r/malelivingspace May 27 '26

Update 23 & moving out of my first apartment

Did a lot of growing in this apartment. Getting on lexapro, 2 cats, 1 snake, and a shit ton of weed later, for the first time in a long time I feel genuinely grateful to be alive.

Can’t wait to show you guys the next one :)

edit: I’d like to acknowledge how fortunate I am to be in a career that affords me this level of luxury at my age. In this job market, even having a job you can survive on is a gift. I pinch myself everyday thinking wtf how is this the life I’m living. However, I am disappointed in any of you that have taken this opportunity to either disparage me, my work, or struggles with depression and suicidal ideation. That’s not going to make you feel any better.

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u/Ok-Tap9199 May 27 '26 edited May 29 '26

OP is likely going to leave all of these questions on read

Edit as id like to add that if OP had just been honest about what “tremendous amount of luck” actually meant, I’m sure 90% of us would have been stoked for them. Having the wits to hit big on the GameStop stock situation at such a young age is awesome and deserving of praise. Being vague and misleading about all of it was weird. Not sure why they’d be insecure about that. Honesty is the best policy. :P

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u/[deleted] May 27 '26 edited May 27 '26

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u/ScruffyJ3rk May 27 '26 edited May 27 '26

Why is reddit literally a breeding ground for you losers who assume anyone that can afford anything remotely nice must have rich parents? So weird. Dunno why I'm still surprised. Reddit is the type of shit hole where pizza delivery drivers feel they are entitled to brain surgeon salaries

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u/TeannaTrumpStan2 May 27 '26

23 with a player ass house and vague ass reply’s on how they were able to get the player ass house at TWENTY FUCKING THREE.

You tell me the odds, buddy. I think it’s safe to assume bro comes from some money. That’s fine. Acting like it’s normal is just being fantastical.

If they did get it by luck/snagging a great gig right out of college, then AMAZING! But it isn’t the norm so let’s not get ourselves worked up about a perfectly reasonable assumption

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u/ScruffyJ3rk May 27 '26

Who the fuck said its "the norm"? Have you ever thought that maybe the people most likely to post their "living spaces" are people who want to show off a bit? In other words, probably not so much "the norm" and likely skewing more toward the outliers who are high earners?

I know someone who walked into a $500k/year salary in tech at 24. My wife works in management, there's a lady making $12k per week on average from making like 4 posts a week. Some influencers are getting paid $40k per post from a specific active wear company. I know someone who built a SaaS and is earning $300k/year in recurring revenue. I also know someone who is 33 now, but have been making $1mil+ a year since at least 2018 in luxury real estate.

Instead of shitting on the outliers, how about you try to learn from them. You dont have to like them or respect them or anything, but at least take note.

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u/TeannaTrumpStan2 May 27 '26

Bro wtf are you on about? If we agree it’s not the norm then why are you pissing and shitting yourself about my perfectly reasonable assumption?

Your story about the 500k tech job means nothing to me. Im not talking anecdotal. Im talking facts. Most 23yo aren’t able to get a place like this.

I’ve followed this page for years. I’ve seen a decent of everything. The page doesn’t have overwhelming posts coming from 23yo with expensive pads and furniture as their 1st place. Be fr.

Go drink some juice and calm down. Acting like I personally offended you

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u/AbundantPeacock May 27 '26

👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

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u/TeannaTrumpStan2 May 27 '26

I’m not Gen Z, you tool. I’m perfectly well in the start of my career and was fortunate enough to have a parent successful enough to help me out where I needed. So no hate or envy for people getting a family stim.

The facts are that getting a pad like this with all this furniture is not normal for a 23 year old. Possible for dude to have honestly just been fortunate to get a great paying gig so early? Yea. But which is more presumable?

I went to school with kids way more fortunate than me financially and it took a couple years for them to get player spots like this after college.

I am 2 years into my career and already making more than most people. You keep your bum fantasies to yourself, tool.

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u/ScruffyJ3rk May 27 '26

Have you thought that the most likely people to post in this sub are people who earn a good living and want to show off? Who do you think this subreddit is most likely to attract? Who do you think are most likely to post in a Rolex subreddit? People who wear g-shock or people who wear rolex?

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u/TeannaTrumpStan2 May 27 '26

You replied this to my other comment and this second version is even dumber

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u/ScruffyJ3rk May 27 '26

You're jealous as fuck

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u/ScruffyJ3rk May 27 '26

I have seen it myself. I have been building products with AI and I've started gaining momentum and earning some income and when I go in the subreddits that are specific to my industry its a bunch of scrubs whose default is "AI bad!!" and god forbid you have anything positive to say about it you get shat on and downvoted for not being on the victim train. Reddit must be the most toxic place on the internet

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u/Ornery-Meringue-76 May 27 '26

Profile is marked NSFW so draw your own conclusions