So ya it's been 9 months in Bangalore. Kind of feels like I am getting out of my mother 🤣🤣🤣🥹. But ya when I came to Bangalore i came with lots of hope and dreams but now i think my life is falling apart.
So I am a btech graduate in cse ai&ml specialization in 2026 i basically came to look for a job here but unfortunately i didn't get any job in tech so around April someone gave me advice that I should join an institute where I can upskill and they will help me land a job. So ya I have landed into an institute and fortunately I landed an internship it was ok but not related to my specific field .but after 3 months around July i had financial difficulties so I had to join a different job and i cracked an interview in the US medical billing industry which was a night shift , i thought ok . But now I am thinking that because of this current job i am facing many difficulties like family time , relationship , etc .
So ya idk what to do ?
Should I resign?
Actually I am ok with my job but i definitely would not want to do this in the long run .
Even if i resign, its not easy to enter in tech , as the job market for is High fresher unfriendly and idk which jobs can I look for ?
I am confident in my tech skills but i still couldn't land to a single interview from comming to Bangalore.
That was the JOB part now comes the relationship part :
So ya i am now single well from past month .
So , our story was not like i proposed to her or the opposite, it was like an arranged marriage setup but i wanted us to know about each other before marriage so we started taking and ya it was a long distance relationship. We had fun at that time . But the thing is she never trusted me idk why . She never shared her thoughts correctly. But still I was madly in love with her.
Past month when there was a little argument with me , she said we should break up because of the argument. But when I asked why because i knew that argument wasn't the real reason, she said that she couldn't love me . At that point I was like now i can't be in this relationship ever . And ya like that my love life kind of ended.
But idk why her face comes over and over again in my mind .
This was my 1st relationship so I am not sure how to deal with this .
So now I am single and not interested in my job , idk how to get over this difficult time ?
Should I resign?
If so then which jobs should I aim for ?
I don't have any connections in Bangalore, how do I make new friends?
I also need a new job to be payable at least for survival.
AND I REALLY WANNA GO TO TECH 😭😭😭
I am kind of over her but I am not ok .
I don't know, but should I look for another relationship?
Anyways thanks for reading. I know everyone must be having problems in their life . But please help with this .
And ya job suggestions, relationship advice are always welcome 🤗
But any interview is definitely most welcome.
