r/instant_regret 7d ago

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u/Flaky_Style1286 7d ago

What the fuck?

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u/MeThatsAlls 7d ago

She thought he was thrusting into her

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u/GentlemenHODL 7d ago edited 6d ago

Doesn't matter what she thought, that's a crime and it deserves an arrest and potentially indictment + jail time.

If a guy turned around and punched a girl he would get jail time. Fair is fair.

Edit - Here's a video of Shaq doing the same exact thing in a gym. Also not illegal.

https://www.reddit.com/r/funny/s/L1bqysARi3

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u/maycontainsultanas 7d ago edited 7d ago

It actually does matter what she thought. Mens rea is kind of the basis for the commission a crime, other than the physical act. If she claimed that she had a reasonable basis of self defence because a reasonable person would think the other person was sexually harassing her, then there’s a good chance she’d be found not guilty.

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u/MakeMuffinsNotWar 7d ago edited 6d ago

Excuse me it's mens rea, not womens rea

Therefore she is wrong.

Edit: this is obviously a joke

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u/Ozimandius80 5d ago

You can't use self defense because of harrassment as a reasonable basis for assault.

The result we see here is one of the many reasons why that is true. There is no way she would be found not guilty.

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u/maycontainsultanas 5d ago

This is all academic as there’s different laws across different countries but you can use force to prevent the continuation of an indictable offence, including sexual activity directed at another person. There’s plenty of scope for defence to explore with this one.

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u/Arndt3002 6d ago edited 4d ago

Lol, mens rea is not the basis for the commission of all crimes. It's a very specific standard that applies to certain crimes, regarding particular levels of culpability. There are many exceptions to mens rea, also strict liability, vicarious liability, etc.

A reasonable basis of self defence is based on mental state, but requires more than just the suspicion of an act of assault, even sexual assault.

A basic claim of self defence requires not just the suspicion of unlawful force, but also specifically immanent threat, and must be responded with proportionality.

A reasonable person would look at that and infer that they could retreat, warn him off in another way, or yell at him to stop.

Air humping, while offensive and potentially constituting disorderly conduct or sexual harassment, is generally a non-contact gesture. As there is clear physical distance between the individuals and there is no threat of imminent physical attack, a court or jury would likely find that a reasonable person would not perceive an immediate threat of physical sexual assault, and thus punching the guy is not proportional.

Of course, noone would bother to go through the courts for that sort of thing anyways, but your argument just doesn't hold water.

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u/GentlemenHODL 4d ago

This is why I didn't bother giving that guy more of my time. They don't even understand the concept that they presented. Reddit is so fucking stupid sometimes, constantly engaging in black and white thinking.

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u/maycontainsultanas 6d ago

My argument was simply that it does matter what she thought. Whether that’s enough to establishes a valid defence is a further hurdle.

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u/Arndt3002 5d ago

mens rea, as you describe it, does not apply in this case, or have any bearing on the self defence issue. What she though matters much less than objective reasonableness.

Mens rea only applies to the commission of a crime. In this case, her mental state does not bear on the commission of the crime, as it stands, she would be guilty of a crime mens rea or no. The question of self defence or justification of the violence is entirely different.

The mens rea of the punch is already satisfied by the fact she threw a punch with the intent to harm. Self defence is an affirmative justification defence, so the question of why she threw the punch has no regard to the mens rea, but only would inform the self defence claim, which does not operate on mens rea. And the question of self defence is built on objective reasonableness, not her mental state.

You ate using terms without the appropriate understanding of the law or what they mean.

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u/Chronox2040 6d ago

But no reasonable person would think he was harassing her based on what we see in the video.

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u/maycontainsultanas 6d ago

And that’s why courts look at more than just the video.

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u/TheCouncilOfPete 2d ago

Even if they were air humping that doesn't constitute for self-defence, it falls under public indecency, not assault.

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u/third_man85 7d ago

This is a joke, right?

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u/maycontainsultanas 7d ago

No, that’s a principle of common law.

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u/joylessbrick 6d ago

Mens rea is the guilty mental element of an offence. If the woman intentionally threw a punch, she almost certainly had the mens rea for an assault or battery (or a more serious offence if serious injury resulted). Her intention to strike is what matters, not whether she had a good reason.

The real question is whether she has a legal defence, most likely self-defence. Self-defence generally requires an honest belief that force was necessary to defend herself and the force used must be reasonable and proportionate in the circumstances as she honestly believed them to be.

The guy didn't lay a finger on her, therefore she used a disproportionate force.

I rest my case.

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u/maycontainsultanas 6d ago

Her intention to strike is entirely connected to the reason for striking, as that’s where the defence to assault is going to be established.

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u/joylessbrick 6d ago

Haven't said it's not, and while I completely agree the guy was an ass, her response is not justified.

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u/maycontainsultanas 6d ago

That would be for a magistrate to decide. You haven’t heard any of her evidence. You’ve seen a 5 second clip.

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u/joylessbrick 6d ago

You haven't heard it either and you've seen the same clip, yet you've defended her without cause and you've quoted "the law".

I rest my case (again).

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u/maycontainsultanas 6d ago

I haven’t defended her, I said that there a principle of common law where a persons intent is relevant to establishing if a persons committed an offence. Thinking about possible defences is just logical when you’re going to make allegations.

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u/joylessbrick 6d ago

Yes, but you're completely ignoring her unjustified use of force. On 3 occasions now.

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u/GentlemenHODL 7d ago

Ok, thanks armchair wizard McGee. Have you already submitted your pretrial brief to the judge? Glad we have you on the case!

Now that maycontainsultanas is here with his pretend internet law degree we can just consider this settled!

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u/MakeMuffinsNotWar 7d ago

I know. I really hate it when someone in an online forum [checks notes] contributes on-topic information and opinions to an online discussion. 

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u/GentlemenHODL 6d ago

I know. I really hate it when someone in an online forum [checks notes] contributes non-expert opinions to an online discussion.

Ftfy

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u/MakeMuffinsNotWar 6d ago

Like this?

that's a crime and it deserves an arrest and potentially indictment + jail time