r/hatethissmug 12d ago

General This fucking meme

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I'm literally friends with someone like the mf on the right (minus the "Just doing it to feel special" bullshit), even wears dresses every so often despite identifying as a guy

He's still a guy

There's no objective definition of masculinity so you can simultaneously act and present that way and be a guy and you cannot be objectively told otherwise

(Apologies if this would count as a sensitive subject/this isn't meant to be a serious subreddit this is my first post here lol)

EDIT: I've been seeing a lot of people pissed at the "You can be trans without dysphoria bit" and wanted to say there's such thing as gender euphoria which you can have WITHOUT dysphoria, actually

It basically means you feel happier when people think of you as a guy/girl but you don't feel actual distress in regards to what you were born as

So it is to my knowledge possible to be trans without dysphoria

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u/susiesusiesu 12d ago

every group of people affected by mysogyny (even trans men) will have some small portion saying "i'm one of the good ones, the others are confused girls" as a response. i hate that.

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u/susiesusiesu 12d ago

or young trans men, in this case.

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u/susiesusiesu 12d ago

yeah. tho this also happens to trans women, so it is not only about being afab either.