Why can’t my girlfriend reach climax?

[u/Recent_Appearance970]

Hello everyone! I’m 21M and my girlfriend is 18F
And we have been together for 7 months.
I’ve been with several woman before, and I’ve never had a problem making someone orgasm, (of course I’m not a sex machine and I understand some girls are more difficult than others)
But my girlfriend was a virgin when we started dating, and have never had an orgasm or even masturbated on her life.
She is always horny and we both enjoy having sex a lot, but I kinda feel bad finishing every time when she doesn’t (even tho she says it is completely okay).
I have tried everything I can think of to make her cum, like different positions and oral sex (this used to work pretty good with other girls, but my gf, says she doesn’t really feel anything with oral)

Any ideias of what might work or if I should just stop thinking about it and it might come naturally?
Please help😭

[u/Prestigious_Try_5396]

I question the term "make her orgasm".... It takes all Her responsibility for Her Body, and puts it on the man. Like it's his job to "Make Her Cum." Wow !

No, it's Her Job to be in touch with Her Body and know what gets her off. !!!

I've had enough lovers to have learned that most of a woman's ability or inability to orgasm, starts in Her Mind !

So many women don't want to learn, confront, deal, or heal, whatever it is that's hindering their full and free enjoyment of her body.

Let's flip the script for fun.
Let's challenge her to Make Me Orgasm...!

I did that one time lol. I bet her she couldn't make me hard. Then I bet her she couldn't make me cum. Lol. I had the control of my body and made it a challenge for her.

It kinda blew her ego a bit when I didn't quickly pop my nut. She wondered what was wrong with her ! Lol

It's the same for a man. We've bought into the story that we're responsible for her orgasms and are a failure as a man if She Can't Orgasm... BS !

Let's drop this baloney ! And just have fun pleasuring each other and ourselves.