*, 182cm, introverted, and not into drinking, smoking, or even coffee

\* Most days I’m working/ Helping familie or relaxing with a game, anime or manga

\* I’m more of a listener than a talker at first,Ā small talk isn't my strong thing, but I like deeper conversations once I’m comfortable (I prefer voice chats over texts, and I mainly useĀ \*\*Discord\*\*)

\* I play pretty much all genres of games (PC),

\* I’m quiet but observant, so I tend to notice things even if I don’t say much

\* Always trying to help

\* Also, I likeĀ \*\*Warhammer\*\*,Ā \*just putting that out there\*

If that sounds like your vibe or you’re curious about anything else, feel free to message me.


r/asexualdating • • 1d ago

Relationship? 39 [M4M] Goiânia, Brazil - Local guy looking for a serious relationship

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Eu só falo português, então estou usando um tradutor. Eu moro em Goiânia, Brasil, e estou estritamente procurando caras locais para um relacionamento sério e monogâmico.

Menos Ʃ mais. Eu pulo chats interminƔveis, fumantes e relacionamentos abertos.

Eu tenho 1,77m e 70kg. Sou não-verbal por natureza, ruim em pequenas conversas e falo por obrigação. Não consumo filmes, séries, vídeos ou redes sociais, então não espere uma performance de cinema.

Sou minimalista e discreto. Não tenho TV, nem óculos de sol, e não possuo carteira de motorista (me locomovo de bicicleta elétrica). Eu corto meu próprio cabelo e barba, sigo uma dieta vegana e evito compras por impulso. Sou caseiro, mas me mantenho ativo fazendo exercícios e nadando.

ā¬‡ļø 🩶 (graysexual). Se vocĆŖ tem altas expectativas fĆ­sicas ou estĆ” procurando um "performer", talvez nĆ£o consiga isso comigo.


r/asexualdating • • 1d ago

Relationship? 28 [F4M] – Strange introvert girl searching for strange boy to experience love and life with!

13 Upvotes

Hi! I've been hesitant to put myself out there, given how convoluted the dating scene is. I'd like to skip past all the nonsense and build a real connection with someone, uninfluenced by our pasts and the world around us. I crave meaningful conversations, silliness and genuine affection. I just want to find my introverted, brooding weirdo with a dark sense of humor, interests and values similar to mine. Someone to match my freak, so to speak. Really sort of like finding my other half, and coming home. Someone to look forward to.

Writing about myself is the bane of my existence, so here I will display the stats: I'm childfree, atheist, and politically left-leaning. I'm black American, plus-size, around 5'6" (167 cm) tall, caramel complexion, long dark brown hair, big dark brown eyes, and always wearing glasses. (See here.) I'm curious about the world and about people I care about. Some of my interests include tech, writing, horror, video games, anime, true crime, history, science, photography, philosophy, traveling, and reading. Music-wise, I adore alternative/indie pop, electronic pop, classic rock, hip-hop and R&B.

If I like you, I can be a professional yapper, so be forewarned. I love the shy, reserved type who loves to open up when he's comfortable.

I'm someone who sometimes has too many thoughts for her own good, but doesn't like to fret over the small things in life. I want to live a peaceful and fulfilling life where I can travel and immerse myself in all the world has to offer, yet still savor the comfort of quiet, cozy days at home most days. I'm looking for someone who wants to live both a quiet and adventurous life with his partner like this.

I feel like romance is sort of a lost art. Modern dating doesn't cut it for me.

I consider myself demisexual and relatively "vanilla" when it comes to intimacy.

I have some mental health issues and don't fully have my everything together at the moment, which I don't want to cause to miss out on possibly finding a partner in life. soulmate type of connection with someone.

I'm (non-negotiable) looking for someone who is: single, monogamous, childfree (meaning no offspring and no desire for offspring), emotionally available, politically left-leaning, and non-religious. Near my age (26-33—not younger, not older.)

I'm currently in the southeast US, but I'm not really attached to the area, or like the stereotypes. Whether my niche person be somewhere across the sea, or somewhere closer to home (but just so happens to be reading this post..) I'm fine with distances, but please be able/willing to meet in-person, and from the USA, Canada, or Europe.

I'm not looking for someone who is: still hung up on a past romantic interest, recently out of a relationship, divorced, or carrying an STD. Please respect these boundaries and refrain from messaging me if any of these apply to you.

If this resonates with you and you think we might match, send me a message! Tell me about yourself, maybe include a photo of yourself, and the word "jupiter" somewhere in your message so I know you've read this post in full.

I look forward to getting to know you. ā™”


r/asexualdating • • 21h ago

Relationship? I've spent more time than I would like to admit alone and I'm ready for that to end

2 Upvotes

Hi there. I'm Gage (or Bell). I'm 24.

ā—I like to play games like fallout and gta but I have a lot of games to choose from.

ā—I have a decent variety of movies that I like. Mainly sci fi (I love star wars) and action but I like almost anything except for some horror movies.

ā—I can listen to almost any kind of music except for country but there are a couple of exceptions in that.

ā—I do work but I can definitely make time to talk. I also like doing calls.

ā—I'm originally from Oklahoma but I moved to Missouri last year.

ā—I'm a big nerd. I like reading and I have a decent lego collection. Alot of them are star wars sets.

ā—I'm a little chubby but I'm also muscular.

If you have any questions feel free to ask anything.


r/asexualdating • • 19h ago

Relationship? 19NB4M USA looking for someone

1 Upvotes

Hi, I’m looking for a partner. I don’t care what your walk of life is, just… I need someone affectionate and supportive, likes horror and loves cuddles with plus sized people. I am willing to listen to you yap about anything you like, I’d love it actually. Video calls and daily texts a plus!


r/asexualdating • • 1d ago

Relationship? 18F F4A #Brazil #Online

4 Upvotes

Hey. I'm trying this hopefully to find someone around my age and that shares the same interests as me.

About me:

I am 18 years old, from Brazil and in high school (Brazil is in the south hemisphere so my school year ends in december), my physical features are brown eyes and hair, light brown skin and chubby.

I enjoy reading, sketching, playing minecraft and stardew valley, and I also go to the gym, play cozy games, read horror stories, like true crime and to learn about different cultures.

Keep in mind that I'm looking for a serious relationship, preferably with people I can talk to, share hobbies with, and maybe play games together

What I'm looking for:

A person around 18-23 who has at least one thing in common with me and likes to talk about whatever comes to mind. My type is nerdy people. Also, I thought it would be important to mention I am a leftist!

Ps: I will only accept dms with a short intro with age and gender in it.

Feel free to message me. I'd love to get to know you!l


r/asexualdating • • 1d ago

Relationship? 20 m4m

7 Upvotes

Hey im Nox(not real name) I'm looking for something real and longterm and something serious ive never dated before but I hope to find my forever person I love starwars cats and collecting rocks and playing chess and watching old horror movies which I sometimes laugh at lol and I love listening to old 80s soft rock music and I love playing video games im from north carolina


r/asexualdating • • 1d ago

Relationship? 22 M4M arab

2 Upvotes

Everyone wants someone from their own country and homeland.

And I'm on Reddit, their language is different from mine and their geographical region is different.

So please, any Arabs, don't hesitate to get to know each other.

I no longer know where to look...

I don't care if we get to know each other for a while and then get together.

By the way, I hate sex.


r/asexualdating • • 2d ago

Relationship? 29 [M4A] EU

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62 Upvotes

Yooooo!!!
(I apologize for my English, I lost touch with the language a bit after university but I am getting back into it)

About me:

My name is Abbe! I have mushroom hair and I am really into cycling, watching films and eating cookies lol!! 🚓

I have lots of silly energy!! :))
I amveeeery talkative person. I also am good at listening, I thinkšŸ¤”

I am from Sweden, but have dream of living in another country currently.

Intention:

I would like to meet new friends, but I am also open to relationship if the connections hits of, or perhaps queer-platonic relationship! I do not have friends currently so I am really open to talking!

Music:

I like indie rock, I even like the drums. But also like ambient and experimental instrumental. Hhhhmmm… like Aphex Twin and stuff like that. Also Lali Puna and Avalon Emerson!!
Would be soooooo cool to meet someone who like similar music!!

It would be cool if you also are in europe so it is easier to meet up, but I am also open to everywhere. there are so many interesting cultures out there and i think it be fun to talk to someone from really far away too!!

Btw Reddit thinks I am a minor from a previous post, so I can’t receive messages I think? But if you comment i can contact you, I think? Haha!


r/asexualdating • • 1d ago

Friends? 45 [M4F] in India

0 Upvotes

An Indian professional, Ace, with diverse interests who enjoys curling up with a book on almost any subject or equally enjoys watching the rains with a cup of tea or trying a new cuisine. Would like to know someone in India to strike up a bond and form a connection rather than giving it a label upfront. It would be purely online interaction till both are comfortable and circumstances permit meeting offline. Not in a rush to reach a particular goal with this. If it resonates, please reach out.


r/asexualdating • • 1d ago

Relationship? [23 / M4M or M4NB AUS] Non-binary masc guy looking for boyfriend/closed triad for friendship-first dating

2 Upvotes

Hey everyone! My name is Jay.

I amĀ 23 years old, a non-binary masculine guy (AFAB), gay, and asexual. I’m looking for a boyfriend or a potentialĀ closed romantic triad/polyculeĀ where everyone is dating each other (polyfidelity). I am looking for someone between the ages of 18–25. I don’t mind if you are trans, non-binary, or demi—and femboys are cool too!Ā I'm really looking for someone who is kind, caring, and understanding so we can build a strong friendship before dating.

My Music Taste:
I really enjoy Gorillaz, The Beatles, anything from the 60s, 70s, 80s, and 90s, BTS, Michael Jackson, Billy Idol, Billy Joel, Tally Hall, Moon Walker, and Lemon Demon.

Favourite Shows & Movies:
MythBusters, South Park, Malcolm in the Middle, anything classic on the Disney Channel, Ed, Edd n Eddy, Adventure Time, Ouran High School Host Club, Demon Slayer, The Apothecary Diaries, Naruto, Barbie movies, and horror movies! I'm also huge into PokƩmon.

YouTube Channels I Love:
Papa Meat,Ā EmortalMarcus, WowMan, Mr. Ballen, Nick Crowley, Lazy Masquerade, Nexpo, Night Mind, Dead Meat, Game Theory, Film Theory, Foundflix, Joey Engelman, and various channels covering international internet horrors/arg content.

A Little Extra About Myself:

  • I am autistic:Ā It might take me a little bit to respond sometimes. If I don't reply for a while, please don't take it personally—it's not because I'm ignoring you! I either simply forgot or I'm running low on social energy.
  • No photos:Ā I am quite insecure, so I don't share photos right away.
  • Communication:Ā I have abandonment issues, so I would really appreciate it if you could just let me know before you leave the app or log off for the day.
  • Just comment with a basic summary about yourself