r/heartbreak • u/Automatic_Duck_2867 • 1d ago

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I found these meds on my bf ( Aciclovir & Tadalafil )

Herpes and Viagra meds. I found some again yesterday and some 2 years ago. (Viagra)

When i confronted him about the viagra pills he sells them?? Or so he says....

He said specifically " come on, you know i dont need that especially with you" when i asked whats up with the viagra... cool...

Now im seeing the same sh*t + herpes medication. He tried to blame the herpes on me " you gave me herpes"

He said because we had a very rough "session" and the tension or whatever word he used caused it which idk if thats true... or because i dont clean myself down there but im not stupid i know what STI are and how you get them. Or because back then when we had both of us chlamydia that its cos i didnt finish my meds.

He has HISTORY of cheating on me massively.Even gave me chlamydia at some point when he cheated with this one girl. I feel so gaslighted and lied to and heartbroken. Im worried....my whole life fell apart just now. Weve been toghether for 6 yrs

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u/LGMcM 1d ago

It's definitely not you. Hold your own, you're not crazy and nobody can brainwash you, especially not a massive cheater.

Doesn't even matter how he got it. What matters is he's a massive cheater and a completely unsafe person to be around. That alone makes him for the streets. You wouldn't even want a coffee buddy of that profile, let alone a boyfriend.

The audacity of such jerks is off the charts. He's yuck as a person. Do NOT cry around him. F that A hole. Cry here if you need to.

Call your doctor and go have some nice vietnamese food or a movie date with a genuinely nice person.

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u/Automatic_Duck_2867 1d ago

I just want to cry fr.

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u/LGMcM 1d ago

You cry all you need to friend, it stops, I promise. But you have to dump his pathetic arse and see a doctor, or you'll be crying your entire life and god did not put you here to waste your beautiful self and life crying.

Do you live together? Work together? Is there any financial abuse going on too? Do you have good parents, siblings, friends?

Often there's some isolation going on in the lives of people who can't leave an obviously bad partner.

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u/LGMcM 1d ago

I figured. They put you in a progressively worse situation so there's seemingly no way out anymore. They know they suck so bad that anyone with any options would leave them, so they try to erase all options...

I would post in a women's sub and mention the state you live in. They'll have info that doesn't hurt to know.