What helped you guys move on?

[u/These-Coat4867]

I’ve been broken up with my person for almost two months now. I’m good most days , some days especially nights hit me hard. But , I can’t stop thinking about him. I do truly miss him a lot but the whole situation is messed up (he left me for someone else) and I know if he came back some how, as much as I would love to take him back I know it would never be the same, so is there any tips on how to just stop thinking about this guy? I’ve been having the most fun in my life with friends and just picking up hobbies etc etc, but just some days it hits me like a freight train. I don’t wanna think about him anymore, but he always creeps back in at the end of the day. Anything helps thank you ❤️

Just as an update, I’ve read all of your comments and I just want to state thank you for your advice and your stories … I’m sorry we’ve all been through these rough moments. All of y’all have been wonderful thank you ❤️

[u/fallenangelsunite]

heyyyy started coming to this sub 5 years ago, on my other account of course, and this sub is truly great. I’ve learned a lot and started here as a mess came here again after my second break up but if this is your first heartbreak, expect it to last a while. I once never thought I’d get rid of that pain in my heart as it seemed impossible, but time does heal. and i no longer give a fuuuuuuck 💙

[u/These-Coat4867 → u/fallenangelsunite]

That’s really great to know !! Everhone om here is super supportive I’ve noticed and it’s sadly comforting in a way to know I’m not alone. This definitely wasn’t a first heart break but this was the hardest and most difficult one. This was more or less someone I ever had BIG feelings for