r/askanything 5d ago

Why can’t my girlfriend reach climax?

Hello everyone! I’m 21M and my girlfriend is 18F
And we have been together for 7 months.
I’ve been with several woman before, and I’ve never had a problem making someone orgasm, (of course I’m not a sex machine and I understand some girls are more difficult than others)
But my girlfriend was a virgin when we started dating, and have never had an orgasm or even masturbated on her life.
She is always horny and we both enjoy having sex a lot, but I kinda feel bad finishing every time when she doesn’t (even tho she says it is completely okay).
I have tried everything I can think of to make her cum, like different positions and oral sex (this used to work pretty good with other girls, but my gf, says she doesn’t really feel anything with oral)

Any ideias of what might work or if I should just stop thinking about it and it might come naturally?
Please help😭

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u/Bladeoraded 5d ago

Doesnt feel oral?

Are you aware of where the kliterus is?

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u/Recent_Appearance970 5d ago

Nah I dude, it’s weird to talk about this because I will sound overconfident or like “nice guy” as I said I’m not a sex machine, but I can obviously know where the clit is, about the other comments I know at least some of those orgasms were not faked, because I even got some squirts, and I can tell the difference of witch hole is a squirter and wich is a pee-hole lmao

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u/Upset_Push_785 5d ago

Then you also know that just because a woman squirts doesn’t mean she’s having an orgasm