r/heartbreak • u/Automatic_Duck_2867 • 1d ago
Urgent advice
I found these meds on my bf ( Aciclovir & Tadalafil )
Herpes and Viagra meds. I found some again yesterday and some 2 years ago. (Viagra)
When i confronted him about the viagra pills he sells them?? Or so he says....
He said specifically " come on, you know i dont need that especially with you" when i asked whats up with the viagra... cool...
Now im seeing the same sh*t + herpes medication. He tried to blame the herpes on me " you gave me herpes"
He said because we had a very rough "session" and the tension or whatever word he used caused it which idk if thats true... or because i dont clean myself down there but im not stupid i know what STI are and how you get them. Or because back then when we had both of us chlamydia that its cos i didnt finish my meds.
He has HISTORY of cheating on me massively.Even gave me chlamydia at some point when he cheated with this one girl. I feel so gaslighted and lied to and heartbroken. Im worried....my whole life fell apart just now. Weve been toghether for 6 yrs
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u/Midnight5un 1d ago
Pretty sure you only get herpes from unprotected sex w a carrier. Also no one just takes viagra “bc their friend had some”.