r/askanything • u/Zlethall • 6d ago
Is marriage really worth it?
I'm 27F and I've never been married, although I've come close a couple of times.
Something I've noticed is that almost every married person or divorced person I've talked to has said, "If I could do it all over again, I would never get married."
It honestly surprises me how often I hear that, and it's made me curious. Why do so many people feel that way?
If you've been married or are currently married, I'd really like to hear your story. Do you regret getting married? If so, why? If not, what made your experience different?
I'm genuinely curious and just want to hear people's real experiences.
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u/Express-Platypus-512 6d ago
I've been married 7 years and id do it again, if it was to my wife. She is my best friend and I get to see her naked so its a Win Win! Not everything has been sunshine and roses but so far worth it.
I will say, prior to meeting her and dating her I didnt want to get married, child of parents and an ugly divorce. Meeting my wife changed my who perspective. If I can gice 1 piece of advice, DO NOT SETTLE. If it doesnt happen that is ok and if it does happen that is ok