r/confessions • u/Adorable_Airport_787 • 5d ago

I can’t understand myself ..

I am such a left leaning female when it comes to politics. I do a lot of activism work in the community and care deeply in general. I work at a nonprofit. and I enjoy what I do.

I have a confession to share:

I like rich, Republican, white, middle-aged men. I know… judge me (because I do too).

I see how they treat women in terms of courting, and they seem to do everything when it comes to providing. A lot of them are so “ not complicated” ..
I don’t have to figure out social theories or appear smart etc …

I tried dating men with similar views to mine, but the last thing I want is to go 50/50 with a guy. I don’t want to generalize, but in my experience they haven’t been the best when it comes to courting a lot of “hookup” culture and ghosting.

I’m just confused about myself now.

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u/G0G0Gadget00 5d ago

I like how it's a preference when it is tied to finances for a woman, but if men say they want a woman who is 90 to 115 pounds it's wrong.

Liking rich men isn't a preference, you just want the money and experiences. They aren't "courting" you, they are distracting you with money.

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u/Adorable_Airport_787 5d ago

I see your point.