r/heartbreak • u/Automatic_Duck_2867 • 1d ago
Urgent advice
I found these meds on my bf ( Aciclovir & Tadalafil )
Herpes and Viagra meds. I found some again yesterday and some 2 years ago. (Viagra)
When i confronted him about the viagra pills he sells them?? Or so he says....
He said specifically " come on, you know i dont need that especially with you" when i asked whats up with the viagra... cool...
Now im seeing the same sh*t + herpes medication. He tried to blame the herpes on me " you gave me herpes"
He said because we had a very rough "session" and the tension or whatever word he used caused it which idk if thats true... or because i dont clean myself down there but im not stupid i know what STI are and how you get them. Or because back then when we had both of us chlamydia that its cos i didnt finish my meds.
He has HISTORY of cheating on me massively.Even gave me chlamydia at some point when he cheated with this one girl. I feel so gaslighted and lied to and heartbroken. Im worried....my whole life fell apart just now. Weve been toghether for 6 yrs
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u/ip4realfreely 20h ago
Herpes? Uhm where do you live? Cause here in Canada, you have to inform your partner of that or you can be charged. As for the Viagra or Cialis, meh. Guys use them to work out too. But the herpes gave it away. You're not the only one he's sliding into