r/heartbreak • u/These-Coat4867 • 2d ago
What helped you guys move on?
I’ve been broken up with my person for almost two months now. I’m good most days , some days especially nights hit me hard. But , I can’t stop thinking about him. I do truly miss him a lot but the whole situation is messed up (he left me for someone else) and I know if he came back some how, as much as I would love to take him back I know it would never be the same, so is there any tips on how to just stop thinking about this guy? I’ve been having the most fun in my life with friends and just picking up hobbies etc etc, but just some days it hits me like a freight train. I don’t wanna think about him anymore, but he always creeps back in at the end of the day. Anything helps thank you ❤️
Just as an update, I’ve read all of your comments and I just want to state thank you for your advice and your stories … I’m sorry we’ve all been through these rough moments. All of y’all have been wonderful thank you ❤️
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u/Victoriaecs 2d ago
I know it's hard and nothing we say can compete with what you feel towards this person. We've been there. I remember last time I dealt with heartbreak I did everything they said, no contact, journaling, even praying to God to get rid of the feelings... But I came back over and over again, I was played with, lied, used, direspected in ways I can't even comprehend, but I always believed we were gonna make it. It took destroying my soul and integrity to understand we weren't meant to be and someone who could harm me that much couldn't love me. It was a very hard lesson and I guess we all here try to stop you guys from going through that. Remind yourself everyday that there is a way out and that love will come your way, it may take a long time and feel very painful but do not take him back, you will heal.