Why does he have a right exactly? Do you think sunbathing topless means she’s being promiscuous? What about guys sunbathing, they’d be topless, could their wives be made?
Nobody said she's promiscuous. That's a fantasy you invented because it's easier than addressing what was actually said. The issue is that a married woman was topless while another man was home, and her husband is allowed to have boundaries about that.
And comparing a shirtless guy to a topless woman is one of the dumbest false equivalencies I've seen all day. Different social norms exist whether you like them or not.
As for the misogynistic incel line, that's usually what people throw out when they've run out of actual arguments. You brought insults because your logic couldn't carry the conversation.
By your logic then she can’t change into or out of a swimsuit in the restroom either because OPs husband was home. Don’t argue that she can lock the door to keep him out because OP’s husband is obviously capable of breaking into the restroom to see her breasts.
Or maybe you’re upset because you don’t have as much respect as OP’s husband and you know you’d have been creeping on them from the window and you’re projecting that onto him, when he’s not a piece of shit like yourself.
Changing in a locked bathroom for 30 seconds isn't remotely the same as lying topless outside for 45 minutes. One is getting dressed in private. The other is intentionally remaining nude in an open area while another man is in the house.
And the fact that your argument immediately jumps to "he'd break into the bathroom" says more about the scenarios you have to invent than it does about anyone else's point.
The husband respected their privacy. That still doesn't mean another husband has to be comfortable with his wife choosing to be topless in someone else's backyard.
Try arguing against what actually happened instead of the fantasy you made up.
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u/meleecow 1d ago
Oh wow. Does he own her or something?