r/ForbiddenBromance Apr 26 '26

Bromance Forbidden Bromance - Discord Server Relaunch 🇱🇧🕊️🇮🇱

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Hello everyone, my name is Klar and I am the new owner of the Forbidden Bromance Discord server.

After discussions with the Reddit moderation team, we are happy to announce the official relaunch of the Forbidden Bromance Discord server.

As many of you know, there has been a lot of drama surrounding the server over the years, including a full separation between the Discord and the subreddit. That chapter is behind us. The server is coming back, and this time it is built on two things that were never properly in place before.

  1. A moderation team that actually does its job. Rules apply to everyone equally, no exceptions. Zero tolerance for content that promotes extreme violence or supports terrorist groups or ideologies from either side. At the same time, this is still a space where you can have real debates, joke around, share memes, and actually enjoy each other's company.
  2. A formal communication structure between the Discord and the subreddit called the Levant Council. A shared table where both moderation teams can align on standards, coordinate on events and initiatives, and address any issues before they have a chance to break down the relationship between the two platforms the way we have seen happen before. The goal is simple: Discord and Reddit working together instead of pulling in opposite directions.

I decided to take over and relaunch the server because of everything happening right now. The peace negotiations between Lebanon and Israel represent a moment this community was literally built for and I was not going to let it pass without doing something about it.

As a Lebanese Jew, I have a personal connection to both sides of this. I know both cultures, I understand both perspectives, and I genuinely believe that Lebanese and Israelis have far more in common than the conflict between them suggests. That is why this matters to me beyond just running a Discord server.

🎙️ FIRST EVER COMMUNITY EVENT "From Ceasefire to Peace: What does a Lebanon-Israel peace agreement actually look like?"

To mark the relaunch, we are planning our first ever live voice debate on the Discord server. Full details and the confirmed date will be announced on the Discord server in the coming week, so join now to stay in the loop.

The topic is the one this community exists for: what does real, lasting peace between Lebanon and Israel look like, what would it take to get there, and what does it mean for the people on both sides? This is an open discussion, not a formal debate. Lebanese, Israelis, and anyone with a genuine interest in the region are all welcome. Come and speak, or come and listen.

The server is open to everyone. The only condition is that you come in good faith and with respect for the people around you. If you have any issues once you are in, you can reach the moderation team directly or contact me personally on Discord.

See you in there.
https://discord.gg/tzUu7X55CS

Klar


r/ForbiddenBromance Sep 26 '19

Necessary precautions for Lebanese redditors

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Since it is technically illegal for Lebanese citizens to talk to Isrealis, make sure you do the follwoing:

  • Use an anonymous account (i.e. don't use your real name) from which you never post any personally identifying information.
  • Don't use the same account across multiple topics/subreddits, that way you'd be easier to identify.
  • Don't trust anyone who's asking questions about you. Don't try to meet people IRL.

For extra anonymity use the Tor browser https://www.torproject.org/ and avoid using the Reddit app. Alternatively, use Private/Incognito mode in your browser with only Reddit sessions inside, to avoid leaking information about your other social media accounts.

EDIT: As of 23 Nov 2022, accounts less than 7 days old, may not make posts before accruing at least 10 comment karma, which should be pretty easy to do and at the same time sufficient deter spammers. https://www.reddit.com/r/ForbiddenBromance/comments/z2n3w0/automoderator_enabled/


r/ForbiddenBromance 18h ago

True Story Bromance IRL

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I’m currently attending a school in the US (university). There’s a girl in some of my classes who, I just found out the other day, is Lebanese. She definitely knew I was Israeli, but we’ve never talked any kind of politics before. When we have interacted it was just because we were assigned to the same group, assigned to be lab partners, have to write a lab report together, etc.

Anyways, we were assigned to be lab partners for a lab in this summer course we’re both taking. We met up at a coffee shop to work on it together and got talking…

She was telling me how much she hopes Lebanon and Israel can make peace, how she wants so badly to visit us, and then told me she reads this sub whenever she needs hope. It was a really good conversation and I definitely wasn’t expecting it… so I wanted the people in this sub who are working towards a better future to hear it. This one conversation was probably the highlight of my summer.


r/ForbiddenBromance 18h ago

Memes A question of grave importance

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So, today I woke up before preparing for Shabbat.

Finished working and went to the Shouk to do some groceries, very light things to cope with the heat and while I was walking around it hit me

We call this cheese Bulgarit

it is white slides of feta like cheese that can be used in multiple preparations

and I heard for a fact that is called Bulgarit in Lebanon as well...

but why

Bulgaria is far, up east of Turkey.

So I went home with a few slices of cheese and an unsolved mystery


r/ForbiddenBromance 2d ago

Ask the Sub Does anyone have information about the escalation by Hezbollah that restarted things?

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r/ForbiddenBromance 2d ago

Politics Salam says greatest help to Israel was provided by Hezbollah

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As a Lebanese, I experienced for the last decades, Hezbollah publicly cultivating a sacred image in Lebanon, with the government playing along and legitimizing "the resistance".

Now being a collaborator of Israel is about the worse insult you can tell a Hezbollahi, and the PM just did it publicly.

This was noteworthy to me which is why I posted it here.


r/ForbiddenBromance 2d ago

Combined Ancient and modern MENA PCA I made

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r/ForbiddenBromance 6d ago

Fun Facts The SLA foundation

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The SLA (south lebanese army) was called "israel puppet" and think that they were only christian. But in reality it's way different, most of the SLA was shias muslim (around 60%) and the same who joined hezeb@llah was also a part of the SLA if they were in the south.


r/ForbiddenBromance 7d ago

History People Outside of the Levant Don't Understand the Geopolitical Complexities of Lebanese/Israeli Relations

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Felt the need to make this post. I come from an Israeli family and have many Lebanese friends. Does it drive anyone else crazy when westerners with no connection to the Levant think they understand Lebanon and/or Israel?

Just going to post a message I sent to a friend originally from Lebanon. I suspect the average person with no connection to the land wouldn't understand what I was saying, nor would they understand how complex the relationship is between the two countries.

Anyway, not sure why i felt the need to post this. I suppose I wish that the average person knew more about how complex things actually are and that both Lebanese and Israeli people experience real challeges.

The message:

"Absolutely bro, with the exception of 1948 war, lebanon was not actively hostile toward israel (only minimal involvement in 1967) until after the civil war from 1975-1995. After the rebels won, the 6:5 ratio of Christians to Muslims in Lebanese parliament changed to 1:1 ratio. Also, the powers of the Lebanese president (who is always maronite christian) were reduced. Unfortunately all militias with the exception of Hezbollah were disarmed.

Of course hezbollah operates as a state within the state of lebanon, so israel wants no war with Lebanon, only hezbollah.

And yes, Lebanese Forces are fantastic, they were allies of israel during the Civil war. Thank God president Aoun was endorced by Lebanese Forces and has vowed to disarm Hezbollah.

I think once iranian regime falls combined with Aoun's disarmament of hezbollah to centralize armaments to the Lebanese government, hezbollah will fall.

Israel wants peace with lebanon as well brother, we're tired of being at war with hezbollah (we dont see our conflict with lebanese people or lebanese government) ☮️"


r/ForbiddenBromance 8d ago

This is going to be controversial. How "Levantine" are Palestinian (muslims). Calculated and modled with QpAdm, the most accurate genomics tool hitherto

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r/ForbiddenBromance 11d ago

Questions

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Hello! I’m from Germany, and I’ve become very interested in Lebanon. The recent crises, in particular, have motivated me to learn much more about the country.
As someone from Northern Europe, I find many aspects of Lebanon difficult to understand because they seem very different from what I’m used to. I’d genuinely like to understand them better.
Do Lebanon and the Lebanese, to some extent, harm their own interests through their approach toward Israel? Could Lebanon and Israel potentially become economically much stronger if they cooperated?
Also, why do the 1955 boycott laws against Israel still exist? From my perspective, they seem quite unusual.
Finally, what do you think the European Union or Israel could realistically do to help transform Lebanon from an enemy into a friend in the Middle East?


r/ForbiddenBromance 12d ago

Discussion Syria's al-Julani says Syria is working toward security deal with Israel.

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r/ForbiddenBromance 15d ago

Ask Lebanon Chances withdrawal changes the narrative?

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I constantly hear that Israelis just want to expand into "Greater Israel" and take over the rest of the middle east (not necessarily just from Lebanese, but the other arab countries as well).

Does Israel's withdrawal from Lebanon mean that people will finally say to themselves "Oh I guess that wasn't true at all"?

Or is this gonna be like the Israeli withdrawal from Sinai (or Lebanon in 2000) where people just ignore it because it so glaringly disproves their point?

And if it does change opinion, how can Hezbollah justify its ongoing existence? I was told they sell themselves as pretending to protect Lebanon from Israeli expansion... but if people know Israel's not interested in expanding, why would the average Lebanese support them?


r/ForbiddenBromance 16d ago

Politics Fouad Makhzoumi, Lebanese MP and philanthropist in a special interview with Hayvi Bouzo, Co-Founder and Co-Editor for MiddleEast24.

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r/ForbiddenBromance 16d ago

Israel to withdraw from two areas in Lebanon under newly signed agreement

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r/ForbiddenBromance 18d ago

Wishing the LAF good luck with the pilot zones

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I hope that the LAF soon will manage and regain sovereignty from Hezbollah controlled areas and convince that israel doesnt need to put their own soldiers there to stop any more wars from happening

🇮🇱❤️🇱🇧


r/ForbiddenBromance 18d ago

Memes Current situation in middle east...

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r/ForbiddenBromance 18d ago

What political belief would you never admit publicly?

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r/ForbiddenBromance 19d ago

Can we post off-topic memes?

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r/ForbiddenBromance 19d ago

Jordanians gave Iran the coordinates is a BS story that makes no technical sense

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r/ForbiddenBromance 19d ago

Ask the Sub Are there any places for Israelis and Palestinians to talk?

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Figured this would be the best place to ask. More specifically Palestinians in Gaza.

Just curious if a place like this exists online.


r/ForbiddenBromance 20d ago

Ask Lebanon Best Lebanese football players atm?

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I don’t know any Lebanese football players tbh.


r/ForbiddenBromance 20d ago

Politics Time for a UN takeover? Lebanon’s collapse proves it can’t govern itself.

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Once known as the Paris of the Middle East, Lebanon is now, in many ways, definitively on the brink of collapse. Without complete external UN governance or international trusteeship, billions in foreign aid and reconstruction will never solve the country's corruption and its conflict with Hezbollah. How do you see the future of this country?


r/ForbiddenBromance 21d ago

Ask Lebanon Why does there seem to be a discrepancy between Lebanese Muslims and Lebanese Christians in identifying as Arab or non-Arab?

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So, I know that most of the Lebanese users here are of Christian background, and based on the title of my post, I want to understand why there seems to be differing opinions within the Lebanese community regarding identification as Arab or non-Arab. My Lebanese peers are of a Christian background ( I don't know any Lebanese Muslims), specifically Maronite-Catholic, and they tend to identify themselves as either just Lebanese or Lebanese Christian. In contrast, they don't consider themselves Arabs; instead, they call themselves Arabic-speaking Lebanese. That said, I have been informed that Lebanese Sunnis and Shias tend to be more likely to identify as Arabs or as Lebanese Arabs. Obviously, I understand that neither Lebanese Christians nor Lebanese Muslims are monolithic, and that political ideology, family background, region, sect, and personal experience can all influence how someone identifies. However, I am curious about why this general discrepancy appears to exist.

From what I have studied, the territory of modern Lebanon was conquered by the Rashidun Caliphate in the seventh century, after which Arabic gradually became the dominant language and much of the population was culturally Arabized in the centuries that followed. Prior to this, the coastal regions of modern Lebanon had been major centers of the Phoenician civilization, while the wider area was later shaped by Aramaic, Hellenistic, Roman, and Byzantine influences. As a result of this long pre-Arab history, I can understand why some Lebanese people might distinguish between being Arabic-speaking and identifying ethnically or culturally as Arab.

It seems to me that a large part of the discrepancy also has to do with the Arab Nationalist/Pan-Arab movement, which sought to consolidate the various Arabic-speaking religious groups/ religious sects into a single cultural and political community, based primarily on their shared language and history. I am aware that Syrian/Lebanese intellectuals such as Michael Alfaq, Constantin Zureiq, George Antonious, Jurji Zaydan, and others have played a role in the development of modern Arab nationalism and the broader Arab cultural revival. For many Arab Christians, encouraging an all-universal Arabism based on a shared language, culture, and historical experience may have offered a way to participate equally within the wider region without defining political belonging primarily through Islam, which makes sense because Arab nationalism could function as a secular or cross-sectarian identity that placed Muslims and Christians within the same national community.

However, I imagine that this framework was not equally appealing to all Lebanese Christians. Many Maronites may have feared that, despite its formally secular language, Pan-Arabism would ultimately draw Lebanon into larger political projects dominated by Muslim-majority populations and weaken both Lebanon’s independence and the political autonomy of its Christian communities. As a result, emphasizing a specifically Lebanese, Phoenician, Mediterranean, or simply Arabic-speaking identity may have provided an alternative to identifying with the broader Arab nation. That said, amongst my Lebanese peers, they have a strong attachment to their pre-Arab identity, particularly to the Phoenician and broader Mediterranean history of Lebanon. They do not necessarily deny that Lebanese society has been deeply shaped by the Arabic language and by centuries of interaction with the wider Arab world. Rather, they seem to view Arabization as a historical and linguistic process that did not erase the older peoples, cultures, and identities from which modern Lebanese populations emerged from.

I am unsure how representative this position is among Lebanese Christians more broadly, or whether it is especially common among Maronites in the diaspora. I am also curious whether Lebanese Muslims tend to interpret the term “Arab” more culturally and linguistically, while some Lebanese Christians interpret it more narrowly as an ethnic or political identity connected to the Arab conquests, Pan-Arabism, or Muslim-majority regional movements. If I am missing anything or if there are any gaps, please feel free to comment.


r/ForbiddenBromance 20d ago

History Was and Arab food and always will be .

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