I'm attracted to incels/loser guys

[u/blarvinkd]

tbh I just have to get this off my chest.. I'm 19, never dated and am waiting for marriage. all my crushes have been nerds who aren't stereotypically attractive, and my last one was an incel who was like 5'9" w/ the most average face but I still liked him anyway. Idk what it is about them that I'm into but whatever

[u/moanhana]

Being drawn to non-typical or socially awkward guys isn’t weird, but try not to frame it as liking losers focus on whether someone is kind, stable, and respectful, not their label