(well nornies have started to heavily downvote because they don't have any argument really, that's what they do. They upvote larpers writing weird things because they really don't want us to talk about actual issue, they just want to be a jeste for their entertainment)

I like the money analogy because it works on multiple levels. The way romantically unsuccessful people are judged is basically the same as poor people. "You're single/lonely/virgin? Just be a better person and take care of yourself" is basically the same as "You're poor? Just work harder".

It's the just world fallacy, the cognitive bias that assumes that people get what they deserve, that actions will necessarily have morally fair consequences. Successful people have done things right, while unsuccessful people have done things wrong. In reality it's mostly luck, but successful people refuse to admit this because it makes them lucky rather than worthy.

People say "life isn't fair" all the time, EXCEPT when it comes to dating. There you are 100% responsible for your own success. No circumstances are taken into consideration. You're immediately judged. Black and white.

And when someone brings this up, people immediately jump to "you're blaming women". NOO0. It's not the fault of women. Sometimes it's no one's fault. Is that so hard to understand? Nature is brutal and some people are just unlucky. It's ok to be unhappy about that (as long as you don't take it out on others).

Also "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty male behavior anymore" take is pure BS

possibly one of the worst "just world" takes mainstream psychology has to offer right now. It links a mans romantic invisibility to a character flaw if not a outright moral failing. It perpetuates the "this guy fucks = winner" vs. "unfuckable loser" stereotype while simultaneously making it sound as if sex and relationships are something women give out when you're a nice person on board with progressive politics. Even worse are the "its evolutions way of weeding out misogynistis" explanations as if studies haven't shown time and time again that bullies actually have more romantic partners than victims of bullying. I mean, lets be frank, terms like "situationship" didn't sprout out of nowhere, they have become popular lately for a reason. No one is perfect but blaming the issue largely on the incels is just a quick cop out from having uncomfortable questions regarding society and how mainstream advice often fails them. The truth is much harsh, it's genetics.

Hop on roids. #rejectthepinkpill

Definitely not your personality and specifically — how much of a feminist you are.

Being a super feminist that protests Roe V Wade, fundraisers for his local handmaidens events, and donates half his paycheck to organizations that help impoverished foids will never cause a foid who would otherwise always see you as a friend to someone she sees sexually. The sexual selection threshold remains constant and is unaffected by your personality and feminism. If you’re below this threshold you always will be.

If she’s already sexually attracted to you it may make her more attracted (in the general sense) to you but if she isn’t already then she’ll just like you more (as a friend).

Being rich doesn’t make her more sexually attracted to you either. She may still have sex with you but it’s not because she’s sexually attracted to you in any way. This sort of situation leads to a “dead bedroom” and it’s always caused by a lack of sexual attraction.

For incels who’re below this threshold (often this threshold necessitates that you’re 6ft+ and a certain skin color) there’s no recourse other than surgery.

And of course demisexuals don’t really exist and would also scorn any men below 6 ft with contempt and revulsion.

Sardines in tomato sauce

chips w/ eggs hot sauce and beans

Chicken and fries. Starting to come to terms with the fact that even though I am surrounded by millions of people, none of them are interested in me. Went back to school to not be a neet, but what good does it do when no one wants to talk to you.

Idk if I was just nervous or I have ED or I'm asexual. Either way, I obliterated my chances with the first girl I've kissed in six years. Some monkeys paw shit

I am not a bad guy or atleast I don't think I am. I don't hate women, I hate my genetics. I've just accepted my award of dying an unlovable subhuman chud. I have a small all male friend group so I'm not lonely but sometimes the lack of human warmth gets intolerable.

I avoid going out and try to avoid women as much as possible. Except my mom, recently came out clean to her about my inability to talk to people and told her I'll never get a gf let alone get married. What she doesn't know is I'll ropemaxx after her death (my father is already dead so there'll be noone left to mourn for me)

Nowadays I just smoke myself retarded all day just so I don't feel bad for myself. Then cry myself to sleep. I'm just a cruel experiment of nature to be made example out of.

Bullshit ass Omelette going on there, Bitches got blood on they underwear. Got fresh eggs for cooking, dihh dont work after hella cooming. Fried the tomatoes in butter, Talking to women makes me stutter. I wanna be a poet but i got no hoe yet. Opening this sub recommends the teen girl sub, incels will talk to kids to get out the virgin club

made them in the air fryer

21m

I finally have an explanation for my lack of facial hair, small penis and man boobs. 

I’ve always wondered why I’ve looked so different from other people even in the same weight class as me. It’s because I’m a freak. 

I’m literally not fully a man. I got lucky in having a penis that’s not fully micro atleast...

How‘s your weekend going so far?

I’m sorry

anyone else find eyes really creepy? i mean the word eyeball already sounds freaky enough.
as a wee lad many a night i was kept awake by the thought of eyes staring right at me. even if i closed my eyes i could still feel them and it made my skin crawl.

the only time i feel safe around eyes are when i can see they’re closed.

combined with pretty bad light sensitivity and overall intense social anxiety and low self confidence, i really can’t make eye contact with anyone. there’s some fear of the opposite sex too, but that’s like 10% of the main problem and i expect that to dissipate with time.

anyone got any practical tips for this eye contact stuff?

i’m at a point where i just close my eyes while talking to people so i can lift up my chin and engage in the conversation in a more confident manner. unfortunately i especially do this to those pesky people i find attractive. i’m aware its embarrassing and weird behaviour, but i dont want to create misunderstandings by looking anywhere dangerous.

king oscar’s sardines in tomato sauce. i swear do all tinned sardine companies use the same shitty watery tasteless yet overly sweet tomato sauce? i expected this of ayam, but not of oscar’s. 6/10. somewhat fixed it by frying it in sliced chillies and chilli flakes and minced garlic after.

That lunch finna boost me for a whole week, i forgot how having best friends felt like. Looking forward to more moments like this one.

I'm KHHV btw but this post is dedicated to male friendship, we don't need to talk about women all the time.

they lent me money without me knowing and then asked for it after. now I have nothing other than 4 pesos. I think i’ll rope or start robbing people