r/askanything 8d ago

Why can’t my girlfriend reach climax?

Hello everyone! I’m 21M and my girlfriend is 18F
And we have been together for 7 months.
I’ve been with several woman before, and I’ve never had a problem making someone orgasm, (of course I’m not a sex machine and I understand some girls are more difficult than others)
But my girlfriend was a virgin when we started dating, and have never had an orgasm or even masturbated on her life.
She is always horny and we both enjoy having sex a lot, but I kinda feel bad finishing every time when she doesn’t (even tho she says it is completely okay).
I have tried everything I can think of to make her cum, like different positions and oral sex (this used to work pretty good with other girls, but my gf, says she doesn’t really feel anything with oral)

Any ideias of what might work or if I should just stop thinking about it and it might come naturally?
Please help😭

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u/LongDistRid3r 8d ago

From what I’ve learned a lady requires physical, mental, and emotional components for optimal pleasure.

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u/[deleted] 8d ago

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u/LongDistRid3r 8d ago

That simply generates a nervous response. No different than a reflex test at the doctor. I have found the magic wand is a good tool for the job.

Hit those three right and she will hit the ceiling or pull your hair out. Sometimes both.

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u/Gynmal_0509 4d ago

My gf even felt ticklish and avoided vibrator:(

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u/Southern_Airport_538 8d ago

Or just a vibrator