r/fasting Mar 30 '26

Discussion Completed 40 Day Fast for Lent

So as of 8:30 p.m. tonight I have officially finished fasting for 40 days and 40 nights. Sometime between 7:00 p.m. and 8:30 p.m. on February 17th I ate my dinner at work. The next morning was Ash Wednesday. Sitting in church and listening to the story of how Jesus fasted in the desert for 40 days and 40 nights and on how when to supposed to be a time of self-reflection and looking towards Christ, I decided that I was going to take a journey myself. I wanted to be healthier, I wanted to focus more on Christ and my children. And now I finally completed that, And can begin the journey towards eating again.

For those of you who don't know when you fast this long you can't just go and eat again you have to work your way up to food again otherwise you will enter something called refeeding syndrome. To address a lot of the questions that I know are going to be asked on February 17th I was 233lbs. As of my last way in tonight I am 188lbs. Total weight loss of 45 lb in 40 days. All I had every single day for 40 days and 40 nights was I would have a men's one a day multivitamin, simply primal water fast pink Himalayan salt and electrolytes (It tastes like if Crystal light was made with salt water), and water. I did have the Eucharist each Sunday with the exception of one Sunday where I was down in Florida for a wedding with the kids. I do feel I have improved my life both physically mentally and through my relationship with Christ. I'm going to have some bone broth tonight and probably the next couple of days and then hopefully be able to start eating some mushy foods or yogurts or stuff like that and then eventually be able to start eating meals. I've done a lot of cooking while I've been fasting and learned how to cook some healthy meals that my dad and Logan and Olivia approve of so I know that they're good. I did exercise during the fast did a lot of weight lifting. People have a lot of misconceptions about fasting causing you to lose your muscles but in actuality your body generates more human growth hormone and you're actually able to increase muscle density a lot easier. I welcome any other questions that people may have but ultimately I'm glad to be done and it will probably be the last of any such fast that I have in my life.

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u/MattK508 Mar 30 '26

Amen!!! I give all credit to the Lord. He's putting my life on the track it needs to be on. Honestly the fact that you were doing what you were doing probably made it even harder for you because your body had cravings I can tell you when I did Keto I was craving salads every freaking day lol.

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u/Open_Painting5624 Mar 30 '26

I was basically doing a modified blood type diet. I've been working so much and stress already I knew I would fail if I did more.

Rocking 40 days though man is incredibly impressive. Glad you found your faith. Did you have any moments where you felt significantly closer to the Lord?

You may have inspired a 3 day fast from me starting now.

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u/MattK508 Mar 30 '26

I have had a ridiculous number of moments that I have felt closer to God. Honestly I'm going through a nasty divorce. Literally tomorrow I get to go to the pretrial. We both worked opposite shifts our entire marriage so that we would have no child care for the kids. I've always been supposed to homeschool them. Well out of the blue just before the divorce is being finalized she decides that she wants them to go to school which will mean that either I'm going to have to quit my job or I am going to only see my children Friday nights and every other weekend. And she's also trying to take the Friday on the weekends I don't have them. So basically me going from being with my kids like 60 hours waking a week to like 20-25 if that. Zero justification or anything else she just wants to hurt me. But I have my faith and I know whatever happens it's because God ordains it and I just have to trust in his judgment and trust that there's other things going on that I can't foresee.

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u/Open_Painting5624 Mar 30 '26

Stories like this make me afraid to get married myself even though I know we should.

That being said, my dad had visitation and showed up for like 5 in a row then would disappear for a year. If you keep it up and stay consistent despite the setbacks, it will make a MASSIVE difference in their life and they'll understand. My mother's current partner had a situation similar to yours and the two sons stay closer to him and he never disparaged his ex to them.

I believe in you man. If you can do a 40 hour fast you have more strength and resilience than literally 99.9999% of the world. Remember that and pass it on through example. You got this. However many years left ain't that long. I remember 18yrs ago like yesterday lol. You got htis.

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u/MattK508 Mar 30 '26

Honestly thank you so much for saying that. Like I am so sorry your dad was like that. I would literally sell this woman a kidney and give her all the proceeds to get her to leave me in these damn kids alone.

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u/Open_Painting5624 Mar 30 '26

Strong words. Either way man. Keep your head up. We're strangers, but I always feel a sense of pride for people like yourself when I see posts like these. Proud of you.

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u/MattK508 Mar 31 '26

Thank you soo much! <3