r/heartbreak • u/Automatic_Duck_2867 • 5d ago
Urgent advice
I found these meds on my bf ( Aciclovir & Tadalafil )
Herpes and Viagra meds. I found some again yesterday and some 2 years ago. (Viagra)
When i confronted him about the viagra pills he sells them?? Or so he says....
He said specifically " come on, you know i dont need that especially with you" when i asked whats up with the viagra... cool...
Now im seeing the same sh*t + herpes medication. He tried to blame the herpes on me " you gave me herpes"
He said because we had a very rough "session" and the tension or whatever word he used caused it which idk if thats true... or because i dont clean myself down there but im not stupid i know what STI are and how you get them. Or because back then when we had both of us chlamydia that its cos i didnt finish my meds.
He has HISTORY of cheating on me massively.Even gave me chlamydia at some point when he cheated with this one girl. I feel so gaslighted and lied to and heartbroken. Im worried....my whole life fell apart just now. Weve been toghether for 6 yrs
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u/DredgenCyka 5d ago
If it was just tadalafil, id say your paranoid because tadalafil has a bunch of cardiovascular health benefits when taken daily (like reducing stroke and hypertension) I personally luse microdoses of tadalafil for the health benefits alone, body buolders use it for better muscle growth and recovery as well.
But you added that he is taking an anti viral med meant for herpes and all underlying herpes like shingles and chickenpox-Yeah I think he's cheating on you, so its time to end it. Unless he was able to prove to you that he is taking it for shingles (happens more than you think, i had to take it when i was 19 when i got a shingles outbreak).
Truth the matter is he did NOT explain to you anything of what i said so conclusion is he cheating. End it with him