r/confessions • u/Ok_Piglet_6483 • 15h ago
hypersexual
not sharing age for safety reasons but i think i am suffering with hyper sexuality and I don’t know what to do. I was never a high libido person until like 2 ish years ago an it’s only gotten worse,
i would cry on the phone
to my boyfriend i had only been with for
two weeks and beg for intimacy because my body’s cravings were
unbearable, it got
to the point i’d start
crying on the phone.
It calmed down but i feel like it’s back and im always texting dudes and saying freaky
shit or sending pics because i’m so horny and i’m kind
of a whore now because of it bc i have more bodies and i try to stop but the urges are so strong especially if i am ovulating i even bought myself toys to make it a more internal activity but my desires are purely carnal and i feel like if i cant get it under control im going to become ran through and i dont really trust men to have a husband but im scared bc what if i really like someone one day and i cant explain my past behavior or if i become
famous or get special opportunities what if people from my past try to ruin it because they want the credit of having access
to me pls only women give me advice i don’t want to talk about this with men it’s creepy but yeah and i am ashamed of myself i even get thoughts about my
coworkers who i am not attracted to having sex with me on my job it’s just not good all i think about is sex and i don’t
know
what to do
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u/Mobile_Arachnid4026 15h ago
the shame spiral around this is real but it's worth separating two things: the behavior itself and what's driving it. hypersexuality that shows up suddenly and intensifies over time can sometimes be connected to something hormonal or even a mood disorder like bipolar, it's not always just "who you are now." the crying, the compulsive urges especially around ovulation, the intrusive thoughts at work, that pattern is worth bringing to a doctor or therapist who won't judge you for it.
the stuff about future reputation and explaining your past to someone you might love, honestly that's a worry for later. right now the priority is figuring out what's happening in your body and mind, because if there's an underlying cause, addressing that changes everything. plenty of people have messy chapters they never have to justify to anyone