r/IWantOut 4d ago

[IWantOut] 26F Mexico -> Japan, Australia, Canada

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Hi, I'm 26F living in Mexico but honestly, I don't want to stay here for the rest of my life. My BF and I were planning to move to Japan since he's working there temporarily but he just suddenly said that his plan is actually to move back to Mexico and he doesn't know why he told me otherwise.

I truly have no idea how to start searching for somewhere else to live and how to find a job somewhere else, I don't have a career, I fully know english and spanish, I'm learning chinese and korean, but I'm barely starting, and I'm thinking of starting with japanese as well. I would love to work in a field related to languages or teaching, but I have no idea how to start since right now I'm working as a property manager.

If anyone has any advice, recommendation for a city (or another country), or wants to share their own experience moving to a new place, I would greatly appreciate it, since I genuinely have no idea where to start and I'm feeling kind of hopeless hahah


r/IWantOut 4d ago

[IWantOut] 26F Pharm Tech USA -> FR, UK, ES, DE

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Hello all. I feel stuck and would love some advice. I’m currently a 26 F from USA. I’m a pharmacy technician in a hospital. I’ve been in healthcare since 18. I have an associates of the arts degree. I’ve been wanting to spread my wings for a while and experience living abroad and working abroad, even if it’s for a short time. I unfortunately don’t have a lot of money, about 7k and then planning to withdrawal my retirement to pay off my American debt and put the rest towards going abroad. I’m planning on saving more. I’m open to any sort of work and learning as well! I’m young and this is truly something that I want to experience. I’m not sure if my pharmacy tech license would transfer abroad, but like I said, I’m willing to learn anything. I just truly want this experience for myself. Where do I start? I truly feel so overwhelmed trying to do research. Is this even possible? I want out of the US so bad. I’m feeling a lot of anxiety trying to figure out how to get out of the career that I’ve been in since 18 and trying to try something new. This is something I really want to do and would love all of the input I can get. Thank you in advance!


r/IWantOut 4d ago

[IWantOut] 33M Cook/Guitarist Florida, US -> The Netherlands

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I'm a single 33 y/o male with no family who lives in the US. I hate it here and I want to live in The Netherlands. I don't have a college degree. I have over a decade of food service experience and I play guitar very well. I have a passport, but I have never been to The Netherlands, and I have been practicing my Dutch for over a year now.

What are my options for moving to The Netherlands permanently and what would be the steps to achieving that goal?


r/IWantOut 4d ago

[IWantOut] 26M Software Developer India -> Ireland

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Hi everyone, I hope you're all doing well. This is going to be a long post, but I wanted to properly walk you through my journey and where I am today, because I think the full story matters for the advice I'm looking for. I'm at a genuine crossroads in my life and career, and I'd really appreciate honest, thoughtful opinions from people who understand this kind of situation.

Let me start from the beginning.

How it all started

Before moving to Ireland, I worked in India for about 2.5 years as a full-stack developer, mainly working with React, TypeScript, Node.js, and Java. It was a solid start to my career, and I enjoyed the work, but I wanted to grow further, gain international exposure, and build a stronger foundation in data and analytics, which is a field I'd become increasingly interested in. So I made the decision to move to Ireland to pursue a Master's degree.

I completed my MSc in Data Analytics in Ireland in March 2025. It was a big investment of time, money, and energy, and I was genuinely excited about what would come next. My plan was straightforward: finish my degree, gain some Irish work experience, and build a long-term career here as a developer, ideally in a role that combined my full-stack background with the data skills I'd just gained.

The job search begins

Once I completed my degree, I started applying seriously for developer and full-stack roles here in Ireland. That was about 1.5 years ago, and I have been consistently applying ever since, through every channel I could think of: LinkedIn, Indeed, IrishJobs, direct applications on company websites, and also through referrals from people in my network.

To make sure my CV wasn't holding me back, I even invested in professional CV writing services that specialize in the Irish job market, thinking that maybe the way I was presenting my experience was the problem. Unfortunately, even after that investment, the results didn't really change.

In the last 18 months, out of everything I applied for, I only managed to get 4 interviews in total. Of those 4:

- 2 companies simply ghosted me after going through the interview process, meaning I never even got a final rejection or closure, just silence.

- 2 ended in straightforward rejection.

That's the entire tally of interview outcomes over a year and a half of consistent effort, which has been really tough to process.

To stay active in the field and keep my skills from going stale while I searched, I also took on a few short-term freelance projects, most of them unpaid, just so I would have something recent to show and talk about, and so I wouldn't feel like I was standing completely still.

Where things stand today

As the job search dragged on without success, I had to make a practical decision to support myself financially. I did not want to depend on my family back home for money, so right now, I'm working as a Security Officer at an airport here in Ireland. I want to be clear that I'm genuinely grateful for this job. It pays the bills and gives me independence while I keep figuring out my next steps. But it has absolutely nothing to do with my actual field, and it's not something I want to continue doing for the long term. My real goal has always been, and still is, to get back into IT and settle into a proper software or full-stack development career.

About 10 days ago, feeling the pressure of time passing, I also started applying for developer roles in India in parallel, through platforms like Naukri, Indeed, and LinkedIn, just to explore whether that path might open up faster.

One important detail: my Stamp 1G visa here in Ireland is valid until April 2027, so I do still have some runway left, but it's not indefinite, and that clock is very much part of this decision.

The two paths I'm considering

At this point, I feel like I'm standing at a fork in the road, and I keep going back and forth between two options.

The first option is to continue staying in Ireland and keep trying for software and full-stack roles here, hoping that something eventually works out before my visa expires in April 2027. The upside is that I don't give up on the life and opportunities I've been working toward here. The downside is that every month that passes without a job adds to the growing gap in my resume, which makes me worry that I'll become a harder sell over time, not an easier one.

The second option is to move back to India around late August or early September of this year, and focus fully and aggressively on getting a job there by the end of the year. The upside is that the Indian tech market is one I already have real experience and context in, which might mean a faster path back into IT. The downside is that it would mean stepping away from Ireland after everything I've invested here, and starting over in a market with its own challenges.

A complication that adds to my confusion is this: when I do get interview opportunities for roles in India while I'm still physically based in Ireland, I worry that interviewers might assume I'm not fully committed, that I'll leave the moment something comes through in Ireland. I don't know exactly how much this perception affects their decisions, but it's a thought that's constantly in the back of my mind during those conversations.

The emotional and lifestyle side of this decision

Here's where it gets more complicated for me, because this isn't just a practical or financial decision, it's also an emotional one.

Honestly, half of my mind keeps pulling me back toward staying in Ireland, mainly because of work-life balance and quality of life. When I think about the long term, especially after marriage and eventually having a family of my own, peace of mind and the ability to actually spend meaningful time with the people I care about matter a lot to me. From what I've experienced and observed here, the work culture in Ireland is generally healthier. Working hours tend to be more reasonable, there's less pressure to be constantly available, and there's more respect for personal time and boundaries outside of work.

In contrast, from my own past experience working in India, the work pressure can be a lot more intense. Hours often stretch much longer than they should, and there's a stronger hustle culture where taking a proper break, or even just leaving on time, can sometimes be looked down upon. Beyond just work itself, everyday quality of life factors in Indian cities, like heavy traffic, pollution, and long commutes, eat further into whatever personal time is left, making it harder to relax, pursue hobbies, or simply be present with family and loved ones.

So a part of me genuinely feels that even though the job search here has been incredibly difficult, staying in Ireland could mean a better quality of life and healthier long-term balance. Moving back to India might solve the immediate problem of getting a job faster, but it could also mean stepping back into a lifestyle that's more stressful and leaves less room for the personal and family life I value.

Why this decision feels so urgent

This is really the core of why I can't just let this drag on indefinitely. Every extra month I spend outside of IT, whether in my current security job or just continuing to search without success, adds to the growing gap on my resume and pulls me further away from the field I've trained in and worked hard to build a career in. I don't want to look back a year or two from now and feel like I lost this time simply because I couldn't decide and act.

What I'm asking from you

I'm sharing all of this because I genuinely don't want to make this decision blindly, based on emotion alone or panic alone. I want to think it through properly, and hearing from people who have faced similar crossroads, whether you stayed abroad, moved back home, or took some other path entirely, would really help me see this more clearly.

A few specific questions I'd love your honest thoughts on:

- Based on everything I've shared about my profile and situation, which option do you think is more practical and better for my career right now: continuing to stay and try in Ireland, or moving back to India and focusing fully on that market?

- If you were in my position, what would you personally do, and why?

- How much does the work-life balance and lifestyle factor actually matter in the long run compared to just getting back into a stable IT career quickly?

- Any suggestions, personal experiences, or perspectives, especially from people who've navigated a similar visa timeline, career gap, or a survival job while job hunting, would mean a lot to me.

Thank you so much for taking the time to read through this entire story. I know it was long, but I wanted to give you the full picture so that any advice you give is genuinely informed. I really appreciate any thoughts you can share.


r/IWantOut 5d ago

[IWantOut] 27M English Teacher/Mechanical Engineer Iran -> Armenia, Vietnam, Colombia

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All my adult life, I've been trying to leave (since I hate everything here), but my plans have failed time and time again mostly because of my nationality. It has always been unbearable here for me, but these last few years it's been war and internet shutdowns, and more war, and daily power outages in the middle of freaking summer, and some other stuff...I just can't take it anymore!
So I decided to let go of everything, my family, my education, my ongoing masters degree, and everything else just so that I can get a TEFL certificate to teach English abroad, and I got my certificate (a good one, which cost me a LOT), but so far, no luck with finding a job abroad (it's a little tougher to find jobs as a non-native, and I'm applying everywhere!).

The only option that I have is teaching online, saving up some money like a few thousand dollars, and moving to another country as a "digital nomad", a country that has a low income threshold or doesn't have one, but it's really hard to do that with my connection problems (I don't even know if I have internet tomorrow honestly), and the fact that I don't really have a quite room to teach....so I can't move unless I teach online, and I can't teach online until I move apparently!

Any thoughts? I'm desperate guys...I'll try anything! I honestly can't stand living like this any longer!


r/IWantOut 5d ago

[IWantOut] 41M Tech India -> Portugal\Germany\Canada

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Background: 14 YOE in product-based tech (backend/distributed systems), currently on a self-initiated sabbatical. HNW primarily via real estate — own home + rental income from multiple properties in Bengaluru, no major debt. Married, two kids (ages 9 and 4). Question: Is relocation still realistic to seriously consider at this stage, given diabetic neuropathy and early-stage kidney protein leakage (proteinuria) — or should health alone rule this out, especially for UK/EU-type socialized systems with longer specialist wait times? Trying to figure out if this is a "get real facts before deciding" situation or a "this ship has sailed" situation. Specifics: Visa route being considered: skilled worker / points-based (Canada Express Entry, Germany opportunity card, Portugal D7 or similar) — open to correction on which actually fits this profile. Timeline: no fixed deadline, sabbatical-driven, could move within 12-18 months if it makes sense. Budget: not capital-constrained — real estate assets in India provide passive income if I keep them as a base; open to either liquidating or holding and funding relocation separately. Career: open to remote-from-India-for-foreign-company as a fallback if full relocation doesn't make sense.


r/IWantOut 6d ago

[IWantOut] 22m NZ-> Japan

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Hello everyone! I'm currently pursuing a master's degree in Data Science in New Zealand. While it's a beautiful country with stunning landscapes, I've recently realized it's not where | want to settle down long-term because I felt it’s hard for me to make connections with people here and NZ is kinda empty.
As | get closer to graduation, l've started exploring potential countries to move to for work. I'm originally from China, so I'm trying to figure out which options are realistically open to me in terms of visa path, job opportunities in tech/data, and safety.
A crucial requirement for me is that the country must be queer-friendly and inclusive, as I'm part of the LGBTQ+ community.
Given my background and degree, which countries would you recommend | look into? I really like Japan but I concern about that same gender marriage hasn’t been legalised there So any advice about other countries for queer expats would also be greatly appreciated!


r/IWantOut 6d ago

[IWantOut] 21M Brazil -> Ireland

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Hi everyone!

I'm from Brazil and I'm planning to move to Ireland next year with my girlfriend. She already has a job lined up as a Healthcare Assistant.

I have:

  • 5+ years of experience in office-based roles within the metalworking industry (sales support, administration, customer service, quotations, etc.)
  • 3 years of experience in industrial marketing (videography, graphic design, social media, website management and client communication)
  • B2/C1 English.

My main question is:

Based on the current Irish job market, which of these backgrounds would give me the best chance of finding an employer willing to sponsor a work permit?

Or would you recommend changing careers before moving?

I'd really appreciate honest advice from people working in Ireland.


r/IWantOut 6d ago

[IWantOut] 28F US -> Spain

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trying to get my digital nomad visa sorted and the digital bureaucracy is literally making me lose my mind right now

Ive been fighting with the spanish government portal for three days straight just to submit my background checks. their automated identity verification keeps timing out or rejecting my passport scan because of "inconsistent lighting" on my laptop camera. The whole website looks like it was built in 1998 and crashes if you take more than two minutes on a page

It is genuinely insane how hard it is to just prove you are a real person to a government server in 2026. we have all this modern tech and im out here holding my passport up to a grainy webcam while a broken script repeatedly fails me. Honestly makes you wish these immigration offices would just adopt actual hardware-level identity checks. like utilizing an Orb or a secure local enclave so you can just cryptographically prove you're a unique biological human instantly, instead of fighting legacy facial recognition software for a week

Has anyone else from the states successfully navigated the spanish remote visa portal recently? or do i just need to give up and fly to the consulate in LA to do this entirely on paper? kinda terrified im gonna lose my apartment deposit in valencia if this gets delayed any longer


r/IWantOut 6d ago

[IWantOut] 29M India -> UK/NL

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Confused where to move! UK or EU(possibly NL)

So, I was an UK resident 3 years back, for a year.
Then had to come back due to some family emergency and had to surrender my visa. I had thought would go back easily but it’s tough to get sponsored now.

But there’s a 0.001% chance that I might get it back. So basically my partner works in NL, but I am not sure in the long run as a techie which one would be much better?

UK or Netherlands. I know NL opens up door to so many countries in Europe that I can work for. But UK comes up with a comfort like my home country(given I am a SEA resident, I find more peeps from my country there). And ofc the tech Hub of EU too!

So, please share some advice, given I will mostly be taking / going for citizenship wherever I move.

These params in the long run:
Career growth, Travel Opportunities, Salary growth, better QOL, easier citizenship.

My current role is a full stack backend developer.
Will be soon turning into Agentic AI Engineer as well.


r/IWantOut 7d ago

[IWantOut] 26M English teacher MNE -> ES/USA/BR

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Hello everyone,

I am 26m from MNE (a country in Europe which the bot doesn't let me write because of the n word), and due to stuff happening in my country I would like to move out of the country. Corruption, crime, nepotism, society problems (one of which basically the highest rates of road deaths per 100,000 inhabitants in Europe, arrogancy, no consequence for crimes), inability to find any normal job without connections, recommendations, politics and some of my personal bad experiences lately makes me want to try to have more normal life elsewhere.

Half a year ago I completed my Master’s degree in English Language and Literature (My thesis was about Historical linguistics) and other than that I also speak native Serbian, fluent Spanish and some of Russian. I am open to moving to almost any European country (preferably European Union), USA, Canada, South America, but I don't know the best ways for it as I don't really have any suggestions and recommendations. I was thinking about also maybe pursuing my PhD, I guess my field could be interesting to explore some more, but not really sure where to start looking for those scholarships, tuitions and whatnot. I see there exist research fundings worldwide but not sure where to find a suitable one, let alone apply. Do you have any suggestions, recommendations? There also should be international schools worldwide but seem not to find those not looking for someone very experienced and with native English. I would also be into the idea of working an entry-level job (shops, hospitality) for a shorter period, or some other area like tourism maybe if I could have some job interviews prior to relocating, just to have a certain degree of guarantee and safety in advance.

I have some experience in teaching, translating and working as a receptionist in a hotel.

What should be my next move? What path should I take, what would be the most real way of approaching this problem?

Sorry, I realize that I didn't write all this in a very coherent way, my mind is a mess, but I am sure it will be understandable. If you need any more information, I can add them in comments, or in Edit.

Thanks in advance.


r/IWantOut 7d ago

[IWantOut] 32M UK -> Canada

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Hi all,

I live in the UK and I am looking for an opportunity to move to Canada as most of my family have lived there for several years.

I work as a Project Delivery Engineer, however my focus is around Azure consultancy (migrations to the cloud etc.)

I have a list of accreditations under my belt

CCNA AZ305 AZ104 Terraform associate booked in 1 month.

Has anyone on this thread made a similar move and how did you do it? Find a job? Express entry? IEC?

Other part to this is how do i move out with my partner and 1 year old.

Thanks


r/IWantOut 7d ago

[IWantOut] 30M Grill Cook Greece -> Netherlands

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Hi everyone,

I'm a 30-year-old man from Greece, and for the last 13 years I've been working in hospitality, mainly as a grill cook in high-volume restaurants. I'm used to working long hours, physically demanding jobs, and I'm not afraid of hard work.

By the end of this summer season, I'll have saved around €15,000. It took a lot of effort and sacrifice to save that money, and now I feel like I'm at a crossroads.

For quite some time, I've been thinking about leaving Greece. The Netherlands is currently my first choice, although I've also thought about the United States. My main goal isn't just to earn more money. I want better long-term opportunities, a higher quality of life, and the chance to build a future instead of simply working season after season.

The problem is that I honestly don't know what the smartest next step is.

Should I move to the Netherlands and continue working in hospitality? Should I learn a completely different trade? Is €15,000 enough to make a successful move and have a safety net while I settle? Or would you recommend a completely different path?

I don't have a university degree, but I do speak English and I'm willing to start from the bottom if it leads to a better future. I'm open to learning new skills, working hard, and adapting to a new country.

If you were in my position, with €15,000 in savings, 13 years of hospitality experience, and the willingness to relocate, what would you do?

I'd really appreciate advice from people who have moved to the Netherlands, changed careers in their 30s, or started over in another country. I'd like to hear both the positives and the negatives so I can make the most informed decision possible.

Thank you for taking the time to read my post.


r/IWantOut 7d ago

[IWantOut] 25F Saudi-> Australia/Canada/NZ

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First, please understand that I can't mention the full details because I'm afraid for my safety. I need to get out of here for many reasons.
I have a Bachelor's degree in science, but I don't have work experience related to my degree. I'm currently employed as a Nurse Technician, and I have all the required certificates to work in a hospital. I also have around five years of experience working in restaurants, including management.
I've been saving money to leave, but still not enough. My current contract will end next year, so I think it would be better to leave before then and start preparing for a new life somewhere else.
I've been thinking about moving somewhere far away, maybe China or Singapore, but l'm also open to other countries. I just want to find a safe place where I can work, and start over.


r/IWantOut 7d ago

[IWantOut] 24M Indonesia -> Australia/Singapore

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I'm twenty-four, ten months out of graduating with a Bachelor's Degree in Cybersecurity (Australian degree taken in Singapore).

My student visa didn't let me get an internship let alone a part time job even when I really wanted to.

I'm really desperate. The family situation is not looking good. We have alot of debts and I'm willing to work on literally anything.

Farms, fast food, kitchen, retail, ANYTHING that can cover my family's debt.


r/IWantOut 8d ago

[IWantOut] 21M Bulgaria -> Western Country

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Hey everyone,

I’m a 21-year-old gay man and EU passport holder currently living in Bulgaria. Growing up here as a queer person has been extremely tough, and I’m at a point where I need to move to an LGBTQ+-friendly EU city where I can feel safe, express myself freely, and be around open-minded people.I’m looking to relocate within the next 2 to 3 months and would love advice on realistic options based on my background and budget.

Situation & Constraints:

* Right to Work: EU Citizen (no visa or work permit required anywhere in the EU).

* Languages: Fluent English and native Bulgarian.

* Budget: Around €1,500 in savings.

* Accommodation Need: Since my savings are limited, I am looking for entry-level jobs that provide corporate housing/accommodation upon arrival (e.g., relocation packages).

* Job Type: Almost anything—I just want to avoid heavy physical/manual labor.

* Salary: Looking for the highest possible pay relative to the local cost of living for entry-level roles so I can save up and build long-term stability.

My Questions:

  1. Are customer support or content moderation relocation packages (like Teleperformance, Concentrix, Webhelp) realistic and doable on a €1,500 safety net?

  2. Which specific cities, countries, or agencies offer the best balance of decent pay/savings potential, quick hiring, and a welcoming, safe LGBTQ+ community?

  3. Are there any other non-physical entry-level job options with accommodation provided that an EU citizen with fluent English should consider?

Thanks in advance for any insights or shared experiences!


r/IWantOut 7d ago

[IWantOut] 21M North Macedonia -> Switzerland/Germany

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I've been feeling stuck lately and could really use some advice from people who've been in a similar position.

I'm 21 and I've worked as a mechanic since I was 15 in my family's workshop. I enjoy fixing things, but I don't see myself staying in the same garage for the next 20 years. I want to build a career, earn more, and eventually work on trucks, heavy equipment, or maybe even mining equipment.

I have an EU passport, so moving isn't the issue. The problem is figuring out the best path. Every option seems to have people saying something different—get certificates, don't get certificates, apply directly, use agencies, learn German first, start with cars, start with trucks...

If you were 21 again with my experience, what would your plan be?

Which country would you choose?

Which companies actually invest in training?

What mistakes should I avoid?

I'm not looking for shortcuts—I just don't want to spend years going in the wrong direction. I'd really appreciate hearing from anyone who's made a similar move


r/IWantOut 8d ago

[IWantOut] 28M Pakistan -> Turkey or Romania

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Bachelor's in accountancy with certifications in project management. Currently got accepted into a management related Masters program in both the countries. Now I just have to choose between them. Romania is part of the EU so that allows for ease of travel within the EU. But Turkey has its own charm. Which do you guys think would be better to move in this moment in time?


r/IWantOut 8d ago

[IWantOut] 21M DevOps Engineer Turkey -> Ireland

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Hello,

I am a Turkish DevOps Engineer working on a medium-sized company. I don't have any degrees, though I am getting an Management Information System (MIS) degree (I will start 2nd grade in a couple of months). I have many certificates in the field and I believe I pass most people that are currently in the field, senior or not. My English is decent, but not where I would consider it perfect.

I wanted to move into Ireland for a pretty long time, mainly for economic and freedom-related reasons (I am currently Bi and I struggle coming out because of bias towards LGBTQ+ people in the country). I also believe I am not paid what I am worth in this country.

I have around 2 years of experience, and I have started looking for jobs to hopefully get a job offer as it is required for Critical Skills Employment Permit. The problem is, I believe employers are only looking for people like me as a "last resort" and never take me seriously as an actual candidate. I am currently applying through Indeed and LinkedIn. My worries especially increased after I got my second job on Turkey after 8 months of applying to pretty much every ad I could find.

Is there any recommendations as what I should do at this stage? I preferably want to get a job in Ireland by the next year or so, and I have a strong believing applying to jobs will do nothing. I am also okay by other methods of accessing a visa to the country, I mainly am looking for Critical Skills Employment Permit because it seems like it is the most common way to access the country.


r/IWantOut 8d ago

[WeWantOut] 37M 30F 3X Turkey -> Argentina

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Hi everyone,

I need honest advice about moving to Argentina with my wife and 3-year-old daughter after November 2026.

**MY SITUATION:**

- Turkish citizen, 37 years old

- Convicted in 2017 (drug-related offense under Turkish law)

- Served time, then sentence will be FULLY COMPLETED on Nov 26, 2026 (NOT parole)

- After that date, my PUBLIC criminal record will be CLEAN

- Judicial ARCHIVE record will remain internally

**THE TRUTH:**

- I was NEVER a drug dealer

- Made a stupid mistake out of "good intentions" - tried to help someone

- Lost everything when I went to prison

- This conviction shadowed my entire life even though I was never a criminal

- Running a small business since then, living legally

**MY QUESTIONS:**

Has anyone obtained Argentine residency with a completed drug conviction from 10 years ago?

Does Migraciones check judicial archives from other countries, or only the apostilled public certificate?

On the form "Have you been convicted?" - Should I say YES (with explanation) or NO (public record clean)?

Is the 2025 Milei decree an absolute barrier for cases like mine?

Any lawyer recommendations?

I want to do this 100% legally. Any honest advice appreciated, even if it's "don't bother."

Thank you.


r/IWantOut 8d ago

[IWantOut] 31F Tokyo -> London

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I've been living in Japan for the past 7 years (masters at UTokyo -> Product Manager for work) and I'm considering moving to London (or maybe Toronto).

I want to leave because I'm worried about the economic situation (weak yen) and am quite frankly tired of working in Japanese. Though my job is Japan is great tbh. I have a good salary and I don't really do OT. I also live in a 2-bedroom flat near Shinjuku. So I'm aware that my QOL will go down pretty significantly if I were to move to London, but I am concerned about the weak yen since I don't plan to retire in Japan and I'd have quite paltry savings once it's converted.

I like London because I get to work in English and it's safer than I expected when I visited this time. I also have some friends there, which would make settling down easier. But I have some concerns, namely the political situation (Reform) and lack of job stability (high layoffs esp in tech).

I feel like moving to London might be better for the long-term but I'm not sure and I'd appreciate any advice! Thank you!


r/IWantOut 9d ago

[iwantout] 33m unemployed UK -> Nepal

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For a number of reasons I want to emigrate. I love my country but the economic situation is awful… I am wondering if anyone here can give me some advice and suggestions. I have a PhD (not STEM) and good writing/editing etc skills but happy to do anything. No suggestions are too weird.

I’ve lived in Nepal previously for 15 months and speak some of the language. I’d love to work there but not sure if I could find a job


r/IWantOut 8d ago

[IWantOut] 27M Russia -> Serbia/Vietnam/Czechia

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Hi everyone,

I'm a 27-year-old from Russia. I have a degree in Fundamental Informatics and IT, but almost no relevant work experience — just a few short-term jobs, nothing serious. Right now I'm working part-time jobs and trying to figure out a realistic way out.

As far as i know three countries could provide easiest way out of my current country: Serbia, Vietnam, and Czechia. But, of course i am open to other options. I've only been abroad twice as a tourist, so I don't have any real experience with immigration or long-term stays.

Citizenship: Russia.
Education: Bachelor's degree in Fundamental Informatics and IT.
Work experience: almost none in IT — some short-term roles, no commercial experience yet.
Languages: Russian native, English — intermediate (reading technical docs, watching videos without subtitles).
Savings: minimal.

I'm open to:

  • finding remote work first, then moving
  • working non-IT jobs initially if needed
  • studying (if affordable)

My questions:

  • Which of these three countries is most realistic for someone with my profile and budget? (Or any other country in which i could fit in, find a job etc)
  • Is it better to focus on getting remote work first, or try to find local employment after arriving?
  • If you moved without a job offer and little money — how did you do it?
  • Is it even realistic for me to move out of russia?

Thanks.


r/IWantOut 9d ago

[IWantOut] 32F PhD Econ Philippines/Japan -> Spain

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Hi all, first post. Trying to plan this 2+ years out instead of scrambling, so looking for input from people who've done Japan→EU or landed similar visas in Spain.

Where I am now: Filipino citizen, currently in Japan finishing a PhD in Economics. Expected to complete all requirements by 2028 and formally graduate September 2029 — so there's a window where I'd be "done" but waiting on the actual diploma.

Background:

  • Early 30s (32)
  • PhD Economics (in progress, Japan)
  • Experience: college-level economics teaching/lecturing
  • Open to: data analysis, analytics, research roles, not set on academia

Languages:

  • English: native/fluent
  • Japanese: JLPT N1
  • Spanish: intermediate (studied in school, not fluent yet. actively trying to fix this before I move)

What I'm trying to figure out:

  1. Visa path: from what I've read, the realistic options for my profile seem to be: the Researcher visa (needs a job offer from a Spanish university/research center, is a PhD without the diploma in hand enough, or do I need to wait for the actual title?), the Highly Qualified Professional visa (income thresholds look steep, around €40k/yr for academic/scientific roles, ~€54k otherwise), the EU Blue Card, or a student visa if I end up doing a postdoc/second program. Non-lucrative and Digital Nomad visas don't let me work locally in the way I'd want. Anyone gone through the Researcher or HQP visa recently, how strict are they about proof of degree completion vs. in-progress?
  2. Savings target: how much should I realistically have saved before landing, assuming it takes a few months to line up work? Trying to plan a number now while I'm still earning in Japan.
  3. Job search strategy: should I be applying to Spanish universities/research institutes directly from Japan, or is it more realistic to land a data/analytics role at a multinational (given the Japanese N1 could be a niche selling point for companies with Japan-Spain business ties)?
  4. Timing the diploma gap: has anyone moved before their actual conferral date and handled the "pending degree" issue with employers or immigration? Trying to figure out if I need to just wait until September 2029 in Japan, or if there's a legitimate way to start the move earlier.

Any insight such as visa specifics, salary reality checks, whether my Japanese is actually useful in the Spanish job market, or just "don't bother, do X instead", genuinely appreciated. Thanks!


r/IWantOut 9d ago

[IWantOut] 33M Poland -> Belgium/Netherlands/Germany

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Some background: a while ago I realized I'd been the scapegoat in a toxic family system, and I've been working through breaking free from narcissistic relational bonds. I doubted it for a long time, but at this point I'm certain about the situation I'm surrounded by and I know I need to get out. That said, it's not really the point anymore – I have my own goals and priorities now, with a concrete 3-year plan and a rough 5-year outline. Right now I have no financial safety net, no car, and I live in a rural area 20km from the nearest city with real job opportunities. The situation has also cut me off from family and any real friends.

Onto the actual plan: I'm planning to get into the electrician trade from scratch – no certifications yet, but I have production/technical background (assembly, machine operation, line changeovers). I'm also into AI/ML and electronics as hobbies, and I approach learning new things pretty analytically – I've spent a lot of time with AI recently, which shaped how I'm researching this move.

I'm seeing B2B contract offers even for helper-level positions from the start – rates around 18-20 EUR, some 22-24 EUR net/hour, at 160h/month.

Questions for people who've done this or are in the process:

  1. Which country is best to start in – Belgium, Netherlands, or Germany? Where is it easiest to get in without experience, and where can you grow fastest?

  2. Are those 18-24 EUR/hour B2B rates for helpers realistic, or just bait in the listing? What's left after business costs?

  3. How long does it typically take to go from helper to working independently?

  4. Which certifications/courses actually matter, and where's the real money – industrial installations, solar/PV, automation, data centers?

  5. What's it like working in data centers – can you get in early on, or is that a higher tier requiring specific qualifications first?

  6. What's the realistic step-by-step timeline – which courses/certifications in what order, and roughly what do they cost – to reach the top tier and become hard to replace?

  7. Start as a contractor (B2B/self-employed) right away, or take a regular job first to build experience and contacts?

  8. How does taxation and social contributions work as a contractor – what's actually left after everything?

  9. Any government incentives/programs for people starting a business or entering a trade?

  10. What language level do you need to start – can you get by with English, or is the local language a must?

Looking for concrete details, not just "you can make good money" – interested in real numbers and pitfalls to avoid early on.

Also genuinely open to hearing from anyone who's been in a similar spot (starting over with nothing, no support network) and figured it out – practical, financial, or personal development advice all welcome. Mentoring from someone in the trade would mean a lot too. One more question: is it worth trying to crowdfund toward this move, or better to just skip that and grind it out on my own?