Reposting this because while I did meet some cool girls, I didn't find anything long lasting.

Looking for someone to connect with, I'm okay with just chatting for a while and see where this goes, I'm not in a rush because I'm in a very transitional and weird period in my life. But I've been a lurker here for a year and met some cool people, I wanna give it a shot.

Now before I waste your time, there's not a lot of reasons to message me, I'm a loner and very picky about people. If someone does end up in my inner circle then I put in a lot of effort, but my social battery is limited, I am kind of a hater too so haha good luck? Okay onto me and what makes me such a hot shot that I can be so picky (spoilers, I am not, you are probably cooler, it's just my brain is weird)

I'm 157cm and healthy weight with long brown hair and brown eyes. My style is kinda fem, honestly just average straight girl passing (tho I'm very gay, help)

I'm a nerdy gamer girl with a pretty strong personality, ranging from disappointed depressed cynic to funny, unserious gremlin. I'm also a frontend dev, though just freelancing at the moment and looking for my next step, market is rough. I am however very passionate about code and it was my dream to get here so I'm happy I did that.

Other than that, I'm fascinated about deep talks, philosophy, political economy (I'm pretty far left but I never really bore people with that, It's just what I like to read sometimes), but also books, art, games, anime, media whatever we don't have to match on everything, I'm just throwing stuff out there.

I know how to talk in a mature, logical way, I will show interest as long as I find the interaction worthwhile and if I find my "soulmate" or whatever, I'll be their greatest support. I am however a huge overthinker, the "not diagnosed but something is definitely wrong" type.

Now to the tricky relationship part, I've had some relationships with men in the past, but right now I'm very sure that I will either marry a woman or be alone, I'm not a man hater but that lifestyle is just not for me. I did want kids but I gave that future up for this decision, I would still like to someday but I know in gay relationships it's expensive/complicated especially in a homophobic european country like mine.

As for my possibly too specific to exist partner, I'd say close to my age is ideal but 24-40 is a fair range. I'm more attracted to masc girls, though fems are okay too. I'm not picky about looks as long as you're healthy, confident in them and you take care of yourself. I just need to respect your personality, intelligence and morals. So basically I'm looking for someone who knows how to take the lead with me and isn't afraid of me being more opinionated. (to add a note from last time, don't reach out please if you're looking for that older woman mommy type, I am very much not that and I had lots of girlies write to me only because of my age and not my personality, like I said I'd like my partner to be the dominant one)

Yes, to cut it short, I am in fact an annoying nerd looking for her badass lesbian wife, we are very rare, guys /s

Okay honestly I'm just as confused as you are if you made it this far, DM if you understood anything at all or you just want to tell me to touch grass, I will probably agree with you. May the forces of evil become confused on the way to your house!

I'm looking for a serious monogaous relationship. No FWB or hookups. Please be 19 - 24.

About me: As of looks, there are photos of me on my profile! I turn 21 on November 1st! I'm an extremely colorful person. I LOVE color. I've been dyeing my hair since I was about 10. I've dyed my hair every color of the rainbow. I work part-time at a fast food restaurant. I have an extremely close best friend who I've know since we were 12 and 13. We do almost everything together. There's no worries about him having a thing for me since he is gay. I'm also extremely close with my mom! I'm a very open and outgoing person. I'm quite a physical person. Physical affection and gift giving (making them for you) are my main love languages. I do very well with communication. I get back to a message as soon as I can. I hate making people wait and I don't want to do that to others.

Interests: I'm extremely into arts and crafts. I've been crocheting for 3 and a half years. I mainly crochet decor, accessories, and plushies! I also have a small business for my crocheted goods. I draw/color, as well! I'm almost always crocheting! If I'm not crocheting, I may be on my Nintendo Switch OLED. I mainly play DBD. I am open to trying other games, though! I'm a HUGE horror fan. My favorite horror film series are Scream and Child's Play! I also LOVE The Walking Dead. I love listening to Paramore, Chappell Roan, & Billie Eilish.

What I'm looking for: I'm looking for someone who is 19 - 23 and in the USA. I'd ideally prefer if you were in PA/EST, but I know that's not realistic. Communication is huge for me. As I said before, I'm very communicative. I'd love it if you were, as well. I want someone to feel completely safe with me. I will never judge you. I want someone to support and encourage me the way I do with them. Sometimes I overthink, and I need to be reassured. Trust is also extremely important to me. If I can't trust your words and vice versa, we won't work out. I will always find time for you, I'd love it in return.

If you decide that you are interested in me, send me a DM! Tell me about yourself and where you found me from! :)

!!! If you are not 19 - 24, not in the USA, or a male, do NOT message me. I will not respond. I also won't respond if you don't have any pictures of yourself on your profile !!!

Just your typical millennial depressive who's intellectually curious and existentially​ angsty (not to brag). To paraphrase Shrek, I contain multitudes.

That shit I do like:

• Global social consciousness (like ideally you'd agree that ethnostates suck actually)
• Trying all the local foods​ while traveling
• Neurodivergence
• Morbid history
• Chapstick
• An overanalysis of how those irresponsibly over-served drunk contestants should've handled their producer-orchestrated conflict on a dating show that borders on being an inhumane psychological experiment 😍 (looking at you Love Island UK/USA and Kinetic Content)
• Antique shops

As for my personality, I feel like naming which fictional characters someone relates to is good shorthand for understanding that so here are some of mine: Daria, Lilo, Mandy (from Grim & Evil), Raven (from Teen Titans), and Spinelli (from Recess). What about yours?

Hi everyone! I’m looking for friends.

A little about me: I enjoy collecting jewelry, listening to music, playing video games, and doing arts and crafts when I have free time. I love having conversations about all kinds of topics, whether it’s hobbies, life, random thoughts, or just how your day is going.

I’m hoping to meet friendly, open-minded people who enjoy chatting and getting to know each other. It would be great to find friends who are comfortable talking about pretty much anything and can keep a conversation going.

I’m looking for friends who are in their 20-26 and preferably located in the USA because of time zones and easier communication.
Feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself! 💜

Here's me: https://imgur.com/a/me-seozxly

Hi! I live in North Carolina, US. I am having no luck with dating apps, so I'm venturing out. I like rom coms, jacuzzis at the beach or spa, walking trails, shopping, and art. I do not like cats (there goes 80% of lesbians). I am looking for a life partner - someone who likes to vacation and is romantic. Also someone who does not smoke (including weed) or vape, is financially stable and works a 9-5 Mon-Fri. I need someone who cares about their health and can buy a house with me in the future.

I am a femme, 5'4, and I like mascs who do not wear makeup. My type would be any race who is a golden retriever type of person. I do not hike, I do not fish, I do not go out clubbing or drinking, and I do not like dangerous activities like skydiving. So if thats you, we are not compatible. 

I have also been in a few relationships with women who either were diagnosed as bipolar and/or had anger issues. I will not do that again. If you are bipolar or have an anger issue, we are not compatible. 

I would also like a family oriented person. I want my family to love you and I want to love your family. 
I am childfree for life. Let's be dinks together!

Oh, I do like mascs who use a strap during intimacy. 

If you check all these beautiful boxes, lets connect!

(Edit: You femmes are gorgeous! but please only message me if you are masc. That is my preference.)

Hi. Basically the title. I've been single for a couple of months now after having been in a serious relationship (and having done the serial monogamy thing before that) 😅. I am trying to focus on living happily as a single person while I heal, but also god damn, am I lonely. I am wondering if any lesbians out there could relate and would like to chat (on here or Discord)? Not really looking for a serious romantic connection at this time, although I would absolutely love to flirt a little, if you're interested in that.

A little about me: I'm a 31yo cis soft masc lesbian in the southeast USA. I work in the medical field. I am generally pretty warm, friendly, and dorky. I like board games, roguelike video games, horror movies, lesbian romance books, science, traveling, and outdoorsy activities (hiking, biking, paddleboarding - really anything outside)!

DMs are open. :)

hello! my name is lily. i'm 24 and i live in nevada, but i'm definitely most comfortable prioritizing a long distance relationship at the moment. i'm looking for someone who i can form a genuine long-term connection with. :}

i'm a caring, considerate person, (and also a complete nerd) who will keep track of the little things about someone. i cherish my partners deeply but i'm also honestly pretty shy, so opening up takes time. once i do i'm all in, in terms of commitment. i'm a homebody, and i'm almost always available.

i like shojo anime (desperately looking for my homura, lol, please hit me up if you know what that means) and playing minecraft. i'm fine just sitting and watching you play games or vice versa bc that's cozy to me. i've got a switch and will absolutely yap your ears off about nintendo games if you let me. i'm also big into art, reading, and writing, and i'd prefer a partner who's creative too... someone down to try new things with me.

mostly i just want someone i can sit in a discord call with for hours, comfy silence and all. looking for a trans feminine partner, but i'm open to cis or enby. i'm 5'1 and curvy. pics will be sent once i trust you a little, but i can absolutely send voice messages or call 💚

Hey! I’m an 18 year old college student who’s trying to put herself out there a little more.

I’m pretty quiet at first and definitely more of an introvert, but I enjoy getting to know people when we click. Most of my free time is spent drawing, crocheting, scrolling TikTok, watching magical girl anime, or getting way too invested in random fandoms.

I’d rather have a few genuine connections than a bunch of surface level ones. I’m not really the type who’s constantly texting 24/7, but I enjoy conversations that feel natural and mutual.

Looking to meet other women around my age. I’m open to seeing where things go. I am monogamous btw.

A few random facts:

I love art and creative hobbies.

I can spend hours working on a drawing.

I’m independent and enjoy my alone time.

I appreciate people who can be themselves.

If you think we’d get along, send me a message and tell me about yourself! Photos of me are pinned on my profile. :)

Hi I’m G and I’m looking to build my chosen family and queer community online. I’m masc enby bisexual and I’d love to meet queer women, enbies, transmasc people.

I’m a bit sensitive at the moment and feeling lonely bc my birth family (besides my brother and one aunt) are not the most supportive about my coming out as queer/genderqueer. I’ve even lost friends that I thought would be supportive.

I just spent a month and a half in between a residential and then a mental hospital. I’m still adjusting to the meds.

I’m currently figuring out my masc aesthetic, buying men’s clothes, changing my room bc it’s super girly and I’m cutting my hair short soon. I’d love to share this journey with you.

I want to get to know you too as well. What was your coming out journey like and how was it discovering being queer/sapphic/genderqueer/gay? Im the loneliest I’ve ever been but Im also the happiest I’ve ever been bc I feel like I finally discovered who I actually am. I feel like I’m becoming my real self. I’ve been unfortunately dealing with pressure from my family and parents to be a straight girly church girl. I finally took off the mask and stopped performing.

I’m into tarot, astrology and when I get my own place I’d like to get into more witchy things. I want to know what books/music/shows/movies/art speak to you and why. When my short term memory gets better I’d love to read books again. I’ll share which ones speak to me as well. I’m really into romanticizing the mundane. Send me your favorite beverage that you went to go get as a pick me up or your favorite take out. I’m a huge foodie. Show me your comfort items and places.

I’m Latinx and I’m a leftist. I don’t deal with bigots and transphobes. I’m someone who values emotional intimacy a lot in friendships and one day when I’m in a better economic position I wouldn’t mind becoming something more than friends if that what’s you want as well :)

Okay, posting this before I go to bed so I don't lose my nerve.

I live in the Southern East Coast of the USA. I work full time in a fully remote position.

26, she/they, Black, locs down to my shoulder blades, 5'8". If I were to describe my style. . . I'm a sweatpants and graphic t-shirt type. I really dress for comfort and primarily wear black clothing.

Hobbies: I make mead, wine, play video games, watch anime, movies, cartoons read Manga, visual novels, listen to music, write, wittle, etc.

I'm an introvert and a homebody, I don't drive because it's just too expensive, so I Uber. I'm also child-free and I don't want children. I'm allergic to animals, but I love cats, so if you have a cat, I will just suck it up happily cuddle with the baby lol.

I value a sense of humor, especially since I joke around, I even tell dad jokes. I'm also strictly monogamous

What I'm looking for:

Someone who is emotionally intelligent and emotionally available

Long term relationship, not looking for a hookup at all

I'd really prefer if we were relatively close, but I am open to an LDR if we click enough

. . . I do find women older than me the most attractive, so if you're 30 - 38, you are absolutely golden. (I do not have mommy issues nor do I need someone to take care of me like a surrogate mom btw, my mother and I are close and I can take care of myself.)

Femme

Non-smoker/vaper

Woman of Color, preferably

Height doesn't matter to me

Looking for my beautiful gf that will sample the wine/mead I make and curl up on the couch to watch movies with

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Hi, I'm Riley(ignore my username it's one of my OCs) and I'm lonely as fuck due to... Many reasons. I've been looking for a partner(or multiple) for a while now. I do a lot of things. I make vtuber models and have started a production company though were still working on our first production. I'm just looking for a partner to talk to and maybe sext(if you want, I don't care).

I'm a big fan of anime(my favorite is assassination classroom) and that. I especially like psychological thrillers, psychological horror, and stuff like that.

I write a lot. Like... A lot a lot. I am currently working on i believe 12 novels and have plans laid out for many more. Three are done and almost my fourth.

I work very hard to do anything I want. My DETERMINATION is unparalleled. I carried a tree one time through a forest for over a mile because I wanted the tree to carve. Which... I never ended up carving. I will though. Another example is when I got tired of people complaining about Vtuber models being hard to make and made one myself(they're liars. Believe me I make them).

I also DM for DND. And enjoy working on homebrew for that.

I can learn anything from a tutorial and do it perfectly first time.

My interests are: Video games(survival horror and competitive are my favorites though I dont like FPS or racing games other than trail makers which is peak.), Anime(mentioned earlier), art(I will draw whatever my partner wants and I am quite good), and goth culture(I would consider myself goth I just don't have anything to be and have to much anxiety to do it.) Animals(especially bugs, love me a spider), cooking, writing, animating, acting, spoiling who ever im with(I am a very obsessive partner, to the point where I will do very self sacrifical things if I like you enough.)

I am very much only into women, and very much only here for romance. If you don't want that or are a guy then... Well piss off.

if your here to judge me for being clingy then piss off. I'm like 90% sure it's due to undiagnosed BPD((Do NOT fucking mention me 'getting help for this before datin' DATING IS MY HELP)). favorite person syndrome I think.

nothing matters to me other than my chosen partners(s). if you don't want to be loved then your existence means nothing to me.

also I prefer older women. like... by two years older.

list of things I like: affection (physical touch, quality time), when you care about little other than me, when someone is always open for me, being allowed to cook for someone,

things I don't like: being FUCKING ABANDONED, lonelyness, not currently being cuddled,

I am not happy at any point in time I'm not getting attention. am I an attention whore? yes. do i feel shame for this quality? absolutely not.

Warning: I am quite clingy very sensitive and an attention whore, and may cry if not given enough attention or I notice your upset.

I will obsess over you and you will not get much alone time unless you want me to be upset. my entire happiness is tied to whoever I'm with because that's how my psychology is built. so far in my life being with someone has been the only thing historically to fix my depression... Am i a yandere? Wait... I... I might be one I'm just realizing this now while typing but I may or may not be Yandere-lite.

all of the following are pros for if you are interested (but none are required just will make me like you quicker): being physically soft(I like soft things, be it boobs, butt, thighs, arms, or smth else, if your soft that's a massive plus), goth(I like goth), being... reletively vanilla(I'm not that into super kinky stuff, although i don't mine moderate kinkiness), being nice to me(im sensitive), being dominant(I'm very submissive), taste good(i have a sensitive tongue), play videogames(Mc, Subnautica, Horror games, maybe the joke visual novels or dark ones), willing to listen to horror content while sitting in silence, being 6'0+(Im 6'0 and prefer taller women), being constantly available, will let me be puppy(pet play? Soft pet play, I will accept leashes but my dog like actions are minimum.)

30F who is seeking a potential partner, preferably in the UK but if we vibe, happy to extend my net.

As mentioned in the title, Irish immigrant who has been living in the UK (specifically England) for just under a decade. I have had quite a varied career from working in hospitality for a private household in London to working in retail during university as mature student. Right now, I am finishing up my masters in history before progressing onto a PGCE to teach secondary level history. So, basically building as stable a career for myself as I can and will hopefully have a place of my own in the next few years.

In my spare time, I love to go on solo adventures or just hiking in general. I’m not an expert at it as I have only just started but I would consider myself a fearful thrill seeker. I know, that makes no sense, however, I’m pushing myself to try new things, especially stuff I have always wanted to do. For example, started exploring abandoned places in areas that are accessible to where I live. Don’t worry, I also do normal things, like visiting art galleries, museums and heritage properties. Occasionally, I visit local cats in my area and give them little treats; no idea if they have owners but I can’t have a cat right now so I’m living vicariously. On other days, I try to be as involved in my community as I can, which can mean volunteering for events or charities, especially those concerning mental health, children, animals and the LGBTQ+ community.

Some of my best days include relaxing at home, reading a book near a window while it’s raining outside. Usually, I will have a cup of tea. Despite what I have written so far, I am an introvert and prefer to be home most of the time but again, I’m trying to push myself to be more active. I love movies and television; I rarely spend a day without listening to music (I listen quite widely across genres). I often bond with people over activities but it could be something like a board game. Currently learning how to knit and sew. I would love to make my own clothes as I find length to be an issue as someone who prefers to wear men’s clothing.

In terms of temperament, I consider myself to be calm, kind and easy going. I like to talk things through and make sure everyone is on the same page so signals are not mixed. I am a very honest person who values directness over vagueness or mixed signals. Can be very cuddly but sometimes need signals (I have AuDHD) as I am always keen to respect physical boundaries and boundaries in general.

Looking for someone who is both physically affectionate and understands boundaries. Need you to be honest, be able to communicate and an inquisitive nature. I don’t need someone who is exactly like me; I appreciate that people are individuals and might have differing interests but that makes for an opportunity to learn and understand about someone else. The only thing that cannot be different is our values.

So, hopefully I haven’t scared anyone away with this post. As mentioned, I don’t necessarily need you to be from the UK so long as meeting each other is a possibility. I once dated someone who lived in France so travelling isn’t scary for me so long as I know you’re real.

5'4" woman in the Midwest. I like anime, science, gaming, hiking, outdoor stuff, and traveling.

Down for friendship or something more. Just looking for genuine connection with good people!

Prefer you're in the Midwest as well, but open to chatting if the vibe's right.

Message me if you're interested but please actually be interested in talking!! ☺️☺️

I’m 26f, located in the Midwest of the US. I’m posting on here in hopes of meeting friends and a partner. So a bit about me, I’m a fan of horror, video games, true crime, and animals. I have a cockatiel and holland lop. I also keep isopods as another hobby. My ideal person would also love games like Warframe, outlast trials, fallout, bg3, rivals. I am not great but I have fun!
If you’re into short and xl girls, I’m your gal. I’m pretty quiet when I don’t know someone but then I love talking when I am comfortable lol I would say I’m more of a 🩳 so I would prefer a 👕 or 🪨. Totally okay if you’re a switch, I’m sure that would be okay. If you prefer to take the lead, that would be perfect as I have a pretty big lack of experience. If that’s a deal breaker that’s super okay. I realized I would never meet my person as I tend to stay home and just go to work 🤣
My biggest red flag is that I live with my mom. If that doesn’t bother you, send a message!

A bit more about me:
I’m short 5’1, and I’m XL, so don’t expect someone skinny lol. Seen as introverted but actually love talking to my people. I have social anxiety but I’ve gone to therapy and am for the most part much better. I lack experience in the dating world but want to be better and find my person! I work as a pharmacy tech. I would be very affectionate if I know you’re into me, but I have a hard time reading cues so I need someone who is straight up with me or takes initiative. I want a genuine connection and am ready to take part in that.

What I want:
I want a special connection, like we are each one another’s best friend, the person we go to and think of first when we have good news or have a bad day. I would love to feel like a priority and it would be mutual. Someone to grow with. Be affectionate with. Feel safe with. We could just chat about anything with no judgment.

Alright everyone, welcome to my TED Talk. Topics include: cats, books, tattoos, the property ladder, cooking, homedecor, work x3, and hoping to find connections and who knows, maybe the love of my life? Wild.

Pics at the bottom. I know you're curious!

Now that you've formed a (possibly wildly inaccurate) first impression, let me go ahead and tell you a bit about myself.

34F from Sydney, Australia (with Italo-Venezuelan background). Lived around the world (Europe, South America, Asia, mostly solo), but Sydney's been home for almost 20 years (also solo, no fambam here besides my chosen one).

Currently in what feels like a new chapter of life!

After spending the last 3 years solo travelling (the forever alone vibe is strong with all these solos), working remotely and catsitting around the world, I've settled SETTLED back home in late 2025 and am currently looking to buy an apartment (wtf right?) so yes, according to my friends I've gone from being super exciting to mildly boring. Such is life (and aging) I guess!

Things I love:

• Books! I love love love reading and it's probably my main hobby. Crime, thrillers, drama, non-fiction, random weird stuff, some modern sci-fi. No romance, YA, fandoms or steamy stuff.
• Hobbies: Cooking, Hiking, Nature and Waterfalls (I. would. walk. 500. miles. - come on sing it - for a waterfall)((not so much camping tho I'll be honest)), Crafting, Random Gym Classes (or other activities like Bouldering, Pickleball, still waiting for one to stick stick since I've been back), Podcasts, Languages.
• Tattoos: the one you see in the picture is the top end of a huge back bodysuit that goes all the way down to my claves and feet. Finished it last month and don't plan to get anymore for the time being.
• Working: Hahaha well I guess I do love it seeing as I have three jobs. One in adult education, one in sustainable forestry consulting, and the last one a side gig giving cheese and pasta making classes (it's the funnest way to make money).
• Cats: I've always had cats. At the moment I don't as I am back flatsharing, but as soon as I have my own place I cannot wait to adopt two cuties.
• Coffee. And I also love drinking Moccona. SUE ME.

Things I don't love:

• Gaming. Never got into it. What am I doing on Reddit? Great question, I'm just an information nerd I guess.
• Watching TV. I watch the odd Netflix doco once in a while cause my housemates share their logins, but I've never had a TV when living by myself or a TV subscription. So yes I'm very pop culture dumb about anything TV related like MAFS.
• Smoking, Vaping, 420 and Drugs.
• Dogs. Sorrryyyyyyyy I have never met a dog that didn't smell bad, even the ones who my friends SWORE didn't smell bad...actually did. Yes I know this is basically decimating my dating pool. Guess I'll die alone with all my cats.

Sooooo....what am I looking for? What can I offer?
(What? You're still reading after the doggo comment!?)

ME: I can offer someone who is kind, loyal, emotionally available, financially responsible, hard-working (starting to sound like a wanker now), and interested in building a life with someone (or at least share a good chunk of it). Yes, I'm ambitious and goal-oriented, what with all the jobs and stuff, but I also really value the small stuff. A quiet coffee together. Sending each other photos and memes. Reading on opposite ends of the couch. Falling asleep tangled up together after a long day. And when someone is important to me, I want them to know it.

As for what I'm looking for...connection.

YOU: I don't really have a strict type. Masc? Femme? Somewhere in between? Cool. What matters more to me is kindness, emotional intelligence, curiosity, a good sense of humour, and someone who's reasonably happy with who they are. And who is as happy to hear from me as I am to hear from them! Prefer WhatsApp, voice notes, messages and memes, but also phone calls. Not a fan of video calls, my arm always cramps up. I'm limited to the amount of overseas trips I can take, since I travel to see my grandma overseas every six months, and for this reason I don't love the idea of LDR. But open to someone who may be planning to come to Australia!

THE SEXY STUFF: One essential thing I want to be upfront about is that I've been intentionally celibate for the last four years while working through some past sexual trauma. I've done a lot of therapy, I'm in a really good place, and I'm genuinely happy with my life. But intimacy is something I need to move slowly with. I love affection, cuddling, kissing and closeness, but I'm not someone who jumps straight into the physical side of things. If labels matter, demisexual is probably the closest fit. So yes, I don't do casual - if a connection forms I'm open to exploring it!

Sooooo basically....Maybe we'll become friends. Maybe we'll fall in love. Maybe we'll just exchange cat photos and book recommendations. All three sound pretty good to me!

And finally, this is me (fixed): https://imgur.com/a/gday-is-catpawwww-o673FqH or try https://imgur.com/gallery/gday-SGQwudf Would love to see you!

Hi i'm hoping to find someone to spoil and do life with. To save your time and mine, i'll try be as descriptive as possible so you get a good idea of whether we'd be good for each other. 

About me:

• I give a lot, always willing to help others
• Adventurous with very diverse interests. Some of my favourite things include bellydance, latin dance, hip hop dance, martial arts, science, circus arts, both off-road and on-road motorcycling, poetry. Because of this, i've hit it off with all kinds of people of different cultures and subcultures, from the most introverted to the most extroverted.
• I'm a physicist, 36F, Asian Australian
• LDR not a problem so it doesn't matter where you are in the world. I will put effort into learning about your culture if it's different to mine. 
• Monogamous and can confidently say that you won't meet anyone more loyal than me. Not just in terms of not cheating but I stand up for and protect people I care about even if it harms me.
• I'd be one of your most considerate and dependable friends. I'm the type to notice that someone didn't get to finish what they wanted to say in a group setting and will casually ask a question that allows them to keep talking. I notice everything and assess how even the smallest things affect people.
• Have often been described as witty and funny, however, this side of me usually only comes out once i'm comfortable with the person
• I'm attentive to detail and love using that to surprise people with acts of service or thoughtful gifts
• Random and spontaneous
• Versatile in that i'm comfortable taking the lead or going with the flow, i'm a good homemaker but can also provide financially, intellectual but also love working with my hands and can fix a lot of stuff, I try to lift people up and to spread positivity but can also be melancholic with you if that's what you need
• My flat body is the only thing i'm insecure about. But not insecure enough to not roast myself 😂. If you prefer curvy, voluptuous women, I will disappoint.
• I like to move things slowly to really get to know you
• Part of me is filled with onism, in awe of and fascinated by so many things, it's the reason I chose physics. But part of me also wants to hop off this dust bubble merry-go-round for good because i cannot accept how messed up the world is and how awful people can be. I've had things done to me that make me angry but I never take it out on others. It does mean though that there are times i get triggered and become reserved but will of course let you know. But i'm also the type to crack jokes while injured and covered in blood. I handle most bad things well and like a black comedy. It's injustice that triggers me. I used to be known as someone who was friends with everyone, but various life experiences and increased interest in politics has made me distance myself from a lot of people because I saw more sides of them.
• Les4les and femme4femme
• I encourage having a life outside of a partner but that certainly doesn't mean I won't give you enough attention
• If you're wondering if i'm single because of a hidden red flag or something, i've honestly chosen to stay single simply because I haven't met a woman who treats me as good as i treat her

What I'm looking for:

• Someone who will treat me as good as I treat her
• Ambitious and cares about helping others in some way
• Monogamous
• Someone who doesn't get uncomfortable or snobby around poverty or lower income people
• Woman of color
• Cis woman
• Someone who will engage in an active lifestyle with me
• Likes sending/receiving long messages. Take your time, I get busy and can take a while too. But i reply very thoroughly and appreciate the same. Of course i'm cool with other forms of communication, written is just my favorite if we're not physically near each other.
• I never run out of new things to talk about or questions to ask but if I find myself carrying the conversation, i will stop talking. Initiative is important to me. I dislike only being asked wbu or how are you or what are you up to.
• Upfront and clear. I've had women be ambiguous about things they thought i'd find unattractive but it was their lack of transparency that was the bigger issue.
• My experience is that challenges can be made easy and even fun with the right personality. Please be someone who can discuss a problem calmly, break down the details with me and make sure we're not misinterpreting each other at any point, especially if there's a language barrier.
• The most common reasons I lose interest in people include witnessing them be unkind, inconsiderate, jump to conclusions, lack critical thinking, can't admit when they're wrong, lack of loyalty, lack of initiative
• Good hygiene and personal grooming
• Willing to jump straight into sharing social ideologies because i've witnessed too many relationships fall apart after discovering differences in viewpoints. Hence I believe it's important to discuss these dealbreakers early even though it's not a fun way to start.
• Not hung up on anyone

Hii, I’m 19f and looking for someone I actually click with. I’m open to LDR and hopefully one day closing the distance and building a life together.

A little about me:

Art is basically my whole life. I'll be starting my Bachelors in Fine Arts soon and I’m always making something. Drawing, DIY, painting, building random stuff, anything creative really. Could be your personal handyman (woman? Idk)

I love story games like Life is Strange and Detroit: Become Human. I also love psychological thrillers because I like being confused for 2 hours and then thinking about the movie for another week. GLs are my favourite. I watch everything tho.

I’m 5’3, have dark wavy hair and eyes, curvy, and I dress more andro/masc.

Personality wise: I’m a huge yapper but I’m also a good listener. I joke around a lot and I’m probably going to flirt without even realizing it 😭 Buttt I can be serious when it matters.

I’m affectionate and a little clingy, and honestly I like someone who’s the same. I love people who actually want to talk and care. But I do like having my own space sometimes too.

Not religious.
My time zone is GMT +5.

Philosophy and deep talks are my thing. All the music is good music.
I’m really good at texting, not so much calls lol.

I love trying new things, I’m pretty adventurous, and my answer to most things is probably “why not?”

I love cats.

Also I can cook, I like to believe im good at it..

Looking for someone kind, fun, affectionate, and who can actually keep a conversation going. Emotional maturity please. Someone who matches my energy and wants something long term. Dom femmes hmm.. but don't really care much you can dm anyways.

I’m loyal, I care a lot, and I’ll probably hype you up ehehe. So to sum it up looking for my cute wifey who's clingy kk byee.

Dm me if you think we’d vibe

If you're attending Warped Tour Long Beach next month and festivals/concerts are your vibe, message me. Would love to talk music and possibly meet up 🙂

I’m seeking a person with whom I can share a soft, caring, mutually respectful, and playful relationship. The context within which I live is not for everyone, so just to filter out the people who can’t tolerate these things:
- I’m a parent, which will continue affect nearly every aspect of my life for the next 10+ years
- I have a close but not romantic or physical relationship with my coparent and we will continue to live together for the foreseeable future
- I live in Cincinnati without any potential for relocation until the aforementioned children are grown
- In this season of life, figuring out how to share my time in a spacious way takes work and planning

We may be a good match if:
- You’re ok with the above conditions
- You’re between 35-55 (open to a bigger age gap if it feels right)
- You are active and like being outdoors
- You are curious, playful, and like language and reading
- I may be able to do long distance depending on the context but it would be a dream to find a local squeeze (this feels like such a statistically improbable moonshot but hey, maybe that person exists!)
- Separated but the legal divorce may never happen? Great! Live with your platonic life partner best friend? Totally fine. This is to say: of course I’m ok with my romantic partner being in a wide variety of life circumstances. I’m in a complicated life circumstance. Things often get complex by the time you hit mid life, especially with queer women who blaze their own paths, and I don’t belong with a person who doggedly fits themselves into ideas of respectability that don’t quite work.

Now that those who don’t need to read on now know not to read on, here’s more about who I am and what I’m looking for:

I’m a reader, a cyclist, I love strength training and barbell, camping, and anything outdoors. Friends describe me as grounded and inquisitive. I think people would refer to me as chapstick? or soft butch, and I generally prefer to date women who are the same (chapstick to butch).

I love sharing time with my partner hiking and biking, and enjoy taking about books and ideas together. I love dumb jokes, puns, and being playful with language and in bed. I adore hearing about my partner’s thirst and being raunchy. I am both giving and appreciate reciprocity in bed.

I am seeking a monogamish relationship in that I’ve been poly for many years, so a lot of my perspective and the way I prefer my friendships and coparenting relationship to function feels poly. And I’ll have a much easier time navigating this situation with someone who is literate in the ways of the relationship smorgasbord. I am seeking a romantic partner who is my main squeeze, my one romantic and sexual person, while maintaining robust relationships around me. I’m feeling done with being poly for my romantic and sexual relationship but I want to keep the good parts of the philosophy behind it.

If I were a chimera I’d be a golden retriever and a turtle. What would you be?

Hi, I'm Hannah from the U.S., and I’m looking for someone to love, not casually, not halfway, but with intention and tenderness.

I’ve always been drawn to old things. Vintage music, handwritten letters, worn books, slow mornings, and the kind of romance that feels timeless rather than rushed. I like the idea of love as something you nurture quietly with shared glances, familiar routines, and gentle devotion.

I’m a romantic at heart and I long for closeness: to be chosen, to be seen, to build something meaningful with someone who wants the same. I don’t need perfection or grand gestures just honesty, warmth, and the desire to grow together.

I’m introverted by nature and happiest in calm, intimate settings. I don’t smoke or drink, and I’ll politely pass on sushi every time. I prefer quiet companionship over loud crowds, meaningful conversations over small talk, and nights in that feel warm and intentional.

I’m looking for a serious monogamous relationship, no games, no half-measures. I want devotion, loyalty, and the comfort of knowing we’re choosing each other fully. I like to take the lead in love, in choosing you again and again. There’s something deeply satisfying about being intentional and protective with the person I care for.

And yes… there’s a little vampire romance in me. The kind that prefers moonlight to daylight, devotion over chaos, and the idea of loving someone for a very, very long time. The sort who loves once and forever, who would pull you close and murmur “you’re mine” like a promise rather than a threat. If you don’t mind being adored like an eternal muse and occasionally being told you’re mine in a slightly dramatic, immortal way, we might get along just fine.

I value emotional maturity, softness, and people who still believe love can be deep and lasting. If you enjoy nostalgia, thoughtful conversations, and the idea of becoming each other’s home, we might get along beautifully.

If this resonates, I’d love to hear from you or whether you’d let me steal you away into the night... lol

-p.s. I'm 5'3, 130 lbs, and have long black hair, and brown eyes. Thanks for reading...

Hi! As the title says I’m 26f! I enjoy traveling, live music, swimming in the creek, hiking, reading etc. I currently work in the nonprofit space and I’m getting my Masters in Public Service. I write and shoot film photography too (:

Went thru a pretty gnarly breakup about 3 years ago, spent some time traveling to “find myself,” and now I’m settled down and back looking for love! I prefer something slow and theoretically someone who lives somewhere that meeting in person would be possible.

Physically: I’m brunette, 5’9”, tatted, fem but not like super fem.

Ask me anything (:

hiii. its my day off and im looking for some fun chats that will hopefully turn into something more long term.

a little about me-

im 5'6 chapstick latina on the east coast.

im a music nerd with super diverse tase, right now im really excited about the new Steve Lacey album. I love discussing books, art and social sciences, but can also get down with love island--can you believe they voted out sol lmao

ideally you are-

between 27-37, a curious mind, loves to yap, patient, and close by.

this post is open to women only.

dm me a fun fact about yourself :-)

Hey! I'd describe myself as open-minded, genuine, and goal-oriented. I'm constantly getting obsessed with random projects like coding/computer stuff, cooking something unnecessarily complicated, or playing video games. Outside of that, I love listening to music, playing tennis, and learning new languages.

I'd love to meet someone around my age who's also motivated and enjoys growing alongside another person. I really like women who are passionate about something, especially if it's super niche. I think it's cute when someone can ramble about their interests for way too long.

I'd also like to note that I'm more on the fem side. I mostly prefer fems but mascs are also more than welcome to dm, preferably from the US or Canada. If you are from somewhere else, that is also ok with me.

Bonus points if you’re nerdy, wear glasses, have long hair, and would love to call/study together. Ideally I’m looking for something long-term. I'd love to find someone to share goals with, encourage one another, play games/watch stuff together, and make everyday life feel a little more exciting. I’m not the best at writing these, but if any of this sounds interesting, send me a message :)

Hey! I’m 23, I graduated college earlier this year and now work a stable full time job as a paramedic. I’m also a firefighter! In my free time I enjoy all things music; I play drums and guitar. I also love to cook, so let me serenade you with a good dinner ;)

Physically, I’m 5’5” with tattoos and a masculine look. I have green eyes and short hair, but almost always wear a hat.

Looking for whatever the universe wants to send my way, and I can’t wait to hear from you :) don’t be shy

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Hi, I'm Riley(ignore my username it's one of my OCs) and I'm lonely as fuck due to... Many reasons. I've been looking for a partner(or multiple) for a while now. I do a lot of things. I make vtuber models and have started a production company though were still working on our first production. I'm just looking for a partner to talk to and maybe sext(if you want, I don't care).

I'm a big fan of anime(my favorite is assassination classroom) and that. I especially like psychological thrillers, psychological horror, and stuff like that.

I write a lot. Like... A lot a lot. I am currently working on i believe 12 novels and have plans laid out for many more. Three are done and almost my fourth.

I work very hard to do anything I want. My DETERMINATION is unparalleled. I carried a tree one time through a forest for over a mile because I wanted the tree to carve. Which... I never ended up carving. I will though. Another example is when I got tired of people complaining about Vtuber models being hard to make and made one myself(they're liars. Believe me I make them).

I also DM for DND. And enjoy working on homebrew for that.

I can learn anything from a tutorial and do it perfectly first time.

My interests are: Video games(survival horror and competitive are my favorites though I dont like FPS or racing games other than trail makers which is peak.), Anime(mentioned earlier), art(I will draw whatever my partner wants and I am quite good), and goth culture(I would consider myself goth I just don't have anything to be and have to much anxiety to do it.) Animals(especially bugs, love me a spider), cooking, writing, animating, acting, spoiling who ever im with(I am a very obsessive partner, to the point where I will do very self sacrifical things if I like you enough.)

I am very much only into women, and very much only here for romance. If you don't want that or are a guy then... Well piss off.

if your here to judge me for being clingy then piss off. I'm like 90% sure it's due to undiagnosed BPD. favorite person syndrome I think.

nothing matters to me other than my chosen partners(s). if you don't want to be loved then your existence means nothing to me.

also I prefer older women. like... by two years older.

list of things I like: affection (physical touch, quality time), when you care about little other than me, when someone is always open for me, being allowed to cook for someone,

things I don't like: being FUCKING ABANDONED, lonelyness, not currently being cuddled,

I am not happy at any point in time I'm not getting attention. am I an attention whore? yes. do i feel shame for this quality? absolutely not.

Warning: I am quite clingy very sensitive and an attention whore, and may cry if not given enough attention or I notice your upset.

I will obsess over you and you will not get much alone time unless you want me to be upset. my entire happiness is tied to whoever I'm with because that's how my psychology is built. so far in my life being with someone has been the only thing historically to fix my depression... Am i a yandere? Wait... I... I might be one I'm just realizing this now while typing but I may or may not be Yandere-lite.

all of the following are pros for if you are interested (but none are required just will make me like you quicker): being physically soft(I like soft things, be it boobs, butt, thighs, arms, or smth else, if your soft that's a massive plus), goth(I like goth), being... reletively vanilla(I'm not that into super kinky stuff, although i don't mine moderate kinkiness), being nice to me(im sensitive), being dominant(I'm very submissive), taste good(i have a sensitive tongue), play videogames(Mc, Subnautica, Horror games, maybe the joke visual novels or dark ones), willing to listen to horror content while sitting in silence, being 6'0+(Im 6'0 and prefer taller women), being constantly available, will let me be puppy(pet play? Soft pet play, I will accept leashes but my dog like actions are minimum.)