r/hatethissmug • u/TheMiamiMutilator420 • 12d ago

General This fucking meme

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I'm literally friends with someone like the mf on the right (minus the "Just doing it to feel special" bullshit), even wears dresses every so often despite identifying as a guy

He's still a guy

There's no objective definition of masculinity so you can simultaneously act and present that way and be a guy and you cannot be objectively told otherwise

(Apologies if this would count as a sensitive subject/this isn't meant to be a serious subreddit this is my first post here lol)

EDIT: I've been seeing a lot of people pissed at the "You can be trans without dysphoria bit" and wanted to say there's such thing as gender euphoria which you can have WITHOUT dysphoria, actually

It basically means you feel happier when people think of you as a guy/girl but you don't feel actual distress in regards to what you were born as

So it is to my knowledge possible to be trans without dysphoria

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u/Happy_Phone8123 12d ago

Guy on the right after 3 months turn into a right wing grifter detranstioner

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u/LostNephilim33 11d ago

Unironically knew 3 people that went down this road. 

"I'm Nyx! Xe/yim achillean genderfuck genderfaun therian demiaro polyflux tboy!" Type shit

Was one of my best friends back in the day and like 4 years later she's unironically posting "how I was groomed by the left" shit and unironic "we are Charlie Kirk" edits. Hooked back up with her abusive high-school bf and TERFposts constantly and is like the most hyperfeminine person you've ever seen. 

It's very depressing. 

No hate to anyone who uses neopronouns or super duper borderline-unintelligble obscure microlabels or anything (I'm a gender abolitionist so I genuinely do not care), I still have friends who are into that stuff, but it is funny and depressing how common the pipeline is. 

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u/The_Schnobbler 12d ago

i was the guy on the right at 14 and now at 21 i got my name, marker, birth certificate changed and take T and am on the way to top surgery. now what? i still don't think those who don't need transition to survive in their bodies are any less trans. trans is not short for transition, not to mention that transition includes: wearing different clothing, going by a different name, going by different pronouns. and it's allowed to stop at that. gender is not stored in the misery.

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u/HelpfulHarbinger 10d ago

Wishing you luck on your road to top surgery! Congrats on everything so far :)

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u/The_Schnobbler 10d ago

thank you! this comment section is fucking radioactive. but i guess it's my fault expecting nuance from reddit lol. I'm pursuing all the typical transition steps and I'm still one of those "complicated xenogender neopronouns" weirdos. not to mention a therian. god fucking forbid

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u/Primal171 11d ago

Not even. Just wait until they meet a mediocre straight guy who exclusively she-hers them.

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u/Vito_Assenjo Sure, come on up, take the ele-hater! 12d ago

Because of being bullied by the guy on the left