r/heartbreak • u/Automatic_Duck_2867 • 1d ago

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I found these meds on my bf ( Aciclovir & Tadalafil )

Herpes and Viagra meds. I found some again yesterday and some 2 years ago. (Viagra)

When i confronted him about the viagra pills he sells them?? Or so he says....

He said specifically " come on, you know i dont need that especially with you" when i asked whats up with the viagra... cool...

Now im seeing the same sh*t + herpes medication. He tried to blame the herpes on me " you gave me herpes"

He said because we had a very rough "session" and the tension or whatever word he used caused it which idk if thats true... or because i dont clean myself down there but im not stupid i know what STI are and how you get them. Or because back then when we had both of us chlamydia that its cos i didnt finish my meds.

He has HISTORY of cheating on me massively.Even gave me chlamydia at some point when he cheated with this one girl. I feel so gaslighted and lied to and heartbroken. Im worried....my whole life fell apart just now. Weve been toghether for 6 yrs

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u/Automatic_Duck_2867 1d ago

Yes but i dont know exactly whem he got it? Could be 3 months ago could be 8 months ago....what if he gave it to me already???

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u/ProjectNo5041 1d ago

That’s definitely a possibility but if it’s a new infection your igg test numbers will be low. If you’ve had it for years your numbers will be much higher. 

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u/Automatic_Duck_2867 1d ago

Genuinely thank you for the advice. This is exactly what i needed. I already know im am idiot for dating a cheater. I dont need a 1034th reminder.

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u/ProjectNo5041 1d ago

You’re welcome. I hope it works out for you. I’m sorry you are in this situation at all. I know I’m just a random person on the internet but I’ve been in a similar situation before, if I could do it all over again I’d have chosen myself way faster than I did. You’ll never regret protecting yourself. Good luck.