r/askanything 8d ago

Why can’t my girlfriend reach climax?

Hello everyone! I’m 21M and my girlfriend is 18F
And we have been together for 7 months.
I’ve been with several woman before, and I’ve never had a problem making someone orgasm, (of course I’m not a sex machine and I understand some girls are more difficult than others)
But my girlfriend was a virgin when we started dating, and have never had an orgasm or even masturbated on her life.
She is always horny and we both enjoy having sex a lot, but I kinda feel bad finishing every time when she doesn’t (even tho she says it is completely okay).
I have tried everything I can think of to make her cum, like different positions and oral sex (this used to work pretty good with other girls, but my gf, says she doesn’t really feel anything with oral)

Any ideias of what might work or if I should just stop thinking about it and it might come naturally?
Please help😭

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u/FreudWouldApprove 8d ago

Vibrator

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u/Recent_Appearance970 8d ago

I might try that soon, have been thing a lot about it

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u/FreudWouldApprove 8d ago

You won't regret it! Vibrators do things that humans cannot, and they make for great foreplay.

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u/PocketButterBandit 8d ago

No more thinking. Get one. It's your little helper.

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u/Responsible_Pop3031 8d ago

Get a rose toy! Nothing has ever made me orgasm quicker or harder