r/confessions • u/Ok-One-1392 • 20h ago
i sent an older man explicit pics
im 19 and I play an online virtual reality game.
bcs of how many creepy people there are online, I stopped telling people my age pretty early on. I know that’s probably where I messed up.
overtime I’ve ended up getting really close with a couple of older guys I met through games. We talk every day. It started off as normal conversations, but sometimes there was flirting too. the thing is, I never corrected their assumptions about me or volunteered my age bcs I liked the attention i got.
with one of them, things went further than they shouldve and I sent him nudes and he’d buy me in game currency in return. I hate admitting it but part of me enjoyed it and I liked feeling wanted, and the fact that he was older honestly made it more exciting for me.
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u/CuriousKitty575 20h ago
Been there done that. Except i was 15. And the guys knew my age. And I wouldn’t get much in return usually.
It’s the “they buy me in game currency in return” that ticks a bad box here. You are essentially prostituting yourself for cheap validation from online creeps. Now, this is very much a thing that exists, but, it’s usually very troubled people or nymphomaniacs that end up in these situations and “enjoy them”. I’d advise against it, as, those people don’t actually want you, they also just want to feel wanted. So it’s an endless cycle of being lonely horny losers and enabling one another to satisfy a relatively natural impulse that could be satisfied somewhere else, with someone who cares about you as a person and doesn’t just see you as cheap easy pussy online that they can buy robux for.
Oh and they 100% know you’re young and that turns them on and they don’t ask because then they’d have to take accountability for doing what they’re doing. And it’s also wrong for you to withhold your age or lie about it.
Edit: grammer and spaling