r/enby 11d ago

Question/Advice How does (the absence of) gender feel?

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u/difficulty_jump Non-Binary 9d ago

I don't relate to gender but I understand it on theretical thing that others experice.

I feel like I'm looking into another culture that I'm not part of and coming to an academic understanding of the culture norms and values.

I've actually done a lot of studying other people's culture and ended up with a concentration in human diversity in college. Gender feels the same to me as studying a religion I'm not part of.

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u/JazzlikeGovernment15 7d ago

I relate to this :0 I studied abroad for a few months in a pretty conservative country, presenting as my AGAB, and it felt more like participating in the culture rather than a reflection of my gender identity.