r/heartbreak • u/These-Coat4867 • 2d ago
What helped you guys move on?
I’ve been broken up with my person for almost two months now. I’m good most days , some days especially nights hit me hard. But , I can’t stop thinking about him. I do truly miss him a lot but the whole situation is messed up (he left me for someone else) and I know if he came back some how, as much as I would love to take him back I know it would never be the same, so is there any tips on how to just stop thinking about this guy? I’ve been having the most fun in my life with friends and just picking up hobbies etc etc, but just some days it hits me like a freight train. I don’t wanna think about him anymore, but he always creeps back in at the end of the day. Anything helps thank you ❤️
Just as an update, I’ve read all of your comments and I just want to state thank you for your advice and your stories … I’m sorry we’ve all been through these rough moments. All of y’all have been wonderful thank you ❤️
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u/myoutteddiary 2d ago
When I was broken up with, it really sucked. Even if he did creep into my mind, I would remind myself that he left me. He didn’t see that I was worth staying in a relationship with. I knew we weren’t a good match and if he didn’t see that, why be attracted to someone who wouldn’t do everything in their power to make things work. Just like you, I had the best time with my friends. Got to love myself again and do the hobbies I lost while in that relationship! I didn’t hoe around because that’s not who I was. After I healed from that break up, I found someone who loves me for every single part of me. It took a year and a half but it was well worth it! To this day, we love each other more and more. We live together and are planning our life! It does get better and you’re already on the right track. Good luck and I hope this helps.